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ashleyforgod
June 8th, 2013, 05:01 PM
hi there, im sorry if i might bother anyone since im new here, but i wanted some advice.
i recently started seeing a boy from my school, we would hangout at school and stuff, but school is out now.
weve only been dating since may 6th now.
and he came over last night and spent the night, and weve been hanging out all day, and hes gonna spend tonight over too.
ive had so many mixed feelings with him over here
if anyone has any advice or questions please let me know.
hipster101
June 8th, 2013, 07:06 PM
Hey, no need to apologize! Posting things and getting advice is why VT exists! Anyway about your question/my possible advice!
I'm probably going to have the same problem with my girlfriend feeling the same way as you do when school is out in weeks...
Could it be that you're just...nervous? At school, it was one thing...and now that you're together at home a lot...you see a perhaps different side of them...your view may change...for the better or for the worse..
If it is just nerves...because it is your first boyfriend (It's also another similarity between my gf!) that it's this new person to spend a lot more time with. And judging by your story, you've spent a lot of time together so far. Tell him how you feel. If you're unsure...tell him. Contrary to popular belief, us guys actually like being told stuff about you because it is about YOU! c:
Hope that helped...if not..well I gave it a shot!
Always open to talking and always willing to help if I can!
HockeyLovesMe
June 8th, 2013, 08:24 PM
my parents wld kill me if i had a girl sleep over haha but ya just do wat u think is right and dont let him pressure u into nything that u dont want to do :) good luck
ashleyforgod
June 9th, 2013, 08:50 AM
my parents wld kill me if i had a girl sleep over haha but ya just do wat u think is right and dont let him pressure u into nything that u dont want to do :) good luck
i have some stuff i need to talk to someone about
MaguireUk
June 9th, 2013, 09:24 AM
Want to talk message me on my profile my sisters going though something like you atm with her boyfriend
ashleyforgod
June 9th, 2013, 09:40 AM
Want to talk message me on my profile my sisters going though something like you atm with her boyfriend
how do i message you?
hipster101
June 9th, 2013, 04:18 PM
might sound weird, but since you're new you cant send a private mssg...and neither can I...only 25 posts -_-
Anyway
feel
[email protected] someone to talk to? My inbox is always open!
Synyster Shadows
June 9th, 2013, 05:46 PM
Just go with it. It seems fine for now. If the feelings are mutual, that's great. If not, just move on. you seem to like this guy. As long as he doesn't take advantage of you, I'd say you're fine.
agirl555
June 10th, 2013, 08:36 PM
You should go with the flow. Be yourself, and you'll find more signs and feel more emotions on whether you guys love eachothrr or not.
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