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Deep Blue Sea
June 11th, 2013, 02:12 AM
I've seen stuff here about this in different ways in regards to boys being seen naked by their dad.

I only have my dad because my mom died when I was really little and my dad and I are very close. I'm naked around him all the time and there's lots of times he's lets me get in the shower with him. So I'm wondering if there's other boys who have this kind of closeness with their dad or not. And if you used to but it stopped with puberty.

justinglives
June 11th, 2013, 03:13 AM
My dad never saw me naked after like age 6. Mom neither.
Kinda wierd cuz i have no problem being naked with other guys, girls, etc. its just the rents seeing me, or the thought of seeing me naked that creeps me out..........

BrandonA
June 11th, 2013, 03:18 AM
Yeah I use to shower with my dad. But when I learned how to bathe I was independent. I'm not so close to my dad anymore. Maybe I should spend time with him tomorrow

hollisterboi95
June 11th, 2013, 03:24 AM
I don't remember ever doing that with my father. Him and I have never really gotten close. I'm closer to my mother than to him. Anyway, that's normal though! Its good to be close to your father. I wish I had that closeness with mine. So its not weird or anything! :)

likemike
June 11th, 2013, 03:42 AM
I think 13 is a little old for showering with a parent

Deep Blue Sea
June 11th, 2013, 04:10 AM
I think 13 is a little old for showering with a parent

I was talking about over my lifetime. Although I'm still really small and only look like I'm ten or eleven at most as far as my height and build, so I still get to do little boy things with him like sit in his lap and stuff, but all of that will come to an end soon enough.

johnsmith1
June 11th, 2013, 04:25 AM
I've never done that with my dad since I was little. But that seems a nice closeness to have.

FizZ
June 11th, 2013, 06:52 AM
I've seen stuff here about this in different ways in regards to boys being seen naked by their dad.

I only have my dad because my mom died when I was really little and my dad and I are very close. I'm naked around him all the time and there's lots of times he's lets me get in the shower with him. So I'm wondering if there's other boys who have this kind of closeness with their dad or not. And if you used to but it stopped with puberty.

you are lucky coz u have dad like that

SniperKing
June 11th, 2013, 07:26 AM
i havent showered with my dad since i was like 7 and im not really closew ith him. i keep shutting him out and i dont know why.

Goonch97
June 11th, 2013, 07:44 AM
I'm not that close, I have my own privacy limits

Tim13
June 11th, 2013, 11:05 AM
I've showered my dad thats too close for me.

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 11:15 AM
I've seen stuff here about this in different ways in regards to boys being seen naked by their dad.

I only have my dad because my mom died when I was really little and my dad and I are very close. I'm naked around him all the time and there's lots of times he's lets me get in the shower with him. So I'm wondering if there's other boys who have this kind of closeness with their dad or not. And if you used to but it stopped with puberty.

Seriously? Trolling us? If your dad wants you to take a shower with him at your age then it's more than "closeness". He wants something else from you. If you're real at all.

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 11:18 AM
I was talking about over my lifetime. Although I'm still really small and only look like I'm ten or eleven at most as far as my height and build, so I still get to do little boy things with him like sit in his lap and stuff, but all of that will come to an end soon enough.

You still sit on your dad's lap? Seriously? Is your dad hard as a rock when you do it? Because this sounds like a pedo situation. But then you're probably trolling us and this is some sick fantasy of yours.

Maras
June 11th, 2013, 11:21 AM
I never saw my father nude. He didn't either since I was 5. I wish I have younger father and be closer with him.

likemike
June 11th, 2013, 11:24 AM
You still sit on your dad's lap? Seriously? Is your dad hard as a rock when you do it? Because this sounds like a pedo situation. But then you're probably trolling us and this is some sick fantasy of yours.

Maybe they have a unique situation where thats normal and not a pedophilic one.

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 11:25 AM
Maybe they have a unique situation where thats normal and not a pedophilic one.

Doubtful

likemike
June 11th, 2013, 11:40 AM
Doubtful

Op did say it was over time from age 0 to 13 sometimes he showered with his dad

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 11:44 AM
Op did say it was over time from age 0 to 13 sometimes he showered with his dad

No, he says since he looks like he's 10 he still does all of those things with his dad.

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 11:45 AM
He's full of it. I'm calling B.S.

likemike
June 11th, 2013, 11:47 AM
I was talking about over my lifetime.

See?

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 11:49 AM
so I STILL get to do little boy things with him like sit in his lap and stuff, but all of that will come to an end soon enough.

