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Tim13
June 12th, 2013, 08:17 PM
I know this might sound weird but I can't be the only one who feels this way and I'm sure someone has done it.

I am really attracted to my older cousin he is fuun to be around and one time I saw his dick through his shorts and it looks big. I really want to get him off somehow and I'm not sure how to approach it.

Anyone have experience with this?

kenoloor
June 12th, 2013, 08:59 PM
my advice: if you end up doing anything with him, make sure it's consensual and make sure it's safe.

KimuraWannabe116
June 12th, 2013, 11:13 PM
I dont know if this topic is allowed or not, so I will refrain from posting in this for now, although if it is allowed, I could give feedback.

lukene
June 13th, 2013, 04:21 AM
I'm pretty sure that's illegal, in Australia anyway.

APhkinPanda
June 13th, 2013, 04:57 AM
Yeah, I don't exactly know if this thread is allowed, but I would make sure he is wanting to have it done by another male. If he is interested in males then your one step closer. If not i highly suggest not to do it.

Caldwell
June 13th, 2013, 05:55 AM
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to a cousin, but do you really think that you need to act on them? I think one of my older cousins is hot, but I know he isn't gay, we haven't spoken in years, (and likely never will again,) so there's no point in getting your hopes up for any action.

Tim13
June 13th, 2013, 06:50 AM
why wouldn't this be allowed? I'm just saying how I feel. Thanks to those who did respond :)

Hermes96
June 13th, 2013, 09:14 AM
my best mates parents are cousins and btw if you do do anything with him make sure hes comftable

teen.jpg
June 13th, 2013, 11:54 AM
I was attracted to my cousin, but I would never try anything with her.

McMantis
June 13th, 2013, 06:00 PM
be careful if you end up doing anything

The-Chosen-Hero
June 14th, 2013, 03:21 AM
I have no experience with this at all but if you do try something make sure of five basic things.
1) You would not regret it.
2) He would not regret it.
3) That you thought long and hard not just a spur of the moment.
4) You realize the consequences of what can happen.
5) That you do it safely

kenoloor
June 14th, 2013, 09:29 AM
I'm pretty sure that's illegal, in Australia anyway.

your point...?

steellord321
June 14th, 2013, 04:03 PM
Here is what makes it diff from other crushes. If you tell your cousin this, there's a good chance not only he says no, but others in both families may find out.

justin 13
June 17th, 2013, 11:01 AM
Hey dude maybe u r just attracted to him cuz he is older. I m just guessing cuz I like older guys too.

Magnus Bane
June 22nd, 2013, 01:38 PM
I wouldn't do it if I were you. there is a lot of consequences in this topic.
1. he would say no and then tell your parents
2. he says yes and your parents or his parent catch you
3. he starts calling you names and doesn't want to be around you
4. he says yes and you do it you might regret it
these are only a portion of what could happen. now im attracted to my older cousin as well but I have never acted on the feelings. just think about the consequences first.

jheaven96
June 23rd, 2013, 07:50 AM
I know this might sound weird but I can't be the only one who feels this way and I'm sure someone has done it.

I am really attracted to my older cousin he is fuun to be around and one time I saw his dick through his shorts and it looks big. I really want to get him off somehow and I'm not sure how to approach it.

Anyone have experience with this?

Just flirt with him, see how he reacts. Maybe he feels the same way

jaxian rhyder
June 23rd, 2013, 11:07 AM
2 ways
1 float around the subject with him
2 ask him to experiment with u just to see how it feels;)

mmppfc
June 25th, 2013, 11:13 AM
Id talk to him asking if he would like to do anything, but make sure its safe yeah!!

Umdswag15
July 8th, 2013, 05:43 PM
I've seen my cousin and he showed me once when he was taking a shower

Thorn181
July 8th, 2013, 05:55 PM
I would completely stop doing anything in that direction with my family, idk for me it feels not right, its my family, doesn´t matter how far away

lukene
July 9th, 2013, 07:29 AM
your point...?
I'm sorry should I have attached the definition of illegal?

Sharona
July 9th, 2013, 07:57 AM
I'm pretty sure that's illegal, in Australia anyway.

