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Dddtx
December 16th, 2007, 03:40 AM
Ok, So I Been Bi Since I Was A Little Kid. But Lately, I Have More Sex With Guys Than Ever. I Mean, I Am Still Attracted To Girls But I Have A Feeling If I Keep Having Sex With Guys, Ill End Up Gay. Id Rather Kill Myself Before That Happens... But I Just Really Want To Continue My Relationships And Attraction Towards Girls, But I Just Want To Cut Down On My Sex With Dudes So That I Can Still Be Str8 But Be Able To Still Sex With Guys (not That Often Though) But I Really Need Advice On How To Help Me. Please Someone Help Me I Have Nobody Else To Help Me Out With This!

Hauptmann Kauffman
December 16th, 2007, 03:42 AM
First of all, you wont "end up gay" just because you like sex with men, you will just prefer men over women. Secondly, why would you rather die then be gay? Whats so bad about it? Third, You have control over how often you have sex with guys, if you want to have less, have less, Its that simple.

Dddtx
December 16th, 2007, 03:46 AM
For Me Its Kinda Hard To Stop Havin Sex Wit Dudes Since I Have A High Sex Drive. But I Always Told Myself Since I Was Younger That I Wasnt Gonna End Up Gay And That This Is Just A Sexual Attraction, But I Noticed Now When I Have Sex With Girls My Dick Dont Get As Hard. I Want To Start Bein Into Girls More Than Guys... But I Need Help On How...

Hauptmann Kauffman
December 16th, 2007, 03:47 AM
Well, do you have any women to have sex with? Or just men? That could be part of the problem, too many men, not enough women..

Dddtx
December 16th, 2007, 03:49 AM
U Hit It Right On Target! I Have Too Many Dudes Bcuz Of Resources-internet, Phone Chats.... Its Been Around Since I Was Younger And I Found It Easier To Have Sex With A Man Than Goin Thru The "long Process" That Girls Make U Wait. I Have Girls To Have Sex Wit, But Its That Boys Are Easier To Come Str8 Foward To And Say "lets Hav Sex Real Quick "

Hauptmann Kauffman
December 16th, 2007, 03:51 AM
Well, maybe just j/o more, cut down on the men, and try to go through that "long process" of getting a girl. It would be difficult, but It would work for you

Dddtx
December 16th, 2007, 03:54 AM
I THINK THATS Y I LIKE GUYS SO MUCH, BECVAUSE SINCE I WAS LITTLE I WAS HELLA HORNY. I JACK OFF AT LEAST ONCE OR TWICE A DAY.. AND THAT STILL DOESNT GET ME OFF AS MUCH AS THE REAL THING. i JUST REALLY DONT WANNA END UP BEING GAY, BECAUSE I CAN GET A GIRLFRIEND IF I WANT.. .I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO CUT DOWN ON HAVIN SEX WITH GUYS SO MUCH!

Hauptmann Kauffman
December 16th, 2007, 03:56 AM
Maybe just through power of will. You really want to, FORCE yourself to stop. Dont hurt yourself, just try your hardest to STOP. Im not really sure what else you could do

Dddtx
December 16th, 2007, 04:01 AM
But When Im With Girls, I Cant Get Hard.... When Im With Guys Thogugh.. I Get Rock Hard. Im Still Attracted To Girls, But I Cant Seem To Get Hard With Them. If I Fixed That Problem, Then I Could Beat This Addiction! But Does That Mean Somethin Worng Wit Me??

Hauptmann Kauffman
December 16th, 2007, 04:02 AM
No, nothing is wrong with you, you just need to work to fix this "problem"

Dddtx
December 16th, 2007, 04:03 AM
But How Can I Fix It???

Hauptmann Kauffman
December 16th, 2007, 04:05 AM
i really think you just need to use your mind to fix it, use your own willpower to fight this. I need to go to bed now, I hope someone else will be able to help yu more

Spyware
December 16th, 2007, 06:56 PM
Trust me, if you had any attraction to girls, it won't go away simply by sleeping with too many guys. Do you want to stop sleeping with guys just because you're afraid of becoming 100% gay, or because you want a girlfriend?

If it's only because you're afraid, then don't worry about it.

sabin22
December 17th, 2007, 02:56 AM
having se xwit men doesnt mean ur gay, its bi-curious, + suicide is dumb

Whisper
December 17th, 2007, 08:51 AM
Maybe theres nothing wrong with you
Maybe you don't have a "problem"

Stop tearing yourself apart over labels
It's not worth it mate

xTheLordsServantx
December 18th, 2007, 07:52 PM
maybe have some faith...that might help you "clear" your mindd