See?!? Learn how to READ!

Catholic Guy
June 11th, 2013, 01:25 PM
I don't think I've ever been that close to my dad, I don't even like going underwear shopping with him, I prefer to go with my mum to be honest

snowtrax
June 11th, 2013, 01:34 PM
As soon as you know what sex is I think bathing with your dad should stop

likemike
June 11th, 2013, 01:49 PM
See?!? Learn how to READ!

Sitting on his lap is not the same as showering with him

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 02:52 PM
Sitting on his lap is not the same as showering with him

Yes it is. Sitting on his hard penis and his son giving his dad a lap dance is sexual.

powzer19
June 11th, 2013, 03:16 PM
Yes it is. Sitting on his hard penis and his son giving his dad a lap dance is sexual.

And quite strange... why would you give your own Dad a lap dance... Ew.

likemike
June 11th, 2013, 03:20 PM
Yes it is. Sitting on his hard penis and his son giving his dad a lap dance is sexual.

Op never said he gave his dad lap dances

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 03:21 PM
And quite strange... why would you give your own Dad a lap dance... Ew.

The same reason you would take a shower with your dad when you are 13 or 14 years old. Your naked bodies basically pressed against each other because showers aren't made for two men to share.


Explain that one.

likemike
June 11th, 2013, 03:23 PM
The same reason you would take a shower with your dad when you are 13 or 14 years old. Your naked bodies basically pressed against each other because showers aren't made for two men to share.


Explain that one.

Op said he has the build of a ten year old

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 03:24 PM
Op never said he gave his dad lap dances

A teenage boy sitting on his dad is erotic therefore is basically a lap dance. His father is getting off on it. I have no idea why I'm debating this with you, you obviously know NOTHING. If you think taking a shower with your naked father even though your a teenager is normal hen whatever but its not because it's NORMAL! It's ABNORMAL and sexual. The dad doesn't invite the son to take a shower or to sit on his dick just because its normal...obviously.

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 03:25 PM
Op said he has the build of a ten year old

OMG...shut up! He's 13! Who gives a crap if he looks like a freaking 5 year old or a 10 year old! He's not 5 and he's not 10! It's not normal!

Are you like retarded or something?

powzer19
June 11th, 2013, 03:33 PM
The same reason you would take a shower with your dad when you are 13 or 14 years old. Your naked bodies basically pressed against each other because showers aren't made for two men to share.


Explain that one.

That's different. A father shouldn't get 'hard' over his own son.

Avacon
June 11th, 2013, 03:38 PM
I don't really see how like... it has to be pedo-y if he's small and the father's not... like that. o.o

Not every close relationship involves sex... Especially those with family members, as they usually don't involve sex, and the OP didn't exactly go "ooh i enjoy sitting on daddy's lap when he has a hard on" or whatever, he just said "and sometimes I sit on his lap" (or something like that)... It's likely rare now, because he's getting bigger and that makes it impractical, but it doesn't have to be a friggin male pedo w/ child relationship... e.e

likemike
June 11th, 2013, 03:38 PM
OMG...shut up! He's 13! Who gives a crap if he looks like a freaking 5 year old or a 10 year old! He's not 5 and he's not 10! It's not normal!

Are you like retarded or something?

No im not retarded

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 03:43 PM
No im not retarded

I disagree

likemike
June 11th, 2013, 03:48 PM
I disagree

I understand that you are mad because you don't like being wrong but stop calling me retarded

Patuxent78
June 11th, 2013, 03:52 PM
I understand that you are mad because you don't like being wrong but stop calling me retarded

Wrong? LOL that's a joke. Just not a very funny one. You are obviously retarded. I feel bad for you. Internet is your only friend in life.

Taking a shower with your dad and sitting on his lap at 13? Your right about what exactly? That its normal and not sexual? LOL what the hell do you know about sex anyway? Oh yea..NOTHING! So keep your retarded comments to yourself.

Avacon
June 11th, 2013, 04:07 PM
Wrong? LOL that's a joke. Just not a very funny one. You are obviously retarded. I feel bad for you. Internet is your only friend in life.

Taking a shower with your dad and sitting on his lap at 13? Your right about what exactly? That its normal and not sexual? LOL what the hell do you know about sex anyway? Oh yea..NOTHING! So keep your retarded comments to yourself.

I think that calling people retarded because they don't think that a close relationship between a father and a child has to be sexual, from the information
given from the OP, is a bit... weird.

