Fetishes?

[A.J.]

If its not allowed, i understand, delete it. I know alot of people have sexual fetishes and sometimes i feel weird about mine though. I have a HUGE foot fetish for girls' feet. I feel uncomfertable about it sometimes. Does anybody else have fetishes that they feel weird about?

[bonerboy]

As long as a fetish is something that is not going to cause harm to anybody else or yourself, for that matter, I don't really see anything wrong with having one. However, certain fetishes are best left to the imagination and the fantasy. When brought past that line and into reality, problems can arise.

[Mirataku]

Yeah fetishes are part of our unique psychosexual development :)

[byee]

A.J., a fetish is something that is REQUIRED for arousal and orgasm. That means that without it, nothing happens for you. Do you absolutely NEED it to perform?

There's a difference between 'attraction' and 'fetish'. You can be attracted to anything and it's OK, it's preference and personal taste. A fetish is considered a 'abnormal' because without it, you can't do anything, your penis doesn't work. And, it's abnormal, because arousal is a physical thing, it's sort of automatic. The fetish becomes a prerequisite for a physiological process, so that's why it's abnormal. Can you J/O without needeng to see feet, or do you absolutley have to be looking at them to orgasm?

[KaylaBee]

It may not be one thats too uncomfortable but I have a major neck fetish to the point where I can't be near my girlfriend for more than exactly 47 seconds without atleast touching her neck or I start pulling on her hair... hard...(not sure why)
Thank god it's not something that bothers her to much but in any case to my knowledge, of the people I know, having a foot fetish isn't uncommon.

[Trampster]

I have a few fetishes :D

Wax xD. *Doesn't need to go into any more detail*

Hmmm. And cherries :]

*Quietly leaves thread*

[Aηdy]

I have a few fetishes :D

Wax xD. *Doesn't need to go into any more detail*

Hmmm. And cherries :]

*Quietly leaves thread*

You're going into more detail on msn tomorrow :P


I don't really have any, unless small breasts count :P

[Underground_Network]

There's a major difference between fetishes and paraphilias (paraphilia directly translates to abnormal love). Fetishes are more or less socially acceptable and most people have them, most paraphilias are considered immoral and socially unacceptable. Again, most people have fetishes and there is nothing wrong with that. Paraphilias are what most people are disgusted by. (Homosexuality was considered a paraphilia until I believe 2002 or so) Paraphilia's include but are not limited to necrophilia, pedophilia, necropedophilia (figure that one out yourself), dentrophilia, ect. There are extremely gross ones, and ones that could be considered as acceptable as fetishes (certain paraphilias are specific attractions to strange parts of the body of the opposite and/or same sex). [By strange i mean nonsexual]

[Aηdy]

I think too many people when they hear fetish, think of it as bondage with all the whips and handcuffs etc, which it's obviously not lol.

[normanford]

i get erections from handcuffs and whips and being tied up

[Sugaree]

I have a huge fetish for boobs (like every guy doesn't lol:D)

[MoveAlong]

A.J., a fetish is something that is REQUIRED for arousal and orgasm. That means that without it, nothing happens for you. Do you absolutely NEED it to perform?

There's a difference between 'attraction' and 'fetish'. You can be attracted to anything and it's OK, it's preference and personal taste. A fetish is considered a 'abnormal' because without it, you can't do anything, your penis doesn't work. And, it's abnormal, because arousal is a physical thing, it's sort of automatic. The fetish becomes a prerequisite for a physiological process, so that's why it's abnormal. Can you J/O without needeng to see feet, or do you absolutley have to be looking at them to orgasm?

I agree with this. Although, the term fetish was coined as a slang word (yay!) and now it is used much less out of context, so when someone mentions a fetish and they aren't an aspiring doctor, they mean an attraction.

I have a few things that kinda exite me, like one tattoo here or there or masculine guys (rather than an "omg! hair, shoes, and nails?! seriously!" guy), or twins (yea I admit it), among a few other things.

I personally think things that exite you or that you like (fetishes, if you want to use that) are fine and normal, and something about yourself that you should feel completely comfortable about! I do

[Activate]

I read somewhere this kid had a fetish for wallets...

[Sebastian Michaelis]

lotsa people have a foot fetish

[Sebastian Michaelis]

I like hairy male armpits :)

[Fruit_Tart.]

hairy guys. hahaha. XP

[ShatteredWings]

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