Who makes the first step the guy I assume?

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progression. Is it the guy who is supposed to undress you or is it up to you? For your first time with a guy is it better to have your legs more spread or less? Is there a difference in how easy it goes in if they are spread more? Does it make it easier besides using extra lube. Do you like to see your guy inside of you?

[Elysium]

Who makes the first move is typically a gender thing, so hell, whoever wants to. It doesn't have to be either person, nor "should" it be. There's no "supposed" to. It's whatever you and your partner feel comfortable with.

[nicole97]

Agreed with above. In society we do expect guys to be the ones who make the move, but if you think you both feel ready go for it. As to the other questions, spread your legs and tell him to go slow, practice lots of foreplay (if possible have him either give or come very close to giving you an orgasm during this time) and yes, there is something very exciting looking down for the first time and realizing he's inside of you.

[GigglyAbby]

Agreed with above. In society we do expect guys to be the ones who make the move, but if you think you both feel ready go for it. As to the other questions, spread your legs and tell him to go slow, practice lots of foreplay (if possible have him either give or come very close to giving you an orgasm during this time) and yes, there is something very exciting looking down for the first time and realizing he's inside of you.

Perfect! I'd only use enough lube than too much but if there's foreplay -- there may be no need to use lube. Too much lube could make too slippery.

[giggles2]

I am curious, the wider I spread my legs the easier it is for him to get inside of me? Does it also allow him to get deeper inside as well? I think it would be so exciting to be able to see him actually going inside of me for the first time. What do you think? Anybody ever watch him enter you? What is better for him to get deeper inside doggy or missionary with feet back over my head? Which do you prefer for orgasm? No lube? If I have sex frequently will I eventually get more open. I still can only get one finger inside.

[indoxyl]

how do you even come up with these millions of questions holy crap o.o
also i'd definitely say doggystyle because the guy is in control of how deep/fast/etc it goes in.

[giggles2]

Thanks so much!