If the OP gave more information then like... there would be a chance that you could actually have an idea of whether it is or not. But like... people seem to be assuming that the dad is getting a boner over the OP... Which is a bit of a weird idea, and as far as I can tell, has not even been implied by the OP...

Also, that's kinda derailing the topic, but like I said... I think that it's a bit weird to jump to the conclusion of "PEDO!" from "i sometimes sit on his lap"...

So! No, I don't have a close bond with my dad, and imo this would be a weird bond for me with him. If I had a different dad though, one who was like... cooler (like you seem to be saying yours is), then it might be different. xD

JonasNegmis
June 11th, 2013, 04:26 PM
I honestly don't see a problem with showering with your dad since youre his son. If you were his daughter, now that's a completely different story. But since you're male, I'd say it's OK to shower with your dad to whatever age you want, but obviously only as long as it's a completely platonic relationship.

countryboi9
June 11th, 2013, 05:55 PM
my dad has seen me naked since I was a baby, so its cool

Gopher
June 11th, 2013, 05:59 PM
Yeah ive seen my dad nude and hes seen me naked, not too long ago either, bot a big deal lol. We used to shower all the time until i hit puberty.

nbridg14
June 11th, 2013, 06:01 PM
no. my dad is bit of dick head so i shut him out. he uses me and my sisters to get back at my mum to annoy her so i have no time for him. just have to put up with him when i go and stay at this place.

Beemo
June 11th, 2013, 06:23 PM
No, just thinking about it creeps me out !


Btw I can't pm so skype me if you want to chat ! Skype name : Jayyhuman

teen.jpg
June 11th, 2013, 07:11 PM
Why would I want our relationship to be like that? I barely even talk to him.

Ethan
June 11th, 2013, 09:36 PM
Evan, there is nothing wrong with being naked around your dad. I am 13 as well and my parents and sister see me and my little brother naked all the time. It may change when I get older, but for now, I don’t care if they see me naked. My parents are OK with it and my sister has seen us naked since we were babies, so she doesn’t care either.

My brother and I used to shower or have a bath with my dad when we were little. I wouldn't do that anymore, except when we use the shower room after doing something like going swimming together. I don't sit on his lap either, but I like sitting next to him. It is a nice feeling just to be close.

confusedteen33
June 12th, 2013, 01:47 AM
Seriously? Trolling us? If your dad wants you to take a shower with him at your age then it's more than "closeness". He wants something else from you. If you're real at all.

Dude you are a dick, he's just freaking close to his dad cause his mom died, and maybe he just remains close to have someone there to comfort him since his mom isn't there. Yeah, he is getting to an age where it needs to stop, but it isn't his fault.

confusedteen33
June 12th, 2013, 01:49 AM
It does need to stop deep blue sea. You are getting a bit old

confusedteen33
June 12th, 2013, 01:53 AM
I think that calling people retarded because they don't think that a close relationship between a father and a child has to be sexual, from the information
given from the OP, is a bit... weird.

If the OP gave more information then like... there would be a chance that you could actually have an idea of whether it is or not. But like... people seem to be assuming that the dad is getting a boner over the OP... Which is a bit of a weird idea, and as far as I can tell, has not even been implied by the OP...

Also, that's kinda derailing the topic, but like I said... I think that it's a bit weird to jump to the conclusion of "PEDO!" from "i sometimes sit on his lap"...

So! No, I don't have a close bond with my dad, and imo this would be a weird bond for me with him. If I had a different dad though, one who was like... cooler (like you seem to be saying yours is), then it might be different. xD

I agree with every aspect of this post

Deep Blue Sea
June 12th, 2013, 04:58 AM
Wrong? LOL that's a joke. Just not a very funny one. You are obviously retarded. I feel bad for you. Internet is your only friend in life.

Taking a shower with your dad and sitting on his lap at 13? Your right about what exactly? That its normal and not sexual? LOL what the hell do you know about sex anyway? Oh yea..NOTHING! So keep your retarded comments to yourself.

Okay, first of all if anyone is acting like a troll, it's you. Second of all, the erotic incestuous scenarios you've dreamed up, say much more about you in a negative way than they do about me and my dad.

Deep Blue Sea
June 12th, 2013, 05:01 AM
Yeah ive seen my dad nude and hes seen me naked, not too long ago either, bot a big deal lol. We used to shower all the time until i hit puberty.

And you're one of the more level headed and well adjusted people I've encountered here.

