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erikkim
June 14th, 2013, 05:37 PM
okay so uhm... ive had sleep overs every week for 3 months at my best mates house. but it turned into something more. he asked me if i could really grab my dick with two hands and i said yes and he told me to prove it... i showed him and he asked to grab it and the next thing i knew he was giving me a blowjob which felt so amazing. ever since then weve been giving handjobs and blowjobs every single week. when we have sleepovers we would do it before we slept in the same bed... after we woke up... and then after we were dressed. and then we would hang out the whole day. is this gay or just bromance? because im confused. i dont feel anything towards him. its just sexual. :confused:
Miserabilia
June 14th, 2013, 05:40 PM
if its just sexual you are probs. experimenting or bi-curious or bi.
btw I think this is a little too sexual for VT so yea this might get locked
ThE DopEsT
June 14th, 2013, 05:43 PM
It's a bit hard to say. I consider myself to be Bisexual; I am emotionally and sexually attracted to guys, but only just sexually attracted to girls. While it is gay to experiment with another guy, I don't really think it's a big deal. You could probably just be finding out who you're attracted to during this stage in your life, and that may change in the future. Bromance is a bit different since I am pretty sure a bromance doesn't include sexual contact of any type, but if it makes you feel more comfortable to call all of this a bromance then I think that's fine.
Troy35216
June 14th, 2013, 05:45 PM
naw, there's nothing at all gay about sucking each other's dicks every single week. all the straight people I know do that.
Scottydog
June 14th, 2013, 05:47 PM
Its normal to experiment, that's what your doing! Just make sure you are both comfortable with what you are doing!
pyropilot1668
June 15th, 2013, 01:53 AM
Your just "curious"
Fanta_Lover44
June 15th, 2013, 04:10 AM
Your just experimenting, as long as your both comfortable its cool :P
johnsmith1
June 15th, 2013, 06:07 AM
It's just experimentation and curiosity. And we all need that release.
matty123
June 15th, 2013, 07:56 AM
okay so uhm... ive had sleep overs every week for 3 months at my best mates house. but it turned into something more. he asked me if i could really grab my dick with two hands and i said yes and he told me to prove it... i showed him and he asked to grab it and the next thing i knew he was giving me a blowjob which felt so amazing. ever since then weve been giving handjobs and blowjobs every single week. when we have sleepovers we would do it before we slept in the same bed... after we woke up... and then after we were dressed. and then we would hang out the whole day. is this gay or just bromance? because im confused. i dont feel anything towards him. its just sexual. :confused:
since he initiated it you might want to see how he feels about it. it might be more than just sexual for him
Casey.Stoney17
June 15th, 2013, 08:41 AM
prob just curiousness, ask him what he feels it is.
joeyysmitts14
June 15th, 2013, 09:36 AM
Ur ok jus do tht. Dnt let anyone know . Be chill aha no gay just curious
Ariesboy
June 16th, 2013, 08:56 PM
I wish I had a relationship like that
justin 13
June 17th, 2013, 09:07 AM
naw, there's nothing at all gay about sucking each other's dicks every single week. all the straight people I know do that.
Really, wow. cuz all my friends r str8 im gay closeted and I had sleep overs with them and when I tried to even mention stuff like that they called me faggot, not in a rude way but they told me is gay stuff. I wish I had friends like yours.
Troy35216
June 17th, 2013, 12:04 PM
Really, wow. cuz all my friends r str8 im gay closeted and I had sleep overs with them and when I tried to even mention stuff like that they called me faggot, not in a rude way but they told me is gay stuff. I wish I had friends like yours.
see your problem is you live in the real world. it's much more fun here in "nothing is gay not even butt sex, and everyone messes around all the time, 24/7" world.
i wonder how come I never see any posts that say "i kissed a girl. that doesnt' mean I'm straight does it?" with answers of "no, it's just hormones. don't worry about it. you're still really gay."
Harry Smith
June 17th, 2013, 12:15 PM
how did this fall under the radar
The OP is storytelling, we're not a sex forum :locked:
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