No it most certainly is not!!
They can play around all they like in Australia - they can't marry because they are both MALE not because they are cousins

In Australia if you are of opposite gender you can legally marry your first cousin or even your aunt/uncle
You may not marry a stepbrother/stepsister even though not at all blood related.

It used to be super common and the inbreeding thing is exaggerated - if you breed close relatives generation after generation sure - can lead to increases likelihood of genetic defect etc - but otherwise no problem
A lot of Royalty particularly do this in many cultures - most of the Arab Sheila have no real in laws because they marry their sons to their brothers daughters to keep the wealth in the same family etc

Albert Einstein even married his first cousin and was no fool

I am in a relationship with mine and no one cares

lukene
July 10th, 2013, 01:22 AM
Even if it isn't I still think it is wrong, yes it used to be super common but so did slavery. Sure, inbreeding doesn't mean if two cousins were to have children (not that these two have to worry about it haha) they will come out with extra limbs but inbreeding almost always leads to some sort of deformity, decreased immune system functionality, diseases and mental disabilities (almost all offspring of relatives show slowed brain function). Charles Darwin married and had children with his first cousin and there child died very young and he himself blamed it on producing children with his cousins and that such pairing produced weak children.
Although your family is very accepting of you and your cousin I know that a lot of others would not and the general population certainly wouldn't.

lukene
July 10th, 2013, 01:25 AM
No it most certainly is not!!
They can play around all they like in Australia - they can't marry because they are both MALE not because they are cousins

In Australia if you are of opposite gender you can legally marry your first cousin or even your aunt/uncle
You may not marry a stepbrother/stepsister even though not at all blood related.

It used to be super common and the inbreeding thing is exaggerated - if you breed close relatives generation after generation sure - can lead to increases likelihood of genetic defect etc - but otherwise no problem
A lot of Royalty particularly do this in many cultures - most of the Arab Sheila have no real in laws because they marry their sons to their brothers daughters to keep the wealth in the same family etc


Albert Einstein even married his first cousin and was no fool

I am in a relationship with mine and no one cares
Oops, forgot to quote you in my above post. Haha

BenjiCleland
July 10th, 2013, 03:45 PM
I am attracted to my cusin but he is completely straight. You should probably figure out if he is gay bi or straight before you do anything

Sharona
July 10th, 2013, 04:48 PM
I am attracted to my cusin but he is completely straight. You should probably figure out if he is gay bi or straight before you do anything

Wake him up with a BJ, that is always welcomed

Kameraden
July 10th, 2013, 04:53 PM
Incestuous swine...

Morgoth42
July 10th, 2013, 06:27 PM
Tread lightly, most places frown upon this sort of thing. But you can always start poking around. Just be careful.

answers-101
July 12th, 2013, 09:57 AM
I know this might sound weird but I can't be the only one who feels this way and I'm sure someone has done it.

I am really attracted to my older cousin he is fuun to be around and one time I saw his dick through his shorts and it looks big. I really want to get him off somehow and I'm not sure how to approach it.

Anyone have experience with this?

i know exactly how you feel, except im slightly worse. i find my younger cousin quite hot - he's 13, and I'm nearly 16 - not sure if that's even legal haha

Jevon
July 12th, 2013, 10:21 AM
Umm yah just don't try because that is weird

MrDrDude
July 12th, 2013, 03:28 PM
I'm not sure how to respond to this, it may not be legal depending on your home country, state, province, territory, etc.. And I wish I could help you on this topic, but, my cousins are all rednecks, and they all could throw me for a loop. I consider myself good at answering questions here on VTeen, but I'm unsure of how to approach this topic here, and also to a family member, because they might not notice the hints while you are speaking to them or they my see them, assume something, than ask you to cut to the chase. There are too many factors so it's hard to say. Sorry to not answering you question but your welcome to opening your eyes to what could go wrong. (If you're close to him like a brother you might be able to get away with it)

bimusic
July 15th, 2013, 08:24 AM
I have the same problem... if you are close to each other tell him to masturbate together if you want... or just talk with him