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Zeke
June 6th, 2013, 08:56 PM
Im 17 years old, muscular, 5 foot 7, and only have a 5 inch penis, and it looks small, and not normal for my body. I feel like i've had this same size since i was 13. It makes me super un-confident. I have a 5 foot tall girlfriend who i'm in love with and shes only 15 and could care less about my size.

It still makes me lose confidence and self esteem. Mostly everyone in my school seems "huge" Why is mine only 5 inches long? maybe not even, probably 4.9. It sucks. and i hate it. I heard penis growth stops at the age of 17? I don't know it needs to grow or else ill be embarrassed my whole life.

What are your opinions?


P.S. I don't care if this is wrong section just respond please.

ashdyn
June 6th, 2013, 09:05 PM
Dude...you got a rockin' hot body. 5 inches isn't that bad...just roll with it. Plus you already got a girlfriend that doesn't care. You're set bro! 5 inches is PLENTY

Zeke
June 6th, 2013, 09:17 PM
Thanks for the reply! I just don't understand how all these 14 year olds have 7 inchers. It makes me feel ashamed of myself.

Hybridoxidation
June 6th, 2013, 09:23 PM
Thanks for the reply! I just don't understand how all these 14 year olds have 7 inchers. It makes me feel ashamed of myself.

Ikr -.- It's like they take drugs or something. :I Mine is only 4 and a half or 5 inches

MoonMan
June 6th, 2013, 09:29 PM
Thanks for the reply! I just don't understand how all these 14 year olds have 7 inchers. It makes me feel ashamed of myself.

You honestly believe those people? Lol, not only is 7 inches big for a grown man but its very rare a 14 year old would have one considering they are most likely in the early stages of puberty. (Average puberty onset is 12 years old).

Silicate Wielder
June 6th, 2013, 09:30 PM
5-6 inches is the adult average, don't worry about it!

likemike
June 6th, 2013, 09:34 PM
Like moonman said most people lie so i doubt anyone your school is huge, and 5 inches is average

tundravortex
June 6th, 2013, 09:39 PM
Im 17 years old, muscular, 5 foot 7, and only have a 5 inch penis, and it looks small, and not normal for my body. I feel like i've had this same size since i was 13. It makes me super un-confident. I have a 5 foot tall girlfriend who i'm in love with and shes only 15 and could care less about my size.

It still makes me lose confidence and self esteem. Mostly everyone in my school seems "huge" Why is mine only 5 inches long? maybe not even, probably 4.9. It sucks. and i hate it. I heard penis growth stops at the age of 17? I don't know it needs to grow or else ill be embarrassed my whole life.

What are your opinions?


P.S. I don't care if this is wrong section just respond please.

I have the same feeling before...I mean im 5.8 or 7 and I don't have abs but im more mucle than I look but be happy with what you got....be glad you even have one at all

averagemuscleguy
June 6th, 2013, 09:41 PM
In reality penis size really isn't all that important. As long as you're content it doesn't matter what anyone else has. Plus most people lie anyway. And with a body like that it really doesn't matter haha

Deep Blue Sea
June 6th, 2013, 09:41 PM
You have nothing to complain about other than not being 100% perfect in your eyes. One boy on VT is is very close to blind. Another is in a wheelchair. And you're feel bad simply because you an average size penis??? Yes, that's what I said, average, not small. Your girlfriend doesn't care, because it's boys not girls, who make a big deal over penis size. You are bothered by what boys think about your penis. Your only problem is vanity.

Chris95
June 6th, 2013, 11:28 PM
Thanks for the reply! I just don't understand how all these 14 year olds have 7 inchers. It makes me feel ashamed of myself.

I understand perfectly. The truth is, they don't have 7-inchers. Maybe one or two, but not nearly a fraction of the ones who say they do actually do. You should realize that the average adult is 5-6 inches, which means half of people are bigger and half are even smaller than that. It's honestly not a problem at all, though you think it is.

Swagging god
June 6th, 2013, 11:37 PM
Yea ur ok and I'm in a wheelchair, but I don't let that stop me as for penis size I'm honestly 19 and 7 inches but you are normal for your age remember penis size is determined by genetics and the rest of it is luck of the draw. Trust me I speak from experience when I say you are plenty big enough to get the job done right, she's already said she doesn't care about your size, so you have nothing to loose. If you love her and feel like your relationship should go further take the chance. Good luck!!!

pyropilot1668
June 7th, 2013, 01:25 AM
Thanks for the reply! I just don't understand how all these 14 year olds have 7 inchers. It makes me feel ashamed of myself.

