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Melodic
June 14th, 2013, 08:20 AM
Okay, I decided to make another post from the one I made when I first joined since people were kind of confused. So I'll explain it better. I am usually the one totally knowing romance, but this guy is so confusing. So I best explain it.


There's this guy I knew for over a year. I've had feelings for him from the start. Me and him dated for a few months, but a lot of complications happened and it just couldn't work. But I still had feelings, and what our mutual friend said, he did too. And how he was depressed about the breakup. So we started talking in November, and we kind of just went back to normal. We started talking, somewhat teasing, flirting, and pretty much showing our feelings. Then we stopped talking for a few months. We talked off and on for the few months in between because I had mixed feelings with my best friend.Then he started talking again around March. He told my friend that he had feelings for me around these times. And the same thing continued. Then he stopped talking for a few weeks in April. Then it started again. And now it's stopped again. Then my friend told me an update that he was denying the crush, but he was smiling/blushing when he said it.

Okay I have no clue what's going on... Is he like playing hard to get or what? Should I start the conversation first like I usually am doing, what the heck is going on? Is he waiting for me to say something like I did the last time? What?

Miserabilia
June 14th, 2013, 09:14 AM
Maybe he does like you but he doesn´t really want to get in a relationshi?

Melodic
June 14th, 2013, 09:51 AM
I wish it wasn't true.. But I'm starting to lean towards that too.

Synyster Shadows
June 15th, 2013, 08:23 AM
I agree with Cheesee. He likes you but doesn't want to be with you in a relationship, just like you from a distance. *shrugs*
Maybe you should find someone new

Melodic
June 15th, 2013, 03:13 PM
Yeah I guess.