Deep Blue Sea
June 12th, 2013, 05:29 AM
I really didn't expect this to turn into such a shit storm, if you'll forgive my language.
I'm sad to see so many boys are so distant from their father to a downright phobic degree in some cases. I was hoping to here more positive accounts. I never expected some of the reactions I've seen.

But here's a few things to take into consideration for those so deeply disturbed.

My mom died in a horrific accident when I was three.
My dad has always gone the extra mile to make up for me not having a mom.
I have leukemia. It's in remission now, but I came close to death at one stage.
So, he cherishes me greatly.
The Roman tub shower we have in our condo is huge and has an overhead shower nozzle, so no one is grinding against each other.
In Japan whole families bathe together.
If you find something sexual in this image below, then you are the one who might consider seeing a therapist. Because this is a healthy father son relationship.
http://us.123rf.com/400wm/400/400/iofoto/iofoto1002/iofoto100200181/6455332-son-sits-on-his-father-s-lap-while-playing-guitar-vertical-shot.jpg

Patuxent78
June 12th, 2013, 05:38 AM
Okay, first of all if anyone is acting like a troll, it's you. Second of all, the erotic incestuous scenarios you've dreamed up, say much more about you in a negative way than they do about me and my dad.

Congrats! You've officially proven that you're not actually 13. You're actually an adult acting like a 13 year old. "erotic incestuous scenarios" is not something a 13 year old would say or come up with.

You're definitely the troll here old man! Go get your rocks off somewhere else!

Deep Blue Sea
June 12th, 2013, 05:50 AM
Congrats! You've officially proven that you're not actually 13. You're actually an adult acting like a 13 year old. "erotic incestuous scenarios" is not something a 13 year old would say or come up with.

You're definitely the troll here old man! Go get your rocks off somewhere else!

From my post to The White Padded Room:

I thought I'd write this because I know some people will find me unusual for someone my age. I don't like writing this because it seems there's no way to say it without sounding like a show off, but I still feel the desire to explain.

I am what they call a gifted kid. Academically I can operate close to a college level in several areas. And I do a ton of reading. So that's why when I address certain issues, I sound so mature.

However, emotionally I'm still a 13 year old kid. I can still get upset and cry at the drop of a hat. I'm still easily frighted by things things kids are scared of. I like playing with kids my age and playing the kinds of games kids my age play.

So, just in case anyone who reads my posts is confused about me, I hope that explains it. Or maybe I'm just making a fool of myself, idk

Feel free to read the entire thread and see that I am not alone in being a kid with advanced academia and intellect and what others have to say about it:
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=180808

Skatekid97
June 12th, 2013, 06:21 AM
Congrats! You've officially proven that you're not actually 13. You're actually an adult acting like a 13 year old. "erotic incestuous scenarios" is not something a 13 year old would say or come up with.

You're definitely the troll here old man! Go get your rocks off somewhere else!

LOL! The only one in this thread who sounds like a perverted old man is YOU.
Get a life you creepy shit.

mickeymouse19
June 12th, 2013, 06:43 AM
Patuxent should be banned in my opinion. I knew what those words meant at that age. Not every 13 year old is semi-illiterate. I remember I had to dumb down my grammar on the internet when I was younger exactly because shitheads like patuxulent were saying I can't be 13/14/15/16 years old.

Besides, actual internet perverts usually pretend to be 13 by typeaing liek dis lulz zomg yolo.

blake5200
June 12th, 2013, 07:05 AM
I really didn't expect this to turn into such a shit storm, if you'll forgive my language.
I'm sad to see so many boys are so distant from their father to a downright phobic degree in some cases. I was hoping to here more positive accounts. I never expected some of the reactions I've seen.


I don't get why people have had such a negative reaction over this. It sounds great the relationship you have with your father. I believe that I have a close relationship with my dad but it's not as close as yours and would love to be that close with my dad though the occasional shower is a bit personal for me but it's obviously not sexual as some have suggested and I'm a bit to old to sit on my dads lap I would crush him.

Deep Blue Sea
June 12th, 2013, 07:11 AM
Patuxent should be banned in my opinion. I knew what those words meant at that age. Not every 13 year old is semi-illiterate. I remember I had to dumb down my grammar on the internet when I was younger exactly because shitheads like patuxulent were saying I can't be 13/14/15/16 years old.

Yes, one person sent me a PM asking me "are you sure you are 13?" But he did not mean it in an accusatory way.

Besides, actual internet perverts usually pretend to be 13 by typeaing liek dis lulz zomg yolo.

