Idk What to do!

[Woryh]

Ghaaaa..... I dont know whether i like girls or guys more.... is it wrong to be gay? is it right to be straight.....Sigh.....
I am starting to have thoughts about guys more often then girls........
I really need help :/ but i dont know how i need help.
also.. for some reason i have been becoming more honyier theni used to be and i dont know why and i dont like it!

[Elysium]

As for your increased libido, hormones. Not much to do about that.

It is not wrong to be gay. There's no wrong or right when it comes to your identity and who you are.

[steellord321]

Try to calm down. If you are gay its gonna be fine, you will be *fine.* The point of fact is you don't need help with this. You will become comfortable with your identity, whatever it is, as time passes. Then you'll look back on this and realize there's no need to worry.

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If you're confused, its best not to look at labels. Just think about it, or answer these questions;

Are you sexually attracted to guys/girls or both?
Are you emotionally attracted to guys/girls or both?

If you said guys, you might be gay. If you said both, you might be bisexual.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

It is not wrong at all. It may just be puberty, or it actually could be an actual attractiuon for guys, I don't know and it really doesn't matter.

[GigglyAbby]

If you're confused, its best not to look at labels. Just think about it, or answer these questions;

Are you sexually attracted to guys/girls or both?
Are you emotionally attracted to guys/girls or both?

If you said guys, you might be gay. If you said both, you might be bisexual.

Agreed! To answer the question there's nothing wrong with your sexuality whether you're gay -- bi -- curious -- or straight regardless of what society calls normal or not. The biggest thing you may want to consider is using protection every time and minimize partners as that minimizes your risk of STIs -- HIV/AIDS.

[Walter Powers]

Ghaaaa..... I dont know whether i like girls or guys more.... is it wrong to be gay? is it right to be straight.....Sigh.....
I am starting to have thoughts about guys more often then girls........
I really need help :/ but i dont know how i need help.
also.. for some reason i have been becoming more honyier theni used to be and i dont know why and i dont like it!

Hey a fellow Oregonian!

My advice is to maybe try to think about attractive girls in your life. If what the scientists say is true, I don't think you suddenly change your sexual orientation. You imply you used to think more about girls, and that has changed. I'm no expert, but from what I've heard, that doesn't mean your gay if you used to have more "straight" thoughts, it's just like a temporary sexual obsession of some sort.

[Woryh]

Thank you all for your help! :D

[the_j_man]

Try to experiment with guys. If you like it you could be gay/bi.

[DepartInSecret]

There is nothing wrong with being gay or bi or anything else. You are what you are and if people don't like it then they are not worth knowing. If you are just worried about it don't be, most boys go through a "gay" phase where they are attracted to other guys and it is normal. You may grow out of it you may not either way you are you.
Also you becoming honyier is normal just your hormones having a field day. You will grow out of it. :P

[peaceNlove]

Well, i don't know how old you are, but maybe you're going through puberty? If you're gay, it's okay, if you're straight, it's okay, if you're bi, it's okay. Just keep calm and don't try to rush things. You'll figure it out.

[jaxian rhyder]

Chill ok 1 st its ok to be bi and or gay second it could just be hormones that's y I don't use labels

[Fanta_Lover44]

Ghaaaa..... I dont know whether i like girls or guys more.... is it wrong to be gay? is it right to be straight.....Sigh.....
I am starting to have thoughts about guys more often then girls........
I really need help :/ but i dont know how i need help.
also.. for some reason i have been becoming more honyier theni used to be and i dont know why and i dont like it!

Hey dude, ive had the same thought, theres nothing wrong with being gay, for the past year ive been more attracted to guys then girls.

[indoxyl]

its not wrong to be any kind of sexuality. you just need to relax and really think about this. eventually you'll come to the concclusion of what your sexuality really is.

[Purplebunny]

Experiment take mental notes and explore. Spend time around a girl that you like. The spend time with a particular guy that you are found of. Whichever you like better, or if you like both but one more then the other, there you go. Answer.