So i like this girl...

[Samtomkins01]

Hey,

There is this girl I really like but she barely knows I exist. She is beautiful and I really like her. Trouble is I have never talked to her properly. We are facebook friends but we live on the other side of town from each other so I never get to see her In real life.

Problem is I am always too nervous to inbox her and I don't know why. She likes the same sports team I do so I guess we can bind over that? I really want to get to know her but I'm scared what she will think of me.

So has anyone got any advice? Pop up and talk to her about how she likes my team? Or just say hi? She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen and I think my life would be perfect with her in!

Thanks a lot for your help! x

[Samual]

i think the sports team thing isnt a bad idea. start a convo with her about it and you might be able to become friends. just know that if you become friends, you have to try to get into boyfriend mode soon (really soon) before you get stuck in the dreaded friendzone

[Miserabilia]

Man, I am in your EXACT situation... there is that girl i am crazy about but I have never really talked to her i just can't... i only see her at school so it's just there and its always akward

[Zarakly]

I'm not sure how much help I can be never actually going to get a girl, instead she came for me... but somethings I have learned that are essential, be confident. COnfidence is one of the best things you can have that a girl will like, what I think you should do, is somehow obtain a pair of tickets to that sports team event. Ask her to go with you and then you may become friends which could lead to more than that. What else you could do is to first start talking to her, say hi to her, talk to her on facebook AND in real life. That is really important to talk in real life. How you can start it(it may be cheezy, but it is how I almost got the girl I like to go out with me once) but have their chat pane opened, make sure you friend is online as well. Just "accidently" send a message to her instead saying something about that team or something. From there you could then say it was a mistell and go on and ask her how she is. Or since you mentioned the team, maybe she will talk about that. What I did was "accidently" told her about one of the new video game( turns out she hates video games) but still we started talking, talking enough on facebook to the point where she was going to go with me homecoming/military ball. The thing that ruined it for me was, I eneded up going through some rough times so I didn't have the money which I think she thought I lied to her now. I still think theres next year I can go with her, but my chances may be gone. Don't make the same mistake as me.

"Don't make a girl a promise ... if you know you can't keep it."-Cortana

(thats right just quoted my favorite videogame)