And just how do you know that? I am now very suspicious of you! :lol:

dan08
June 12th, 2013, 07:19 AM
Just weird.

Deep Blue Sea
June 12th, 2013, 07:23 AM
I don't get why people have had such a negative reaction over this. It sounds great the relationship you have with your father. I believe that I have a close relationship with my dad but it's not as close as yours and would love to be that close with my dad though the occasional shower is a bit personal for me but it's obviously not sexual as some have suggested and I'm a bit to old to sit on my dads lap I would crush him.

No, it is a big shower. I had read some articles in archives of other types of discussion forums about father son relationships. We are not the only ones who do this. It depends on where you are from as well and what the traditions are.

The picture I found of the boy sitting is his dad's lap with the guitar is exactly the way it is with my father and I. He is such a good father. He would die before harming me. I think it should be obvious without meaning to be conceited, that I am intelligent and learned enough to know if my father was behaving inappropriately with me in any way.

I do wish that our closeness had not been bonded with so much tragedy in my father's life. He has suffered greatly. If my leukemia returns, I am for more worried about what that will do to him than I am about dying from it.

Patuxent78
June 12th, 2013, 07:28 AM
No, it is a big shower. I had read some articles in archives of other types of discussion forums about father son relationships. We are not the only ones who do this. It depends on where you are from as well and what the traditions are.

The picture I found of the boy sitting is his dad's lap with the guitar is exactly the way it is with my father and I. He is such a good father. He would die before harming me. I think it should be obvious without meaning to be conceited, that I am intelligent and learned enough to know if my father was behaving inappropriately with me in any way.

I do wish that our closeness had not been bonded with so much tragedy in my father's life. He has suffered greatly. If my leukemia returns, I am for more worried about what that will do to him than I am about dying from it.

LOL...whatever old man!

Steven1
June 12th, 2013, 07:32 AM
I cant see why people are kicking up such a storm about this. Sure, not many people do it, but it doesn't make it wrong or bad or anything. It's great to see that you're that close to your dad, especially after everything that's happened, as it often splits families up. As long as nothing sexual comes of it, I cant see anything wrong with it. As for the poster who called a troll, not all thirteen year old's are illiterate and some can, *sarcastic shock*, understand and know when and how to use phrases that some don't- for example, I know a load of medical terms that most adults I've came across don't understand, does that make me a troll? No. Exactly.
Anyway, there's nothing wrong with it as long as it doesn't get sexual (in my opinion, anyway), and it's great to see that you have such a close relationship with your dad after such a traumatic childhood.

Skatekid97
June 12th, 2013, 07:41 AM
LOL...whatever old man!

No one's agreeing with you on this... but feel free to keep making a total fool of yourself, you tinfoil hat conspiracy kook.

justin 13
June 12th, 2013, 08:04 AM
Dude, I understand you. As a family we are in the same position. At home we are my dad, my bro and me. Our mom didn't die was worst she left us when my bro was like 2 and I was about 4. My dad had hard times raising up alone 2 kids, and still does. To me my dad is everything, he is pretty cool with us. The only thing still can't share with him is I'm gay, I think he is not ready to hear that and now we are passing difficult times cuz He doesn't have a regular job. But as a family we are really happy. BTW I wish 2B a gifted kid!.

digzchickz
June 12th, 2013, 08:25 AM
my parents havent seen me naked since like age 6.

Skatekid97
June 12th, 2013, 08:38 AM
Deep Blue Sea sounds like a sickly undeveloped kid that maybe his dad babies a little too much, but from what that kid said about having leukemia it sounds understandable. My cousin slowly died of cancer when he was 13 and it destroyed my uncle emotionally, I remember he was always holding onto him up to the end. I don't think I'd want to be a gifted kid, they get treated like freaks by most people.

ugaboy
June 12th, 2013, 08:49 AM
I think Evan has a great relationship with his dad, and see nothing wrong with any of it. I wish I was that close to my dad, and I am sure that a lot of others on here do too.

justin 13
June 12th, 2013, 08:56 AM
Deep Blue Sea sounds like a sickly undeveloped kid that maybe his dad babies a little too much, but from what that kid said about having leukemia it sounds understandable. My cousin slowly died of cancer when he was 13 and it destroyed my uncle emotionally, I remember he was always holding onto him up to the end. I don't think I'd want to be a gifted kid, they get treated like freaks by most people.


