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crazyguy123
June 10th, 2013, 02:32 AM
Yesterday my best 2 mates came over for a movie, and things got kinda outta hand. We started to look at each other and then that turned into jerking off together then we moved into trying blowjobs. The weird thing was I loved every but of it, I have a girlfriend but does this make me gay..?? Please help

JonasNegmis
June 10th, 2013, 02:44 AM
You're probably bisexual, and that's totally fine. You like what you like. Anyone who tells you different doesn't matter.

Deep Blue Sea
June 10th, 2013, 03:04 AM
Nothing makes you gay like a wizard transforming someone into a toad ;)
Of course you loved it, it's so much fun and feels soooo good :)
Just horny boys having fantastic fun with each other. Wonderful friend bonding. I'm so happy for you :)

MaguireUk
June 10th, 2013, 03:11 AM
Your ethier bi or curious really it all depends if your attracted to both guys and girls or not only you can answer that

johnsmith1
June 10th, 2013, 03:59 AM
Just sounds like 3 horny guys having curious fun. Don't worry about it.

slimboy1997
June 10th, 2013, 01:25 PM
You are not gay, More than likely you are just curious! The worst (or best) thing that it could be is that you are Bi

Poplar
June 10th, 2013, 02:25 PM
It's called curiosity and curiosity leads to experimenting. You may not be gay. But if you have sexual feelings towards boys and girls then you may be Bi.

Gopher
June 10th, 2013, 04:27 PM
Your just curious, trying new things, have fun with it :P

Avacon
June 10th, 2013, 04:44 PM
In my view, sexual orientation is mainly how people feel about stuff. If you're into guys (and you're a guy yourself), you're probably either bi or gay. If you're into girls (and you're a guy), you're probably either straight or bi. If you're into both, you're probably bi. But none of it's certain, and "bi" isn't necessarily you're 50/50 into both... It could be you mostly like girls, but like to fool around with guys every so often.

So... it's kinda up to you. If you enjoyed it enough you think you'll definitely want to do it again, and with other guys, you're probably bi. Or, if you don't want to label yourself as such, you could be straight but curious. So, basically, mostly straight, but a little bit gay (on the straight end of bi)... Or, alternatively, it was a complete fluke and will never happen again. If you'd prefer that...

justin 13
June 12th, 2013, 08:47 AM
I think was curiosity.

answers-101
June 12th, 2013, 03:18 PM
don't worry about you're sexuality. if it turns out that you are gay/bi, don't feel bad about it; just enjoy who you are. the moment you wish you were someone else is the moment that you get low, trust me. you can't change who you're sexually attracted to, and you shouldn't want to :)

itsthat0n3kid
June 12th, 2013, 05:25 PM
it doesnt sound like anything to worry about, must people go through that kind of stuff.

dufus
June 12th, 2013, 06:44 PM
do the same thing with a bunch of my friends all the time...had sex with my GF first time a few month's ago...all in good fun...no problems.

teen.jpg
June 12th, 2013, 07:01 PM
No, it doesn't mean your gay. Being gay is more then just sex with guys -_-

SacredB
June 12th, 2013, 07:16 PM
it just sounds like you're horny and like being "satisfied" in my views being gay is feeling emotional attraction towards another male.

SniperKing
June 12th, 2013, 08:06 PM
It's your choice if you're gay or not, we can't answer that. You were just horny

riverboy
June 12th, 2013, 09:36 PM
Just sounds like 3 horny guys having curious fun. Don't worry about it.

I agree.

alexxpearson
June 14th, 2013, 06:16 PM
no your just expirementing, it's not gay at all

warriorofthewater12
June 20th, 2013, 05:12 AM
You're probably just curious. I've done that a lot

DerBear
June 20th, 2013, 08:16 AM
It doesn't make you gay but in a sense you have cheated on your girlfriend by engaging in sexual acts while in a relationship.

Gigablue
June 20th, 2013, 08:40 AM
You may or may not be gay, but no one on here will be able to tell you. If you are, you'll figure it out yourself.

