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jacktheawesome
June 10th, 2013, 08:45 PM
Ok so I know that masturbating is natural. Ik that almost everybody does it. But I've been doing it way too much. Like every 30 min. And I can't stop. I think I'm addicted and I don't know what to do. If anyone could help me that would be great. I'm sorry if this is against the rules... but I don't know what to do.

uekikouske
June 10th, 2013, 08:51 PM
just lay off all the sexual starters like porn and whatnot and thinking sexual thoughts and busy yourself with something that you like to do and doesnt incur those thoughts.

Second Chance
June 10th, 2013, 10:38 PM
If you're masturbating like every half hour, then you got to cut it down. I would say for starters you have to remove any and everything from your bedroom that would make you want to masturbate. For example, if you have a computer in your room, then you might want to move it to a public place in your house so you won't jack off. If you have a ton of porn on your computer or if you have magazines, then I would either delete them, or at least put a password on those files that you cannot easily remember.

I would say the best thing you can do is get active in something productive. If you are spending all your free time at home in your bedroom, then you have to do something else. Hang out with friends, go to the park, or at least get out of the house. If you're stuck at home, then do something around the house like play basketball, swim, or even do some chores. If you keep your schedule busy, then you won't have a lot of time to jack off.

Also, limit yourself to jacking off two to three times a day. If you keep up with that schedule, then reward yourself (obviously not jacking off). If you jack off more than you wanted to do so, then put some coins in a jar as a reminder of why you need to keep your goal.

I hope things work out for you, and a lot of us had your problem when we first developed our sexuality.

johnsmith1
June 11th, 2013, 05:07 AM
Ok so I know that masturbating is natural. Ik that almost everybody does it. But I've been doing it way too much. Like every 30 min. And I can't stop. I think I'm addicted and I don't know what to do. If anyone could help me that would be great. I'm sorry if this is against the rules... but I don't know what to do.

Do U even cum after a while, as you will almost dry up or rub yourself raw. Anyway, if you do feel yourself with free time,try and figure out other things to do. Go for a walk, tidy your room, watch TV. If you also leave it for a little longer, it's more enjoyable

FizZ
June 11th, 2013, 06:44 AM
Ok so I know that masturbating is natural. Ik that almost everybody does it. But I've been doing it way too much. Like every 30 min. And I can't stop. I think I'm addicted and I don't know what to do. If anyone could help me that would be great. I'm sorry if this is against the rules... but I don't know what to do.

be proud coz u are not addicted to drugs. just masturbating

connor156
June 11th, 2013, 06:46 AM
13 years and every 30 mins wow thats amazing but yer i have done it a few times

Ryhanna
June 11th, 2013, 06:48 AM
Go for a walk, or do some other form of physical exercise.

XXXXX
June 12th, 2013, 01:34 PM
I'm gay too. Do something else, chat with someone,sing,dance,listen to music,wath tv series online or movies,watch shameless its amazing

Toptoptop
June 12th, 2013, 03:06 PM
Or you could challenge yourself for every time you jack off do like 100 push ups and sit ups that would get you pretty tired keep doing it until you are happy with how much you do it a day

Charlie48
June 12th, 2013, 03:16 PM
find a hobby.

Steven_123
June 12th, 2013, 04:22 PM
I used to do it when I first discovered masturbating, but since then I've slowed down. I realized it was really bad and slowly spread the time between doing it.

itsthat0n3kid
June 12th, 2013, 05:20 PM
yeah just keep yourself busy. you have to do things to keep your mind off it. exercising always helps.

SacredB
June 12th, 2013, 07:41 PM
your probably stuck with nothing to do and what do pubescent boys do when they are bored? try letting it run its course if that doesn't work and it is bothering you maybe try using some of the tips above.

Tim13
June 12th, 2013, 07:59 PM
I do it like 4 - 7 times a day. I've always thought it might be to much.

SniperKing
June 12th, 2013, 08:01 PM
Just think of stuff to make you not horny. yucky things haha

gladiator528
June 12th, 2013, 08:17 PM
Find a hobby to keep you busy.

riverboy
June 12th, 2013, 09:34 PM
Toss the football with your bro or a friend. You sound bored.

Soccerkid
June 13th, 2013, 12:08 AM
Get out of the house anything to get our of the house