You are right in some towns gifted r kinda weird, In my town there are so many financials supports for these kids, and my dad cud take advantage of it.

powzer19
June 12th, 2013, 10:36 AM
Patuxent should be banned in my opinion. I knew what those words meant at that age. Not every 13 year old is semi-illiterate. I remember I had to dumb down my grammar on the internet when I was younger exactly because shitheads like patuxulent were saying I can't be 13/14/15/16 years old.

Besides, actual internet perverts usually pretend to be 13 by typeaing liek dis lulz zomg yolo.

Wow! I thought I was the only person who spoke well mannered for my age around here. Happy to find I am not the only one.

Mob Boss
June 12th, 2013, 10:42 AM
Hi, yeah, I'm just gonna randomly appear for a sec. Let's tone it down on the name-calling, guys. We're not 5, some kid didn't steal your favorite swing on the playground, so let's drop the name-calling. Got me? Good.

gawainromijn
June 12th, 2013, 10:56 AM
my dad saw me naked when i was hovering the house and i did not pay any attention to my dad approaching then he pointed at me and mothed WHAT then i ran upstairs and put on my clothes then he asked if i was ok i was!!

swimBoy
June 12th, 2013, 11:54 AM
I've never showered with my dad but I'm comfortable enough around him to be naked.

Gopher
June 12th, 2013, 02:46 PM
LOL...whatever old man!

Your trying to pin him as some old man pedophile...yet looking at your post history I see a thread you made asking this:

I just sneaked a peak at my Christmas present and I'm getting a fleshlight. I just wanted to know if anyone else has one and how do you like it.

Now if you ask me that's kinda messed up, it's bull that someone gave you a fleshlight for one, and your trying to label this guy as a pedo?

He has a legitimate question and is a fine and good person, your just some teen punk kid who enjoys making fun of others and drawing attention to yourself at others expense.

If your not going to be a reasonable person then don't come on VT, we don't like trolls here.

Patuxent78
June 12th, 2013, 03:02 PM
Your trying to pin him as some old man pedophile...yet looking at your post history I see a thread you made asking this:

I just sneaked a peak at my Christmas present and I'm getting a fleshlight. I just wanted to know if anyone else has one and how do you like it.

Now if you ask me that's kinda messed up, it's bull that someone gave you a fleshlight for one, and your trying to label this guy as a pedo?

He has a legitimate question and is a fine and good person, your just some teen punk kid who enjoys making fun of others and drawing attention to yourself at others expense.

If your not going to be a reasonable person then don't come on VT, we don't like trolls here.

You're seriously jealous that I have a flashlight? You call me a pedo because I have one? LOL ...I'm guessing Canadians have no clue what a pedo troll is...apparently. I'm not the one saying that I'm 13 or 14 and enjoy taking naked showers with my dad and sitting on his lap still like a 4 year old.

Gopher
June 12th, 2013, 03:06 PM
You're seriously jealous that I have a flashlight? You call me a pedo because I have one? LOL ...I'm guessing Canadians have no clue what a pedo troll is...apparently. I'm not the one saying that I'm 13 or 14 and enjoy taking naked showers with my dad and sitting on his lap still like a 4 year old.

I don't care that you have a (if you have) a flesh light, really doesn't make a difference to me. Us 'Canadians' have a good grasp on the knowledge of what a sexual predator is, i didn't say you were one I mentioned it meaning it's kinda weird you have a sex toy, im 4 years older than you and don't have any toys of that nature.

Im saying leave the kid alone, what he does doesn't hurt you. If you don't anything nice or constructive to say then don't bother. No one cares about the negativity.

Avacon
June 12th, 2013, 03:09 PM
You're seriously jealous that I have a flashlight? You call me a pedo because I have one? LOL ...I'm guessing Canadians have no clue what a pedo troll is...apparently. I'm not the one saying that I'm 13 or 14 and enjoy taking naked showers with my dad and sitting on his lap still like a 4 year old.
Nowhere in his text did he say he was jealous of it... Nowhere did he say he thought you were a pedo because of it... Being racist really isn't helpful... The OP didn't say that either... It's quite weird that somebody would give you that considering you say you're 14. I call trolling.

Please, just go away. You've insulted people, derailed the thread, and you expect people to believe you're not trolling, when you're making up unreal (in a bad way) scenarios, whereas some people here are telling us of their uncommon scenarios, actually looking for help.

Patuxent78
June 12th, 2013, 03:12 PM
Nowhere in his text did he say he was jealous of it... Nowhere did he say he thought you were a pedo because of it... Being racist really isn't helpful... The OP didn't say that either... It's quite weird that somebody would give you that considering you say you're 14. I call trolling.

