How do I use this??

[Trixybell]

My bf wants to start using a dildo when we are together and he has even picked one out. The problem is I have never used one before and I dont have a clue how the one he has picked works or what I do with it!

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Has anyone seen one of these "things" before?
And how do I use it?

[Pensive]

My bf wants to start using a dildo when we are together and he has even picked one out. The problem is I have never used one before and I dont have a clue how the one he has picked works or what I do with it!

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Has anyone seen one of these "things" before?
And how do I use it?

Firstly, practical sexual advice is forbidden here. Secondly, I've never understood why you'd need a sex toy - and a partner. Unless it's for use on him. In which case I think it's perfectly obvious how to use it. Why doesn't he feel well endowed enough to satisfy you himself? You should be helping his insecurities. Imagine how he'd feel, if you got more pleasure out of a plastic object, instead of him. Or maybe that's just how different I am, carry on...

[Abgail 16]

I have a suggestion.


Get a new boyfriend.

[GigglyAbby]

If you're not comfortable with his suggestion then you need to tell him and discuss the issue at hand. If it's intended when you're together -- ask him to help you or guide you.

[emily-candace]

If he wants to use it. let him use it on himself. If he doesn't want to put his penis where its suppose to go. get rid of him.

[Mob Boss]

I honestly don't see how this is puberty related.
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