Liking people for their looks only.

[Extreme586]

I guess I'm just kind of frustrated and want to rant on the way life is. It sort of sickens me that we as humans will waste our time on people for their looks and not really whats on the inside. Hell I do it myself when I find someone attractive, I can't stop goggling at them even if I don't necessarily love their personality.

Even people who's personalities I really like (even more than their looks) are people who I still have some sort of attraction to.

Just wish it could be different that is all. Anyone else feel this way?

[Elysium]

I agree, but instinct can't be helped.

[unknownuser]

Yes, as terrible as it sounds, looks are what really drive me to a person. I'd be a hypocrite to say that looks don't really matter...

[CharlieHorse]

I am guilty of this :(
I don't mean to :(

[lukene]

Like everyone, looks matter to me as well. It's not like I'm extremely shallow but if they aren't good looking I'm not going to be attracted to them and it doesn't matter if they are an amazing person. Sure they will have an attractive personality but there still has to be physical attraction. I'm pretty sure it's natural. And beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[Extreme586]

I totally agree with all of you guys I'm not trying to make any of you feel bad!! I just wish it could be different because I'm definitely guilty of this as well. I wish we as humans were more attracted to personalities and we didn't just go for each other because of how we look!

I really get irritated at myself when I can't stop thinking about certain people because of how they look especially when I don't necessarily even know them that well or like their personalities very much!

[LuciferSam]

There's actually a science behind all this. Somewhere back in our evolution, we learned that the more attractive a person is the more likely it is that they are healthy and therefore the better choice to produce offspring with, as mating with unhealthy members of the species is less likely to produce strong offspring, putting the continuity of the species at risk.

Not quite sure why certain aspects are found attractive, but this is why they are such a driving force behind our "mate selection".

[teen.jpg]

As weird as it sounds, I actually DON'T do that. I like people for who they are, not what they look like. If you looked at the people I've liked, they're all different. Because everybody's different :)

[justin 13]

I like people for who they are as well. I really don't care about ur dick size or ur skin color or if u r fat or skinny. I love people who wants stay with me and be my truly friend.

[Miserabilia]

Its not about the outside. I dont know what it is that can attract me to people.
I guess its just the way they are, the way they can make you feel

[Biscuithead13]

I'll admit Im guilty of this. My boyfriends have always been really cute and hot so I tend to always go for the cutest guy I find, granted I love guys with a baby face and the 2 guys that liked me had facial hair and I hate facial hair lol

[lukene]

What really attracts me though is if a guy uses correct spelling and grammar. Oh my God. Nothing's more infuriating than people who write poorly. Although my grammar can be a little strange when the German side of brain kicks in. Haha. Yeah, looks count but so does spelling and grammar. ;)

[Caldwell]

I could be friends with an ugly person, if they had a good personality. Even best friends with them.

But I couldn't date or have sex with one. I hate to sound shallow, but that's just how it is. It's strange, because I'm gay, but the 'seek the attractive,' instinct seems to still apply to me.

[steellord321]

I was all about looks at first but now if someone is a jerk i lose interest quick.

[Purplebunny]

When it comes to friends I completely agree with you.

But relationships are a diffo story.

I mean sure everyone talks about how they love someone for their personality and whatnot, but physical attraction does play a huge role too.

If you are not physically attracted to the person you are with, it sorta takes away from the whole thing.

[Purplebunny]

I can't stand people who would judge somebody else before getting to know them. Just because they are different' does not mean they can't make a good friend.

[jaxian rhyder]

I agree completely I date people who I think r pretty not for wats inside I just wish I could dobboth a know