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clueless_one
June 14th, 2013, 12:52 AM
I asked my crush out but I didn't ask her out with will you like to go out with me. I said would you like to meet up at the shops. Is this me asking her out for a date. After I said it, she smiled and replied yes and started to walk a bit more closer to me. So does this mean she will think its a date.

CharlieHorse
June 14th, 2013, 12:54 AM
Yes. Take a shower, put on some scent, clean casual nice clothes, bring her flowers and dont take things too fast. Eye contact and be completely honest.
Act normal. Maybe a little Flirty occasionally :)
and more importantly, have fun :) enjoy eachother's company.

Miserabilia
June 14th, 2013, 01:32 AM
Itdoesn't matter if its a date or not, if she did that just act as nice as possible you'll get to know her and eventually ask her out on an actual date

indoxyl
June 14th, 2013, 07:25 AM
Yes. Take a shower, put on some scent, clean casual nice clothes, bring her flowers and dont take things too fast. Eye contact and be completely honest.
Act normal. Maybe a little Flirty occasionally :)
and more importantly, have fun :) enjoy eachother's company.

Bro the kid is like 14. Hes going on a first date not asking the girl to marry him.

clueless_one
June 14th, 2013, 08:12 AM
Bro the kid is like 14. Hes going on a first date not asking the girl to marry him.

Not 14, 18. Also what do you think about my question. Do you think I asked her out the right way saying if you want to meet up at the shops. She also smiled after so does this mean she thinks it as a date.

indoxyl
June 14th, 2013, 08:19 AM
Not 14, 18. Also what do you think about my question. Do you think I asked her out the right way saying if you want to meet up at the shops. She also smiled after so does this mean she thinks it as a date.

I think you may have gone about this the wrong way. She might just think you wanted to hang out. But I'd say if it goes well when you meet up with her, just ask her directly if she would like to go out on a date. I wish you luck!

clueless_one
June 14th, 2013, 08:21 AM
I think you may have gone about this the wrong way. She might just think you wanted to hang out. But I'd say if it goes well when you meet up with her, just ask her directly if she would like to go out on a date. I wish you luck!

But she smiled after I asked her that. That must mean something.

indoxyl
June 14th, 2013, 08:24 AM
But she smiled after I asked her that. That must mean something.

To be completely honest I think you're taking all these little signs a little too seriously. Yeah she smiled at you. People smile at each other. Its not necessarily some sign that she likes you. Not trying to be a downer or anything. I really think you are trying too hard to find signs that girls like you.

clueless_one
June 14th, 2013, 09:03 PM
To be completely honest I think you're taking all these little signs a little too seriously. Yeah she smiled at you. People smile at each other. Its not necessarily some sign that she likes you. Not trying to be a downer or anything. I really think you are trying too hard to find signs that girls like you.

She showed the signs of liking me below which led me to asking her out saying if she would like to meet up at the shops. The only thing I'm wondering if she will think its a date (which I actually what her to think it is). So do you think I did it the right way.

Signs she likes me

I've noticed my crushes friends look at me a lot. A few of her good friends say hi to me too. I've also over heard them talking about me calling me popular once.

One time one of her good friends entered the classroom and my crush told her something. Her friend then asked me if I have a girlfriend and I said no. My crush smiled at me and looked back at her friend.

I've told her friend that my crush is my favourite. She told her what I said and she smiled at me.

She wanted to know if she was invited to and event I’m organising. I said yes and she smiled.

I told her I like girls from a certain country. She said she is not from the country. I corrected myself saying I like girls who live in the country I’m living in. After I said this she smiled.

She looks at me a lot and maybe also glances at me when talking to her friend in class.

Her shoulders face me in class (Usually occurs in class, when she is talking to her friends behind her, she turns so her shoulders are facing me and her head is facing her friends. Also as she is facing the front, her shoulders are still facing me)

When I was sitting next to her once, her foot seemed to be facing me and her leg was placed in an angle facing me.

She asked me if I missed her, I told her I did and she smiled

One of her friends told her that I like her, she looked in my direction and smiled

My crush was with her friend and was applying cream on her hands which caught my attention to her hands.

Said hi to me and was smiling at me as she said it.

My crushes friend told me to sit next to my crush and her, when I looked at my crush she smiled with a closed mouth. When I moved she was smiling widely.

She smiles a lot at me and it seems her face brightens up when she is with/talks to me.

She smiled and her face brightened up when she told me that I liked her Facebook profile picture

When I gave her an invitation to an event she smiled and her face brightened up

She was speaking to me about the event and was smiling

When sitting next to her and looking at the chalk board I needed to reach over to see the chalk board properly. Instead of standing up and reaching towards the opposite side of me, she stretched towards the way I was reaching over to a point she was about to fall on top of me.

I wasn't sitting near her but she walked around she almost fell on top of me.

She also asked if she could borrow something for the task that we were doing. I gave it to her to use and when she gave it back she reached her hand towards me and when I took it back she left her hand stretched towards me for a little while more .

Signs she doesn't like me

She seems to talk about other boys to her friends. Not sure if its only when i'm around her. Also talked about a date or something similar.

She didn't ask me to the school ball. But asked another guy.

Confusing signs

I also saw her in the back of a car with two boys from my school at the front of the car. I’m not sure if I should be worried with the situation or if I shouldn’t worry about it. But I saw the car driving out of the road and I saw her turn her head towards me as I was walking on the footpath.

I started exams recently and I asked my crush if we enter the exam rooms. She said yes and on the way to the exam rooms I saw she was walking slowly. I caught up with her and asked her if she was ready. She said she wasn't and asked me if I was ready. I said I was ready bit but when I sit for the exam I forget. She replied alright. She then randomly said if she needed a pencil for the test, I told her she didn't but she could borrow mine. She then moved to the side looking for a pencil while I walked to the exam rooms. When I reached the exam rooms, I saw her again.

She's on Facebook a lot. Sometimes late at night on her mobile device.

I invited my crush to my party. She said that she was able to come but didn't show up. I sent a text message to her friend & instead of her friend texting my crush, my crushes friend gave me her number. I sent my crush a message and She said her parents didn't allow her out, yet she had been to other parties. There is a project due at school so could that be the reason. She said she was able to come to my party a lot and was talking about it a lot.

When sitting in my desk in class, the girl I like brushes past me. Sometimes its her arm, hip or sometimes when i'm looking in my bag she brushes past me and her skirt also brush onto my arms (walks close to me).

indoxyl
June 14th, 2013, 09:38 PM
Seriously you are taking half of these signs way too seriously. Just because she smiled doesnt mean she really likes you. People smile at each other like i said. And some of these 'signs' are just absolutely ridiculous. Like the foot or the shoulder thing. I dont know the girl but i mean do whayever you want to do

clueless_one
June 15th, 2013, 01:19 AM
Seriously you are taking half of these signs way too seriously. Just because she smiled doesnt mean she really likes you. People smile at each other like i said. And some of these 'signs' are just absolutely ridiculous. Like the foot or the shoulder thing. I dont know the girl but i mean do whayever you want to do

I don't know how this turned into a does she like me thread. The question I'm trying to ask is did a ask her out the right way for her to think it is a date.