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Lovelife090994
June 10th, 2013, 11:43 PM
Why is it so bad to not masturbate at all?
When some on here or in real life (by my experience) say they are not going to masturbate anymore or that they want to stop people always question why and say how not masturbating is weird and not normal?

Does something happen if one doesn't masturbate? Does not masturbating cause differences between someone who does regularly?

Trace
June 10th, 2013, 11:45 PM
The only actual people I've heard say that were 'jesus-freaks.'
^ Not hating on Christianity, simply pointing out the over-religious people.

Troy35216
June 10th, 2013, 11:57 PM
not masturbating cuz you don't want to masturbate isn't bad. not masturbating cuz you feel guilty or ashamed is different. If you just don't feel like it or just don't want to do it, then I don't think that is bad at all. but if you have to force yourself not to do it, that is when I think it is bad

GeorgeBoy
June 11th, 2013, 03:38 AM
Yes:):)

justinglives
June 11th, 2013, 03:47 AM
Ive heard 2 theories:
1) if you dont release extra sperm, your balls swell up to the size of basketballs, and they have to be surgically removed.......
2) if you dont release extra sperm, you eventually have a wet dream, and there is so much built up when u have the wet dream u drown in ure own jizz.........

*** kidding if u havent figured that out..........***

Deep Blue Sea
June 11th, 2013, 04:00 AM
Why is it so bad to not masturbate at all?
When some on here or in real life (by my experience) say they are not going to masturbate anymore or that they want to stop people always question why and say how not masturbating is weird and not normal?

Does something happen if one doesn't masturbate? Does not masturbating cause differences between someone who does regularly?

It's not bad in itself. It's bad if someone is not doing masturbating for a bad reason. I wouldn't say no masturbating is weird or abnormal, just uncommon. If a teen boy does not masturbate, then he will have wet dreams, because when you're a teen, your body needs to expel semen. Forcing oneself not to masturbate could lead to it effecting their mood. It could also cause them to overeat to gratify themselves in compensation.

Other reasons why a male might not masturbate are:
Some males have low testosterone or a low sex drive and don't masturbate because of that. Or they are asexual and have no sexual desires. Some males are impotent or have erectile dysfunction.

johnsmith1
June 11th, 2013, 04:38 AM
Why is it so bad to not masturbate at all?
When some on here or in real life (by my experience) say they are not going to masturbate anymore or that they want to stop people always question why and say how not masturbating is weird and not normal?

Does something happen if one doesn't masturbate? Does not masturbating cause differences between someone who does regularly?

It's not bad in itself. It's bad if someone is not doing masturbating for a bad reason. I wouldn't say no masturbating is weird or abnormal, just uncommon. If a teen boy does not masturbate, then he will have wet dreams, because when you're a teen, your body needs to expel semen. Forcing oneself not to masturbate could lead to it effecting their mood. It could also cause them to overeat to gratify themselves in compensation.

Other reasons why a male might not masturbate are:
Some males have low testosterone or a low sex drive and don't masturbate because of that. Or they are asexual and have no sexual desires. Some males are impotent or have erectile dysfunction.

Agree with what Deep Blue has said. On the reverse of the testosterone, there will be a lot of boys, who if they don't masturbate for a couple of days, will have constant erections, and think of nothing but masturbating, and hence when someone says "I'm not goin to do it" can't figure out how you could resist the temptation.

connor156
June 11th, 2013, 06:51 AM
i just couldnt not masurabate

snowtrax
June 11th, 2013, 01:40 PM
If you never blow your load you're probably going to have a lot of wet dreams....not bad thing but something to think about

JonasNegmis
June 11th, 2013, 05:01 PM
If you don't jack off, maybe you should just find a nice girl your age to make love with. lol

teen.jpg
June 11th, 2013, 07:28 PM
Why would it be bad?

Southside
June 11th, 2013, 07:48 PM
Ive heard 2 theories:
1) if you dont release extra sperm, your balls swell up to the size of basketballs, and they have to be surgically removed.......
2) if you dont release extra sperm, you eventually have a wet dream, and there is so much built up when u have the wet dream u drown in ure own jizz.........

*** kidding if u havent figured that out..........***

Also, all the extra fluid can cause prostate problems later on.

HockeyLovesMe
June 11th, 2013, 08:15 PM
not masturbating cuz you don't want to masturbate isn't bad. not masturbating cuz you feel guilty or ashamed is different. If you just don't feel like it or just don't want to do it, then I don't think that is bad at all. but if you have to force yourself not to do it, that is when I think it is bad

well said troy :)

Lovelife090994
June 11th, 2013, 08:21 PM
Why would it be bad?

Some consider it weird and bad if one basically never does it even after they tell the story why.

The only actual people I've heard say that were 'jesus-freaks.'
^ Not hating on Christianity, simply pointing out the over-religious people.

