handjob from gf

[tomfelix]

I've been dating this girl for a while now and I really like her, she really likes me blah blah. But we've only ever kissed and I want to take it a step further, possibly to getting a handjob or at least on top of trousers playing.

How do I approach the whole thing and persuade her to do it?

[Calum mcewan 15]

Why don't u ask her if she would like to go further and explain what u would like to do and
Ask of she would like to do anything else

[PinkFloyd]

You need to just let it happen. Sit down in a private area in her house like her room, and watch a movie. One thing will lead to another..

[BrandonA]

It's called seducing. Just kidding. Wait till she's comfortable with it.

[digzchickz]

just start making out and when it starts getting hot try doing some stuff, getting her undressed, if she doesnt stop you, then keep going.

[Catholic Guy]

Just start to mover her hand onto your crotch if you are sitting next to each other and then if she moves away take it as she isn't ready for it

[johnsmith1]

Just chat to her. You might be lucky. Don't push too hard if she's not ready yet

[Aidoon123]

I had the problem of where I wasn't ready! Whenever we would 'make out' as ye Americans call it, she would start putting her hand down South which I didn't mind (over pants) but when she tried to go further I asked her to stop :P People are just different, and she really pestred me to go down there, never happened :P So, from personal experience don't push her, ask her or if it happens it happens :)

[justinglives]

You might try moving your hand "down south...." And see if she wants to go that far.
Take her lead, be gentle, dont push.

[samsunglover]

when she has her had on you try slowey pushing her hand down south and she if she gets the hint

[Steveo1000]

tell her you wanna finger her and ask if she will return the favor

[Trenton_]

I had the problem of where I wasn't ready! Whenever we would 'make out' as ye Americans call it, she would start putting her hand down South which I didn't mind (over pants) but when she tried to go further I asked her to stop :P People are just different, and she really pestred me to go down there, never happened :P So, from personal experience don't push her, ask her or if it happens it happens :)


What do you call making out?





when she has her had on you try slowey pushing her hand down south and she if she gets the hint


what if it's pointing North? :)

[CyrustheGreat]

just ask. worst that can happen is she's satan and wants your soul. (KIDDING!) but if not, take your time with it, dont rush.

[dontfiguremeout]

Asking tips on how to take steps further with gf's are now allowed here. :locked: