First time?

[giggles2]

Are you supposed to spread your legs for the guy or typically is he supposed to? Curious if anybody has ever had 2 guys in one night? Is sex better with two guys or is it a horrible feeling?

[GigglyAbby]

It's a personal choice if your legs are spread and whether you or he does it. Not sure if you're asking about having a 3-some with 2 guys or having sex with 2 guys on a separate occasion the same day. I wouldn't choose either scenario because for me sex is to share precious moments with someone I'm committed to not to share desires and wants with someone who may be sleeping around as I would be which could increase the risk of pregnancy -- HIV/AIDS or STIs. Sadly -- I'm a minority who feels that way.

[giggles2]

Are you supposed to spread your legs for the guy or typically is he supposed to? Curious if anybody has ever had 2 guys in one night? Is sex better with two guys or is it a horrible feeling?
So either I can spread my legs for him or vice versa? I mean sex with 2 guys on the same night but 1 guy after the other guy. One guy enters while a 2nd guy waits to enter you. Is it a better feeling with two? Curious anybody experienced it.

[Pensive]

It's a personal choice if your legs are spread and whether you or he does it. Not sure if you're asking about having a 3-some with 2 guys or having sex with 2 guys on a separate occasion the same day. I wouldn't choose either scenario because for me sex is to share precious moments with someone I'm committed to not to share desires and wants with someone who may be sleeping around as I would be which could increase the risk of pregnancy -- HIV/AIDS or STIs. Sadly -- I'm a minority who feels that way.

Sorry for the long qoute OP xD but Yes!! Finally a girl who shares my feelings on this! I want a high5. But I'll settle for a hug xD

So either I can spread my legs for him or vice versa? I mean sex with 2 guys on the same night but 1 guy after the other guy. One guy enters while a 2nd guy waits to enter you. Is it a better feeling with two? Curious anybody experienced it.

Urm... Avoiding the obvious questions here, like... Why... But wouldn't that just hurt? :/ Pretty damn sensitive afterwards, tis the time for cuddling her trying to wrap around her ^^

[HollisterGirl98]

It's a personal choice if your legs are spread and whether you or he does it. Not sure if you're asking about having a 3-some with 2 guys or having sex with 2 guys on a separate occasion the same day. I wouldn't choose either scenario because for me sex is to share precious moments with someone I'm committed to not to share desires and wants with someone who may be sleeping around as I would be which could increase the risk of pregnancy -- HIV/AIDS or STIs. Sadly -- I'm a minority who feels that way.

I feel the same way!! I don't believe in one night stands at all!

[SammyG17]

Giggles, we understand you are super curious about all of this. Some things we can't answer you because we can't go into details. And sometimes the answers are something we can't describe to you, because every person, and situation is different.

You are asking about 2 guys now, in a sort of "train" fashion. Girly, you haven't even lost your v-card yet, so please slow it down some. You are on the verge of getting into "advanced" sex, and with the many questions you've asked, I don't think you are quite ready.

I'm not trying to be mean. Sex is something...precious. People you do it with should be special. There are vibrators, dildos, squirting versions of both, fake semen...all of that can satisfy your internal questions. It will also help you find out what penetration feels like, among all the other questions you have.

Its perfectly awesome to be curious. But between what we can answer without getting banned, and the deluge (lots) of questions you have, it just seems almost endless. If you don't masturbate, start. it is perfectly normal to do it, and you can understand your own body better by doing it. Learn what makes you feel good, and from that point expand into toys, or friends, or even boys. But please, please be safe the first few times. Until you are absolutely sure the BC method you are using is working for you.

It is tough to answer everything as it applies to you. Some girls like certain things, and others don't. But the one thing we all share in common is we experiment (and most of us probably with ourselves first) And that is ultimately the best advice i can give you. I can sit here and write books about how everything you asked feels to me, but I'm not sure that would answer it completely, because you want to know what its like for you. And not a single person here is able to tell you what you feel like. I'd be happy to answer anything in pm's if you really want details, but...I don't think there's much else I can tell you that someone else hasn't. Other than take a deep breath, let go, figure yourself out first, and make sex something special that you share with someone you really care about.

[Maria_Lopez]

Giggles, we understand you are super curious about all of this. Some things we can't answer you because we can't go into details. And sometimes the answers are something we can't describe to you, because every person, and situation is different.

You are asking about 2 guys now, in a sort of "train" fashion. Girly, you haven't even lost your v-card yet, so please slow it down some. You are on the verge of getting into "advanced" sex, and with the many questions you've asked, I don't think you are quite ready.

I'm not trying to be mean. Sex is something...precious. People you do it with should be special. There are vibrators, dildos, squirting versions of both, fake semen...all of that can satisfy your internal questions. It will also help you find out what penetration feels like, among all the other questions you have.

Its perfectly awesome to be curious. But between what we can answer without getting banned, and the deluge (lots) of questions you have, it just seems almost endless. If you don't masturbate, start. it is perfectly normal to do it, and you can understand your own body better by doing it. Learn what makes you feel good, and from that point expand into toys, or friends, or even boys. But please, please be safe the first few times. Until you are absolutely sure the BC method you are using is working for you.

It is tough to answer everything as it applies to you. Some girls like certain things, and others don't. But the one thing we all share in common is we experiment (and most of us probably with ourselves first) And that is ultimately the best advice i can give you. I can sit here and write books about how everything you asked feels to me, but I'm not sure that would answer it completely, because you want to know what its like for you. And not a single person here is able to tell you what you feel like. I'd be happy to answer anything in pm's if you really want details, but...I don't think there's much else I can tell you that someone else hasn't. Other than take a deep breath, let go, figure yourself out first, and make sex something special that you share with someone you really care about.

sammy, thank you so much for this post. It is exactly what if have been trying to tell ms. Giggles for weeks. This is one of the best articulated and heartfelt posts I've read on VT yet. So again thank you! :)

[kyav]

i always just open mine and id try 2 in the same night if i like them both

[kayleigh]

You cant easily go wrong with sex, it just happens, you have nothing to worry about (if you were) just make sure your at an appropriate age.

[giggles2]

You cant easily go wrong with sex, it just happens, you have nothing to worry about (if you were) just make sure your at an appropriate age.
I think I will just wait a while since it seems like such an overwhelming experience. No need to rush things lol

[Sharona]

Pretty trashy to have 2 in one night - word would get around you were just an easy slut so I hope you wouldn't!
If you spread he knows you are willing so it's less awkward

[Jordynnn]

its so much fun with more than one guy! its turns me on and makes me really horny, which usually makes the sex better!

[girlwonder]

Spread them for him, I think it's sexier and I would try 2 in a night or at the same time if it were right.

[giggles2]

Spread them for him, I think it's sexier and I would try 2 in a night or at the same time if it were right.
Maybe I should just try to find out works on my own. G-spot possible to find without having sex with somebody and keeping my virginity at the same time?

[Sharona]

Spread them for him, I think it's sexier and I would try 2 in a night or at the same time if it were right.

Would you? I got the impression you thought you were a lesbian

[girlwonder]

I was trying to put myself in her spot

[Sharona]

Ah ok