Please, just go away. You've insulted people, derailed the thread, and you expect people to believe you're not trolling, when you're making up unreal (in a bad way) scenarios, whereas some people here are telling us of their uncommon scenarios, actually looking for help.

Canadian is a race? LOL get real. I can give two shits if you think someone would or not give me one. I never said it was my parents that got me one...first of all! You are assuming! You know what assuming does? Make an ass of yourself! So keep assuming away...lol.

But the OP did say he does take naked showers with his dad...STILL! And enjoys it! Plus says he STILL sits in his lap! Yea...real normal!LOL

Gopher
June 12th, 2013, 03:17 PM
But the OP did say he does take naked showers with his dad...STILL! And enjoys it! Plus says he STILL sits in his lap! Yea...real normal!LOL

So if you didn't get it from your parents then who from? Brother,uncle, older friend? Considering most places you need to be 18 to buy that sort of thing its kinda not normal fro a 14 year old to be getting given a sex toy from someone older than him.

Besides there are lots of people on this site that aren't 'normal'. I'm not, your 'fleshlight' means your not. The difference is i accept and understand other situations, you condemn them for being different than your own.

Avacon
June 12th, 2013, 03:27 PM
Canadian is a race? LOL get real.

Yup. It's a race. I'd count them as a race. "Race is a classification system used to categorize humans into large and distinct populations or groups by anatomical, cultural, ethnic, genetic, geographical, historical, linguistic, religious, or social affiliation." Geographical affiliation... Canada is a country, a location, and so Canadians have geographical affiliation. Kthx.

Seriously, you're blowing everything waaay out of proportion. Just stop it already. ._.

Patuxent78
June 12th, 2013, 03:40 PM
Yup. It's a race. I'd count them as a race. "Race is a classification system used to categorize humans into large and distinct populations or groups by anatomical, cultural, ethnic, genetic, geographical, historical, linguistic, religious, or social affiliation." Geographical affiliation... Canada is a country, a location, and so Canadians have geographical affiliation. Kthx.

Seriously, you're blowing everything waaay out of proportion. Just stop it already. ._.

Congrats! You have to copy and paste! LOL what a loser

Avacon
June 12th, 2013, 03:46 PM
Congrats! You have to copy and paste! LOL what a loser
I don't have to do anything. I was trying to prove a point, and using research is great for that! Several websites are great for that, and corroborating data is even better (hope you have to Google that word. =)).

You're completely derailing the thread, and a moderator has already asked you to stop calling people names (such as pedo and stuff). Oh, and before you say it, I said you were being racist, I didn't say you were a racist.

On topic, I don't think this is too weird, but it'll probably change soon when you get bigger, as it'll be a bit impractical.

Patuxent78
June 12th, 2013, 03:49 PM
I don't have to do anything. I was trying to prove a point, and using research is great for that! Several websites are great for that, and corroborating data is even better (hope you have to Google that word. =)).

You're completely derailing the thread, and a moderator has already asked you to stop calling people names (such as pedo and stuff). Oh, and before you say it, I said you were being racist, I didn't say you were a racist.

On topic, I don't think this is too weird, but it'll probably change soon when you get bigger, as it'll be a bit impractical.

And the moderator has already said that you need to stop stoking the flame which you obviously are still doing. Must be a British thing. Must be why you needed us...hmm...how many times, how many wars did you need our help again? LOL Research that!

drew6
June 12th, 2013, 03:58 PM
The last time my dad saw me naked was by accident. It was really late at night, well past what time I'm usually sleeping. He thought I left my light on all night and quietly opened the door to shut it off, but I was up and was naked. He said, got the door open just a few inches, saw me for like a second, pulled his head back and said, "oh, sorry, I thought you were asleep and left your light on and was going to shut it off". That was a few months ago and a total accident.

Before that, if he was picking me up from the gym where I played basketball as a 7th and 8th grader and was running really late he'd see me and my friend drying off and getting dressed, but that only happened a couple of times. Like twice in two years and my friend and I didn't really care.

I think I cared more about the more recent one because he had mentioned to my mom a couple of years ago something along the lines of "He's old enough not that we should always knock and a few seconds before asking if it's okay to come in". haha

So it's funny that he told my mom, but he was the one that didn't follow his own "rule". I felt pretty awkward in the morning and it must have been okay, because I don't remember feeling that way for very long.