However, because you have a girlfriend, you just cheated on her. It's the same as if you were to get a blowjob from a different girl while dating her. If I were you, I wouldn't do it again as long as you're dating her.

jaxian rhyder
June 20th, 2013, 09:19 AM
Nothing makes you gay like a wizard transforming someone into a toad ;)
Of course you loved it, it's so much fun and feels soooo good :)
Just horny boys having fantastic fun with each other. Wonderful friend bonding. I'm so happy for you :)

Sooooooooo trrrrrrruuuuuuueeeee
Can't stress it any more

photojared
June 27th, 2013, 10:35 AM
well know you know both sides and can choose witch you like physically or mentally a boy or girl and maybe even both

LunarScorpio
June 27th, 2013, 11:00 AM
To answer the OP's question: No it doesn't make you gay

But don't tell your GF that you did it, as they may see you as cheating on them.

biggyboys
June 27th, 2013, 11:49 AM
Just roll with it. But don't do anything your not comfortable with!

lumberturd
July 24th, 2013, 06:59 PM
well your definatly attracted to him and you did cheat on your gf

From Chris
July 24th, 2013, 09:08 PM
Yesterday my best 2 mates came over for a movie, and things got kinda outta hand. We started to look at each other and then that turned into jerking off together then we moved into trying blowjobs. The weird thing was I loved every but of it, I have a girlfriend but does this make me gay..?? Please help

No lots of guys do this sometimes... That doesn't mean your gay!

VirtualGuy012
July 24th, 2013, 09:09 PM
You could. Be curious or bi. It's really up to you to decide on which one you are

Jasperf
July 24th, 2013, 09:10 PM
Yesterday my best 2 mates came over for a movie, and things got kinda outta hand. We started to look at each other and then that turned into jerking off together then we moved into trying blowjobs. The weird thing was I loved every but of it, I have a girlfriend but does this make me gay..?? Please help

Not a single act of homosexuality equals homosexuality, homosexuality is an emotional connection to the same gender, not a sexual one.

Yolo98
July 28th, 2013, 11:32 PM
Your just curious. If you were gay anyways it wouldn't matter.

Plasma
July 28th, 2013, 11:43 PM
I'd guess bi. Nothing is wrong with you...

Jtyler
July 28th, 2013, 11:51 PM
Not at all

pmpsj96
July 29th, 2013, 12:17 AM
Just curious, you'll grow out of it or end up loving it

tom17
July 29th, 2013, 02:42 AM
I don't think you're gay at least as you LOVE your girlfriend and you're totally into girls. I think it was just a new kind of experiece and that's all... Every teen should experiment. I mean, you don't LOVE your mate in "boyfriend" way, right?

wish_master_TWA
July 29th, 2013, 12:14 PM
You were just experimenting with your sexuality, and chances are that you're Bisexual :) Nothing to be ashamed of, it can only open doors ;)

BlueEyedFloridian
July 29th, 2013, 12:31 PM
you sounds pretty normal. I had a situation like that when i was younger, that when i realized that i was in fact gay. But like someone else said you could just be bisexual.

dddylan
September 28th, 2013, 07:17 PM
Its experimentation. Ur not 100% straight, but ur not fully gay either. Only you know if you are or not

McAK101
September 28th, 2013, 07:18 PM
It's just you guys being curious. There's nothing wrong with that.

Pontiac67
September 29th, 2013, 03:40 PM
It doesn't make you gay but in a sense you have cheated on your girlfriend by engaging in sexual acts while in a relationship.

