my very secret crush

[Miserabilia]

Well I never posted something about my "lovelife" here before, so here we go:

Okay, so here is the deal:
I am at the end of my second year of high school now.

Ever since I first got to high school, there was a girl there I knew right away I "liked".
And the year that followed I liked her more and more... The thing is though, she's rather silent. Not very talkative.

That's what made it hard to talk to her in the first place.
Secondly, when I do talk to her, it's usually awkward.

There are times when I'm almost sure she likes me too, but I feel like we both don't know what to do.
I know I don't.

I am really scared of doing something else then making a few talks to her. Whenever she gets near me my heart beats like crazy, etc.

What can I do? I really hope/think she likes me too.
And it's been 2 years now! (Yes, crazy)
Every time I think we might finally get something, something happens that ruins it.

I never talk to anyone about who I like, so nobody knows except me, and maybe her. (Like I said she doesn't talk much so I dont know)

Anyway I hope you see my situation. Do you have any advice for me?
Just writing this makes methink about her.:wub:

[Melodic]

Wow, I can honestly say. I rarely keep my crushes a secret. So I know it can be hard. If you're sure she likes you though, tell her how you feel. If she's quiet or shy, it's harder to see her feelings. So tell her. And if you're the type that doesn't open up to feelings, write her a note. If you have a gut feeling she likes you, then go and tell her.

[Miserabilia]

I can't just tell her cause I don't see her out of school and there are lots of people there always... ):

[Melodic]

Then there's other options. Have one of your friends slip her a note of you telling her how you feel. No one will figure it out.

[Miserabilia]

Except for the friend ):
Also, this is the last few weeks ill see her until summer break )':
I really don't know what to do now..
And I stil don't know if she likes me or not... Sometimes she looks at me, but I probably just notice because I look at her all the time

[MoonMan]

Eventually, you're going to have to tell her. There's no other way around it, especially if she's very shy. Here's the thing, you're worried too much about other factors and things that could go wrong. The worst that can happen is her saying no, but at least you can move on because she's given you a honest answer. The worst thing you can do is let her slip away not knowing if she really liked you or not, you'll end up regretting it more than you can hope to imagine. Trust me. I've known girls like this, even if she secretly reciprocates your feelings, she's not going to be the one to confess those said feelings first. Girls are stubborn like that, they'll go around telling all of their friends before telling you themselves. Try to be more confident and open with her and not so timid and awkward, give her a reason to not be shy around you. You'll soon find she'll began to open up herself, giving you better insight on whether or not she likes you. Either way, those feelings mean nothing if you don't act on them. Better you come to terms with that sooner than later.

[Miserabilia]

Eventually, you're going to have to tell her. There's no other way around it, especially if she's very shy. Here's the thing, you're worried too much about other factors and things that could go wrong. The worst that can happen is her saying no, but at least you can move on because she's given you a honest answer. The worst thing you can do is let her slip away not knowing if she really liked you or not, you'll end up regretting it more than you can hope to imagine. Trust me. I've known girls like this, even if she secretly reciprocates your feelings, she's not going to be the one to confess those said feelings first. Girls are stubborn like that, they'll go around telling all of their friends before telling you themselves. Try to be more confident and open with her and not so timid and awkward, give her a reason to not be shy around you. You'll soon find she'll began to open up herself, giving you better insight on whether or not she likes you. Either way, those feelings mean nothing if you don't act on them. Better you come to terms with that sooner than later.

thanks :)

[MoonMan]

thanks :)
Glad I could help, good luck.

[Miri]

Have some confidence!!

What's the worst that could happen? You've liked her for 2 years now. She's shy, and so are you. If you ask her out and she says yes, you'll realized that you wasted the time you could have spent being an adorable couple with her!

Girls like guys with a bit of confidence. It's a very sexy quality.

If you want to go a slower way (which may actually work better), make reasons to talk to her. Sit next to at lunch, in class, anywhere. Ask her about something school related, and eventually the conversation will flow naturally. If you see her with headphones in, ask her what kind of music she likes, or what song she's listening too. Get to know her friends, just do something that will bring the two of your closer.

Even if she don't become your girlfriend, she could still be an amazing friend, and you wouldn't want to miss out on something like that.

[Miserabilia]

Have some confidence!!

What's the worst that could happen? You've liked her for 2 years now. She's shy, and so are you. If you ask her out and she says yes, you'll realized that you wasted the time you could have spent being an adorable couple with her!

Girls like guys with a bit of confidence. It's a very sexy quality.

If you want to go a slower way (which may actually work better), make reasons to talk to her. Sit next to at lunch, in class, anywhere. Ask her about something school related, and eventually the conversation will flow naturally. If you see her with headphones in, ask her what kind of music she likes, or what song she's listening too. Get to know her friends, just do something that will bring the two of your closer.

Even if she don't become your girlfriend, she could still be an amazing friend, and you wouldn't want to miss out on something like that.

thanks :)