I can't remember the last time I saw my dad naked and it must not have made much of an impression on me. I'd have to guess it was at the gym or camping, but I'm not even sure it happened in the last decade. I view that lack of memory a good thing. haha

Avacon
June 12th, 2013, 03:59 PM
And the moderator has already said that you need to stop stoking the flame which you obviously are still doing. Must be a British thing. Must be why you needed us...hmm...how many times, how many wars did you need our help again? LOL Research that!
Hi, yeah, I'm just gonna randomly appear for a sec. Let's tone it down on the name-calling, guys. We're not 5, some kid didn't steal your favorite swing on the playground, so let's drop the name-calling. Got me? Good.

I don't see anything about stoking the flame, but I'd say being the flame is worse.

And I'm not even gonna dignify that with a proper response. You realise America split off from England? Cool! And uh, I don't really care how many wars you've helped us with, because you haven't. I don't like to judge individuals based on a country, which is why I consider you a troll and not the whole of America trolls. Most American people are nice, or at least the ones I've spoken to have been. You aren't (at least, from what I've observed, to most people on this forum! :D).

Again, on topic, seriously, keep ignoring this guy because I find his opinion wrong, and he seems to just try to be as offensive as possible! ._.

@drew6 : Oh, your parents knock (or at least try to remember to) when they enter your room? I wish mine did that. They just barge right in and I'm just like "oh god I am SOOO glad I wasn't doing anything" or "oh daaaamn at least they didn't see me" xD

Gopher
June 12th, 2013, 04:00 PM
Thank you Avacon, ill take your advice!

Patuxent78
June 12th, 2013, 04:01 PM
I don't see anything about stoking the flame, but I'd say being the flame is worse.

And I'm not even gonna dignify that with a proper response. You realise America split off from England? Cool! And uh, I don't really care how many wars you've helped us with, because you haven't. I don't like to judge individuals based on a country, which is why I consider you a troll and not the whole of America trolls. Most American people are nice, or at least the ones I've spoken to have been. You aren't (at least, from what I've observed, to most people on this forum! :D).

Again, on topic, seriously, keep ignoring this guy because I find his opinion wrong, and he seems to just try to be as offensive as possible! ._.

Don't ask us to help you fight anymore wars! LOL

Oh yea, back on topic. Yea, go ahead and ignore this Brit, he apparently thinks it's absolutely normal to shower with his daddy and sit on his lap. Yea, real normal. Must be a European thing.

Steven1
June 12th, 2013, 04:04 PM
And the moderator has already said that you need to stop stoking the flame which you obviously are still doing. Must be a British thing. Must be why you needed us...hmm...how many times, how many wars did you need our help again? LOL Research that!

Going on about wars? Well, if you want to play that game. Which country is it that, without, America, Canada and half the world wouldn't exist as it is today without? Oh yeah...

Also, think about the wars Britain helped America in- The Korean War, Persian Gulf War, Afghan War, Iraq war. It's called an alliance for a reason, we help one another out, although obviously you don't have a sense of teamwork (although in this form it is on an extremely large scale). To me, you just sound like a narcissist- sure, America has the biggest military might at the moment, but just 120 years ago it was completely different.

Patuxent78
June 12th, 2013, 04:06 PM
Going on about wars? Well, if you want to play that game. Which country is it that, without, America, Canada and half the world wouldn't exist as it is today without? Oh yeah...

Also, think about the wars Britain helped America in- The Korean War, Persian Gulf War, Afghan War, Iraq war. It's called an alliance for a reason, we help one another out, although obviously you don't have a sense of teamwork (although in this form it is on an extremely large scale). To me, you just sound like a narcissist- sure, America has the biggest military might at the moment, but just 120 years ago it was completely different.

HAHA! Seriously?!? D you really think you helped us in Iraq or Afghanistan? Sending a thousand troops in while we have over 50,000 in either country...please. Get over yourself. You lost the American Revolution and ever since then your nation has become unnecessary.

StoppingTime
June 12th, 2013, 05:09 PM
This thread has gone on for far, far too long.

OP, if any of what you said is true, then I must agree with some others in this thread. At 13, you should not (in my opinion at least) be having that kind of relationship with your father - or any adult for that matter. No matter how much your father tells you it's "okay" or "allowed" it probably isn't.

However, I have my doubts. The picture you linked previously is a stock (http://goo.gl/GHxAn) (as a watermark is clearly visible along with the link I gave you).

Also, I'll say this only once for the future (and you all know who I'm talking to). Flaming, bashing, and name calling are not permitted here. If you're going to act with such immaturity, you will receive an official warning or infraction.

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