What am I doing wrong?

[JacobChgo9]

Hello,
I was just asking a few questions--
What am I doing wrong?
I have a crush, and she is perfect. Everything I want, and I just can't figure--
What am I doing wrong? I show this girl ample amounts of respect, love and such. Her parents hate me, Her sister busted my junk (I don't know what I did...) and she acts like she enjoys me, she likes it. But she is like a bad bee hive-piss it off, and you get it. I love this girl, but her parents forced me away (again). What am I doing wrong? :(:confused

[Miserabilia]

I was once with a girl whos family hated me, and eventually she broke up with me and they kept being angry with me. some families are just kind of over protective like that

[Apophis]

Sadly there's nothing your doing wrong, honestly if you did nothing wrong, then I don't get why her parents hate you! Personally I think maybe they are just being protective of her. They probably don't want her to get hurt by a guy but they also need to realize that she's getting older and as they get older they grow more responsible and they have to make their own decisions! Personally though if you say if you piss her off she'll let you have it well I would take it as a sign maybe to find another girl but I'm not you and its just a suggestion maybe try to meet other girls as well, keep her on your watch but get to know other girls and maybe you'll find someone else. But anyways you say she enjoys it that you show her lots of respect but has she given you any respect back though, has she ever told you that she likes you back ? But anyways I hope you get this problem sorted! You surely need to get this sorted and fast cause you don't need to this dragging you down to the point you will get depressed.

[JacobChgo9]

Sadly there's nothing your doing wrong, honestly if you did nothing wrong, then I don't get why her parents hate you! Personally I think maybe they are just being protective of her. They probably don't want her to get hurt by a guy but they also need to realize that she's getting older and as they get older they grow more responsible and they have to make their own decisions! Personally though if you say if you piss her off she'll let you have it well I would take it as a sign maybe to find another girl but I'm not you and its just a suggestion maybe try to meet other girls as well, keep her on your watch but get to know other girls and maybe you'll find someone else. But anyways you say she enjoys it that you show her lots of respect but has she given you any respect back though, has she ever told you that she likes you back ? But anyways I hope you get this problem sorted! You surely need to get this sorted and fast cause you don't need to this dragging you down to the point you will get depressed.

Trust me, I already hit Depression because of it. But the thing is -- Ive liked other girls.. But like the Foreigner songs state-- "Ive been waiting for a girl like you" and, "I have found nobody like you" or something like that. Shes special to me, and really everything i want in a girl. I just dont get it.

[Apophis]

Trust me, I already hit Depression because of it. But the thing is -- Ive liked other girls.. But like the Foreigner songs state-- "Ive been waiting for a girl like you" and, "I have found nobody like you" or something like that. Shes special to me, and really everything i want in a girl. I just dont get it.

Well I understand where your coming from. I know she's special to you, but just look around for a while get to know other girls! If she truly does love you then she will come around. As the saying If you truly love someone let them free, if its mean't to be they will come back, if it ain't meant to be then you know to move on. I understand that you love her but you also need to accept the fact that maybe its time to move on as well. I'm just saying that maybe you should find another girl right now cause I think she's merely using you cause you treat her with a lot of respect. So talk to other girls, get to know them and who knows maybe you'll fall for another girl and maybe that girl will fall for you to! Just stay strong and hope everything works out for you!

[josh_9]

If you've avoided the 'talk' with her father, that might have been a big mistake. Fathers like to know that their daughters will be safe around you and that you will be trustworthy enough to date his daughter.

[JacobChgo9]

I've never even met her parents (her dad is a explosives specialist-- god help me) and idk what her mom does.
But I sent my goodbye letter