Big Big Problem!!!

[Dddtx]

First Off Im Bi. When I Have Sex With Guys, My Dick Gets Rock Hard. When I Have Sex With Girls, It Takes Me A While To Get Myself "up", And Even Then, Its Not All The Way Hard! When I Was Younger, I Used To Get Erections With Girls All The Time. But Since Im Gettin Older And Havin Sex With More Guys Than Girls, I Tend To Get Erections Off Guys And Not So Often With Girls. I Hope This Doesnt Mean Im Gay, Because I Would Rather Shoot Myself. I Still Am Attracted To Girls, But I Just Cant Seem To Get Hard When It Comes To Sex Or Anything Sexually With A Girl... Can Somebody Please Help Me Out!

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

It doesnt mean your gay, you just prefer men sexually over women, or are more used to men.

[Trickster]

Yeah you just are sexually attracted to men it seems. IF you are emotuonally attracted to one sex you have a high probablity of being attratcted to that sex completly later on in you life. You may be nearing the end of puberty but near the end is has just as much pain, and otherwise as when you began it.

[byee]

Mark, there's something strikingly inconsistent with your awareness ( and presumably the acceptability) that sex with guys turns you on more than sex with girls, and the unacceptability of what this might indicate.

I know there's a tendency around these parts to approve of just about any type of sexual urge, feeling, or behavior one might have, and to give permission or otherwise minimize the meaning of just about anything, but in your case, what you're doing isn't so much out of 'curiosity' or 'experimentation', but rather choice. You've (presumably) had enough experience with both genders, and you seem to prefer sex with guys, fairly consistently. Although that might not necessarily mean you're gay, the fact that you're 17, and have experience with both all those hormones, as well as with both genders, would suggest that what you're experiencing could mean something here. Your' bisexuality' might not be a true comfort with both genders, but rather a way you can rationalize your homosexual preference.

You might want to give all of this some thought, what your feelings are telling you, and sort some things out. And, if the idea of actually being gay is that unacceptable, then at the very least, not engage in gay sex anymore.

[sabin22]

im n ot positive but i think ur emotionally acttacted to guys but wtill have feeling for women, as in being bi

[zacharooo]

a man dont worry i think we've all had one of those experiences

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Uh... I haven't....

But if you really can't handle the prospect of being gay, the best thing to do would be like IAMSAM said; don't have sex with guys anymore. Think about it; you said you had more experience with guys, so maybe that's just what you're used to. I think that if you tried to stay with girls ONLY, it might get back on the track you want to be on.

[Trebor]

You're just more used to guys then girls. No big deal. Just try to balance it out.

[Serenity]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Sugaree]

It doesnt mean your gay, you just prefer men sexually over women, or are more used to men.

Yes Yuri is right you must have an emotional and phyiscal realsionship with men.

Right now you really are just prefering men sexually over a woman

[Attax]

I feel that you are probably so used to ahveing sex with men more that it seems more natural anally than having sex with a woman

[abusdbybronz]

kill yourself with a rusty screw driver