Awkward problem advice pls

[AlexZ]

yesterday while I was out my mom thought it would be okay to use my laptop since the desktop computer she uses was messed up. when I came back to my room and saw it was missing I panicked and eventually asked her if she had it and she handed it to me. we both didnt say anything after that and i ran back up to my room. I dont know what to do because i have bookmarks on my laptop that i never wanted her to see! i mean mostly bookmarks to certain gay stuff... :( since then we both havent talked to each other and i've been trying to avoid her because i dont know what to do now

[HockeyLovesMe]

my parents wld right away start yelling at me for sure but if she did see it mabey she is just thinking how she is gonna handle it to be nice about it :) dont panic about it though and if she does bring it up just say u were curious about it or something but just relax for now :)

[Unsolvedmind]

I would just be open with it

[Croconaw]

Yeah. Be open about being gay. :)

[Magnus Bane]

I agree just be open tell her f your ready

[jayyy-lmao]

Look. If you feel comfortable telling your mum you're gay, then do it. If you don't, don't. Bear in mind there is a decent chance she has already guessed after using your laptop.

[steellord321]

Is a lot to process for her too and she's probly worried to just ask you or what. Well, you should just tell her what she already knows and end the awkwardness.

[AlexZ]

thanks for the posts guys it turns out i didn't have to go to her, she came to me in my room and asked about it all

[mickeymouse19]

How did she react? I wish you good luck man.

[AlexZ]

How did she react? I wish you good luck man.she actually seemed pretty happy about my answer which i thought was kind of weird i expected the opposite or for her to at least be kind of just neutral :what:

[likemike]

Good for you

[KimuraWannabe116]

Glad it went well!

[mickeymouse19]

I'm glad for you too!

[steellord321]

congrats! now you can be yourself at home at least

[Cameron14]

Phew!

[justin 13]

Look. If you feel comfortable telling your mum you're gay, then do it. If you don't, don't. Bear in mind there is a decent chance she has already guessed after using your laptop.


I agree. I wud like to say my dad i'm gay but is not the right moment for him, tuff times running and financials problems, I guess eventually I will. I agree also, my dad maybe already knows it, cuz once my bro caught on cam and he told my dad...and I denied everything but also he checked the laptop and found some gay pics.

[Miserabilia]

I don't agree with your mother just taking your laptop and looking through it, that's violating your privacy IMO.