Stereotypes disgust me...

[Altiier]

I met this girl named Brook, she is the most amazing girl I have ever met. I get up every morning looking forward to talking to her, but my parents hate her... A few years back she got in with some shady guys, never lost her virginity but still did some stuff. Rumors circulated but they have all gone away, but my mom still heard about them and now she refuses to even meet her. She convinced she some kind of ghetto "hooche momma" as she likes to call her (brook is Bi-Racial), and I'm just like "Really?? You've never met her!" grrr I hate the south... A bunch of ignorant Redneck assholes. Anyway, does anyone have any advice? something to convince my mom to meet her? I'm confident she will change her mind when she finds out what kind of person Brook is.

[Jeremy08]

Perhaps a good family discussion will do if it is really important to you and considering that bringing a girl home to meet your parents is a whole another level. I understand that you disagree completely with your mother but that's fine because that doesn't mean you don't love her. Tell her that she should trust you on this, because you're dealing with your life and you should know what you are doing, who are you choosing. I mean like my parents, they trust me in these kinda stuff because they raised me and they know that I can be rational. Surely your mother will understand. Besides, you can tell her that she had live her life and now it is your turn. Tell her how you really feel for this girl. If your gf hung out with a lot of guys, well that was before she met you.
My apology if this isn't the answer that you wanted. Good luck bro.

[Synyster Shadows]

I feel your pain. I hate stereotypes too. I'm Asian and you know how they go "you have to be perfect in everything." Fuck that.

Anyways, I agree with Jeremy. A family discussion is needed.
Just a side note. Not trying to offend you or piss you off, but you're sorta stereotyping too, how you said "I hate the south... a bunch of ignorant redneck assholes." That isn't necessarily true. Again, not trying to insult you, just saying.
Good luck dude.

[Altiier]

Perhaps a good family discussion will do if it is really important to you and considering that bringing a girl home to meet your parents is a whole another level. I understand that you disagree completely with your mother but that's fine because that doesn't mean you don't love her. Tell her that she should trust you on this, because you're dealing with your life and you should know what you are doing, who are you choosing. I mean like my parents, they trust me in these kinda stuff because they raised me and they know that I can be rational. Surely your mother will understand. Besides, you can tell her that she had live her life and now it is your turn. Tell her how you really feel for this girl. If your gf hung out with a lot of guys, well that was before she met you.
My apology if this isn't the answer that you wanted. Good luck bro.

Thanks, helps a lot. ;)

[Altiier]

I feel your pain. I hate stereotypes too. I'm Asian and you know how they go "you have to be perfect in everything." Fuck that.

Anyways, I agree with Jeremy. A family discussion is needed.
Just a side note. Not trying to offend you or piss you off, but you're sorta stereotyping too, how you said "I hate the south... a bunch of ignorant redneck assholes." That isn't necessarily true. Again, not trying to insult you, just saying.
Good luck dude.

Yes, I agree. I was still angry when I posted this so it showed a little in my diction.

[Synyster Shadows]

Yeah, I wasn't trying to offend you, just so you know

[LouBerry]

I met this girl named Brook, she is the most amazing girl I have ever met. I get up every morning looking forward to talking to her, but my parents hate her... A few years back she got in with some shady guys, never lost her virginity but still did some stuff. Rumors circulated but they have all gone away, but my mom still heard about them and now she refuses to even meet her. She convinced she some kind of ghetto "hooche momma" as she likes to call her (brook is Bi-Racial), and I'm just like "Really?? You've never met her!" grrr I hate the south... A bunch of ignorant Redneck assholes. Anyway, does anyone have any advice? something to convince my mom to meet her? I'm confident she will change her mind when she finds out what kind of person Brook is.


Aye, watch your mouth, boy, you're talking to an "ignorant Redneck asshole" from the South.

I'm just messing with you, but seriously that really is sad. A lot of things about our society and the way we treat others is sad.

[StoneColdNicky]

All you really can do it try to prove your mum wrong. She might make it difficult, and she might also be blinded to Brooke's virtues by her opinion, but stick by her and stick with it. It could take some time!

[Altiier]

Well, my mom ran her off... I cant blame her for not wanting to deal with it. Death metal and weed heals all wounds