That's pretty heavy to say that he cheated on his girlfriend by engaging in a sexual act.. Masturbation is a sexual act too, yes I know it is a solo act. I think there is a difference between what he did with his buddies and having sex with another girl

The captain
September 29th, 2013, 03:57 PM
You're probably bisexual, and that's totally fine. You like what you like. Anyone who tells you different doesn't matter.

tottaly agree...curiosity is not be gay and even if u feel more gay than str8 is ok too dude if u feel ok

jimmy4
September 29th, 2013, 05:10 PM
yh pretty gay

Jamie_P
September 29th, 2013, 05:29 PM
I dont think your gay.... you cant just have a sexual experience with a guy or two and fear for your life that it makes you gay. Im not sure how old you are, but i'm guessing your a young teenager going through puberty. If so, then the experience you just encountered with your friends is completely normal; teenage boys do it all the time because at this stage of your life your hormones are completely out of sink, and a lot of boys going through this like to do something called 'experimenting'. The reason you enjoyed it is because its not something you do every day, and anything sexually stimulating is bound to feel good; whether it be with a male or female. So all in all, I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that you are gay, you could just simply be curious. If you start to develop feelings for these boys and you still also find that you still like girls, then you might consider yourself as being bisexual.

Hope this helped.

Montreal1993
September 29th, 2013, 05:30 PM
If ur gay, it's no big deal.... But I think ur just curious

moonwolf9
September 29th, 2013, 05:42 PM
In my view, sexual orientation is mainly how people feel about stuff. If you're into guys (and you're a guy yourself), you're probably either bi or gay. If you're into girls (and you're a guy), you're probably either straight or bi. If you're into both, you're probably bi. But none of it's certain, and "bi" isn't necessarily you're 50/50 into both... It could be you mostly like girls, but like to fool around with guys every so often.

So... it's kinda up to you. If you enjoyed it enough you think you'll definitely want to do it again, and with other guys, you're probably bi. Or, if you don't want to label yourself as such, you could be straight but curious. So, basically, mostly straight, but a little bit gay (on the straight end of bi)... Or, alternatively, it was a complete fluke and will never happen again. If you'd prefer that...

Being bisexual myself, I find how you describe bisexuality a little offensive. Its an emotional, and physical attraction between either you and either a member of the same or opposite sex, not you love one and like to fool around with the other. That invalidates everything that true bi people are.

moonwolf9
September 29th, 2013, 05:48 PM
as for everything else, take some time and see if you are really emotionally and physically attracted to guys and you can make judgements from there.

DerBear
September 29th, 2013, 06:04 PM
That's pretty heavy to say that he cheated on his girlfriend by engaging in a sexual act.. Masturbation is a sexual act too, yes I know it is a solo act. I think there is a difference between what he did with his buddies and having sex with another girl

A sexual act with another person is classed as cheating whether it be with a man or a women.

Ammyneac
September 29th, 2013, 06:38 PM
Your maybe curious.

Michael_6
September 29th, 2013, 07:13 PM
Just bi not gay but now you know what it feels like and if you liked it more keep experimenting

kinger
September 30th, 2013, 04:54 PM
Your just horny and have great friends me and one of my friends did the same thing when we were younger not a big deal

Verde
October 3rd, 2013, 09:58 PM
Yeah, probably bi... Or bi curious, but I don't understand that term, so I use str8 curious. You like guys and girls, but don't want to date guys and only find them physically attractive. That's pretty much me in a nutshell.

Avacon
October 6th, 2013, 03:26 PM
Being bisexual myself, I find how you describe bisexuality a little offensive. Its an emotional, and physical attraction between either you and either a member of the same or opposite sex, not you love one and like to fool around with the other. That invalidates everything that true bi people are.

I wasn't saying that. I was just saying that if you do love one and like the other, you're probably still bi, though don't have the feelings for long-term relationships. You can hardly say that somebody who has an emotional attraction to females, but physical attraction to guys, is not bi, though they like each gender differently (though possibly, in their opinion, equally).

And just to let you know, in response to your "being bisexual myself", I'm bisexual too. So don't go around acting like others don't know what it's like. And it doesn't invalidate "true bi"s as you put it, as they are just a different kind of bi.

Get Outta Compton
October 6th, 2013, 06:28 PM
I wish I was as lucky as you. ;)

Liopliop
October 6th, 2013, 08:55 PM
Yesterday my best 2 mates came over for a movie, and things got kinda outta hand. We started to look at each other and then that turned into jerking off together then we moved into trying blowjobs. The weird thing was I loved every but of it, I have a girlfriend but does this make me gay..?? Please help

that doesn't make you gay. you can only consider yourself gay if you have emotional feelings for others guys. If that's not the case then you were probably just experimenting .

