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DBJosh
June 9th, 2013, 05:23 PM
I'm a 14 year old boy in the UK. I pretty much won't talk to anyone, If i'm walking along the street and I see anyone who looks 12+ I get really self-conscious and try to avoid them as much as possible. I'm in year 9 and I go to an all boys school, and I only have about 10 friends who all live about 30 mins drive away. Also, I haven't spoken to any girls properly since the end of year 6,(except 1) and I find it really awkward when I do.
The only girl I talk to always calls me cute and is the only person i've told some secrets and stuff.
Does anyone have any ideas as to how I could make friends, talk to people, or become less shy.
Pierce
June 9th, 2013, 06:16 PM
Try hanging out with your existing friends more. Once you get comfortable around them try hanging out with some of their friends while there around. Trust me, hanging out with people when mutual friends are around usually makes it MUCH easier. Best of Luck man, really.
HockeyLovesMe
June 10th, 2013, 09:39 AM
u also mite want to join a team sport or a club at school :)
Fanta_Lover44
June 10th, 2013, 11:07 AM
Hey, i know the feeling if i was you, spend time with the girl and perhaps get her to intruduce you to her friends maybe. For the school you could always ask people there intrestes, hopefully you might find one you and them both enjoy. As mentioned above, you could join a club inside/out side school.
Trenton_
June 10th, 2013, 11:25 AM
I'm a 14 year old boy in the UK. I pretty much won't talk to anyone, If i'm walking along the street and I see anyone who looks 12+ I get really self-conscious and try to avoid them as much as possible. I'm in year 9 and I go to an all boys school, and I only have about 10 friends who all live about 30 mins drive away. Also, I haven't spoken to any girls properly since the end of year 6,(except 1) and I find it really awkward when I do.
The only girl I talk to always calls me cute and is the only person i've told some secrets and stuff.
Does anyone have any ideas as to how I could make friends, talk to people, or become less shy.
Sports. Give you something to talk about, forced to be around people and it grows from there. Can't imagine not having girls at school!
justin 13
June 23rd, 2013, 12:08 PM
Any sport u like? Church youth meetings? Any hobbies?
jaxian rhyder
June 23rd, 2013, 12:41 PM
Say hi that's it that's all u need to do is say hi
DerBear
June 23rd, 2013, 10:48 PM
Are you interested in any sports/clubs that your school offers? If so, maybe you could try and join them.
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