What exactly is a Jesus-Freak as you call it?And FYI, my family being strongly Christian frowns upon masturbation, that bad too? Just asking, is it? I am Christian as well but I don't see masturbation as absolutely deplorable as some pastors see it mentioning how you have a problem if you masturbate two, three times a day.

not masturbating cuz you don't want to masturbate isn't bad. not masturbating cuz you feel guilty or ashamed is different. If you just don't feel like it or just don't want to do it, then I don't think that is bad at all. but if you have to force yourself not to do it, that is when I think it is bad

Perhaps but chastity is a virtue if one is virtuous.

CharlieHorse
June 11th, 2013, 08:35 PM
Your balls will fill up with too much semen and explode.

No

There's nothing bad about not masturbating, but it's just fighting an instinct which can have the usual effects of instinct fighting. Irritability, stress, etc.

Troy35216
June 11th, 2013, 10:24 PM
Perhaps but chastity is a virtue if one is virtuous.
Chastity Noun
The state or practice of refraining from sexual intercourse.

as you see chastity has nothing to do with masturbation so I don't understand what your comment has to do with my comment.

Lovelife090994
June 11th, 2013, 10:34 PM
Chastity Noun
The state or practice of refraining from sexual intercourse.

as you see chastity has nothing to do with masturbation so I don't understand what your comment has to do with my comment.

How so? Can you explain? To masturbate is a choice. If one doesn't it is also by choice and can be called chastity since masturbation is a sexual act.

Troy35216
June 11th, 2013, 10:50 PM
How so? Can you explain? To masturbate is a choice. If one doesn't it is also by choice and can be called chastity since masturbation is a sexual act.
dude i'm not gonna debate it with you. the dictionary says that chastity is the act of not having sexual intercourse. masturbating is not having sexual intercourse. therefore according to the dictionary you can masturbate and still have your chastity. idk what anything being by choice has to do with it being chastity. I didn't eat brussels sprouts at dinner tonight by choice but that doesn't mean not eating brussels sprouts is an act of chastity. i don't know if masturbation is a sexual act or not but i do know that it is NOT sexual intercourse, which is what chastity is all about. i don't care if you jerk off or don't jerk off as long as it something you do or don't do because you eithe rfeel like doing it or don't feel like doing it. but if you don't do it because you think it it makes you unchaste, then IMO you are refraining from doing it for the wrong reasons. if you want to argue with the dictionary the guy want to talk to is Mr. Webster not Mr. Troy

Jasperf
June 11th, 2013, 11:27 PM
Why is it so bad to not masturbate at all?
When some on here or in real life (by my experience) say they are not going to masturbate anymore or that they want to stop people always question why and say how not masturbating is weird and not normal?

Does something happen if one doesn't masturbate? Does not masturbating cause differences between someone who does regularly?

Unlike a woman who are born with a certain amount of eggs, men are constantly producing sperm. If you do not ejaculate often then what do you think happens, a wet drem. Also because sperm can only live a certain amount of time, if they for inside you, perhaps this will lower you sperm count O_o impermanantly

Oh and on your poll, 97% of males above the age of 12 masterbate.

Beemo
June 11th, 2013, 11:47 PM
It's not bad but once you do it & you really like it you want more! Like I mean you really like it you want more!

Steven_123
June 12th, 2013, 02:43 AM
I've attempted not masturbating, but it got to the point where my balls hurt constantly and I couldn't take it anymore. It only worked for little over a week.

SniperKing
June 12th, 2013, 04:46 AM
I didn't know it was bad not to....

Troy35216
June 12th, 2013, 10:06 AM
Unlike a woman who are born with a certain amount of eggs, men are constantly producing sperm. If you do not ejaculate often then what do you think happens, a wet drem. Also because sperm can only live a certain amount of time, if they for inside you, perhaps this will lower you sperm count O_o impermanantly

Oh and on your poll, 97% of males above the age of 12 masterbate.

this is not true. Jerking or not jerking has nothing to do with sperm count. There is plenty of FACTUAL information online about this as a 10 second Google search will show.

chicohunter
June 12th, 2013, 10:10 AM
I don't think its bad if you don't want to do it

swimBoy
June 12th, 2013, 10:49 AM
I don't think not doing it is bad or anything, you'll just have more wet dreams. I started to JO way after my friends say they started and I had the dreams as a release.

Once ya start to JO.well you feel good and it's tuff not to do it more.

Jasperf
June 12th, 2013, 10:36 PM
this is not true. Jerking or not jerking has nothing to do with sperm count. There is plenty of FACTUAL information online about this as a 10 second Google search will show.

Then where does the dead sperm go O_o

Lovelife090994
June 12th, 2013, 10:54 PM
Then where does the dead sperm go O_o

It is not dead, it is reabsorbed into the body to make more sperm. Recycled.

Trace
June 13th, 2013, 01:06 AM
Some consider it weird and bad if one basically never does it even after they tell the story why.



What exactly is a Jesus-Freak as you call it?And FYI, my family being strongly Christian frowns upon masturbation, that bad too? Just asking, is it? I am Christian as well but I don't see masturbation as absolutely deplorable as some pastors see it mentioning how you have a problem if you masturbate two, three times a day.

I mean overly-religious people.