Dennis Chaney
October 7th, 2013, 12:39 AM
Either you are bisexual or you are just curious, most teenagers are curious so that would be normal.

moonwolf9
October 7th, 2013, 01:25 AM
I wasn't saying that. I was just saying that if you do love one and like the other, you're probably still bi, though don't have the feelings for long-term relationships. You can hardly say that somebody who has an emotional attraction to females, but physical attraction to guys, is not bi, though they like each gender differently (though possibly, in their opinion, equally).

And just to let you know, in response to your "being bisexual myself", I'm bisexual too. So don't go around acting like others don't know what it's like. And it doesn't invalidate "true bi"s as you put it, as they are just a different kind of bi.

i was just stating an opinion. so calm down dude.

Liam TWB
October 8th, 2013, 12:57 PM
Any of you could be gay I suppose, but it sounds like you would at most be bi, as you have a gf. More likely is that you are just three horny guys who were curious and wanted to try something different. Just because it felt good, doesnt mean you're gay .. basically, pretty much anything rubbing your penis feels good. If you fell in love with one of the guys, then maybe.

Catholic Guy
October 8th, 2013, 03:51 PM
It's just experimenting and no big deal, perhaps you should do that with your girlfriend and see if you love it as much. You are only really gay if you have emotional feelings towards a guy the same way or more than you do to your girlfriend

grantd9899
November 11th, 2013, 07:05 PM
nothing MAKES you gay

cali_boy
November 11th, 2013, 08:00 PM
I don't think so dude I mean just don't really try it again

hockeyfan
November 11th, 2013, 08:00 PM
Ur curious, it has nothing to do with ur secular orientation

JIntrepid
November 15th, 2013, 01:20 AM
sounds like a good time man lol

From Chris
November 15th, 2013, 02:25 AM
Yesterday my best 2 mates came over for a movie, and things got kinda outta hand. We started to look at each other and then that turned into jerking off together then we moved into trying blowjobs. The weird thing was I loved every but of it, I have a girlfriend but does this make me gay..?? Please help

Not at all! It's perfectly normal for guys to do sexual things like this with each other and not be gay~ If you were sexually attracted to them i think that could be a different story but if you just loved it because it felt good then that's perfectly normal! You were in the moment and felt good. :)

-From Chris

MrIan
November 15th, 2013, 09:33 PM
I would say having fun out of curiosity or bi

dtranger04
November 15th, 2013, 09:50 PM
i agree with what everyone else said, just friends having fun. it dosent make you gay

habbohop
November 17th, 2013, 06:38 AM
It would make you at least bisexual if you had emotional feelings of affection for him as well as physical, but there's nothing wrong with that, the only problem is that you have a girlfriends, so it's not really fair on her

KoolKid96
November 17th, 2013, 06:53 AM
Probably just the high sex hormones during puberty. It doesn't make you gay you could be bi or curious. It's really just how you look at it =)

GayBoo
November 17th, 2013, 10:13 AM
i agree, you're probably bi.

parker84797
November 17th, 2013, 12:13 PM
No your fine bro. Don't worry bout it

JoeB93772
November 19th, 2013, 12:10 AM
It's your choice if you're gay or not, we can't answer that. You were just horny

i agree:yeah::yes:

JamesJB
December 26th, 2013, 06:11 PM
yeah its up 2 u mate

Stanislas
December 26th, 2013, 06:42 PM
Not at all! I'm straight and I love experimenting. :P

teenuser101
December 26th, 2013, 06:50 PM
I have never done anything like that but I would love to. I wouldn't consider myself gay or bisexual, just curious like every other teen on the planet!

John Andrew
December 29th, 2013, 03:02 AM
I think its fine, people are so quick to call others gay even if its just a hug or something. At the most I think you could be bi.

lacheyman
December 29th, 2013, 07:09 AM
it doesnt make you gay man i am straight but i like to play with other guys if anything its bisexual but you dont have anything but a sexual attraction to men