Actually... These people are dishonest. Do you really think someone who isnt even close do being done is really going to have a cobra in their pants?

ntc05
June 7th, 2013, 03:03 AM
Don't listen to half the guys on here. I would be very surprised if a 13 year old had a 7" penis. Through hormone fluctuations, most guys don't stop fully growing until the age of 21/24. I'm still growing down there and I'm 19. I experienced the most growth in length around 17 and am now gaining girth.

If you ever want to chat about this sort of stuff feel free to pm me. I felt the same way at your age

randomme
June 7th, 2013, 05:14 AM
If she doesnt care you shouldnt need to worry and just dont worry

Zeke
June 7th, 2013, 06:02 AM
I'm a really gullible person as you can tell. I knew 7 inches at 14 seemed way out of proportion but looking at all those personal and 'honest' surveys you would think they would actually answer in honesty so I thought I would believe it.

Most people are over 5 inches and it just kills me.

Sure I have a girlfriend who could care less about penis size but if I looked at myself in the mirror with a hard-on it just seems way to small for my body. Just doesn't seem right.

I can grow a hair everywhere. Full beard ect. Except I just started growing my first happy trail with dark hair (I'm blonde btw) so maybe ill start growing down there?

You did say you grew at the age of 17 so that makes me feel better.

If it makes a difference I started puberty at the age of 14.

Jae Ostraes
June 7th, 2013, 06:10 AM
Having Mine At 5inches Makes Me Contented. Not To Forget My Asian Race. It Doesnt Really Matter Whats The Size. Just Be Proud And Be Confident. You Will Not Be Killed By Having A 5inches Penis Û

johnsmith1
June 7th, 2013, 09:22 AM
I'm a really gullible person as you can tell. I knew 7 inches at 14 seemed way out of proportion but looking at all those personal and 'honest' surveys you would think they would actually answer in honesty so I thought I would believe it.

Most people are over 5 inches and it just kills me.

Sure I have a girlfriend who could care less about penis size but if I looked at myself in the mirror with a hard-on it just seems way to small for my body. Just doesn't seem right.

I can grow a hair everywhere. Full beard ect. Except I just started growing my first happy trail with dark hair (I'm blonde btw) so maybe ill start growing down there?

You did say you grew at the age of 17 so that makes me feel better.

If it makes a difference I started puberty at the age of 14.

Don't woory on it dude. It does look a little smaller when you look down on it. Given you started at 14 (as a slightly late bloomer), you can still grow. I hit puberty at 10, am 18 now and am 6".. You can still grow. I also think big can sometimes be too big as well. And jokes aside, once a girl get's to know you, your girlfriend has proved that size isn't everything, there is a lot more to a guy than what he hides in his trousers.

justin 13
June 7th, 2013, 02:13 PM
You have nothing to complain about other than not being 100% perfect in your eyes. One boy on VT is is very close to blind. Another is in a wheelchair. And you're feel bad simply because you an average size penis??? Yes, that's what I said, average, not small. Your girlfriend doesn't care, because it's boys not girls, who make a big deal over penis size. You are bothered by what boys think about your penis. Your only problem is vanity.


WOW dude U R REALLY WISE. Totally agree with u.

Heart of a lion
June 7th, 2013, 06:06 PM
I know exactly how you feel mine is 5.5 and im 6 feet tall and it looks kinda small on me. it messed with my confidence for a while untill someone told me its not the size that matters its how you use it. haha

teen.jpg
June 7th, 2013, 08:24 PM
Don't worry about it, you're within the average.

leirbag
June 9th, 2013, 08:11 AM
Yay! Im not alone! 17 and 5 inches as well hahaha. About growing further, http://sd.keepcalm-o-matic.co.uk/i/keep-calm-and-don-t-expect-too-much-2.png that's what I do :P In any case, best of lucks!!

Zeke
June 9th, 2013, 04:33 PM
Yay! Im not alone! 17 and 5 inches as well hahaha. About growing further, http://sd.keepcalm-o-matic.co.uk/i/keep-calm-and-don-t-expect-too-much-2.png that's what I do :P In any case, best of lucks!!

Well i'm relived that i'm not the only one with this size! I really do hope it grows its embarrassing! So best of luck to you as well :)

MaguireUk
June 9th, 2013, 05:04 PM
Im 17 years old, muscular, 5 foot 7, and only have a 5 inch penis, and it looks small, and not normal for my body. I feel like i've had this same size since i was 13. It makes me super un-confident. I have a 5 foot tall girlfriend who i'm in love with and shes only 15 and could care less about my size.

It still makes me lose confidence and self esteem. Mostly everyone in my school seems "huge" Why is mine only 5 inches long? maybe not even, probably 4.9. It sucks. and i hate it. I heard penis growth stops at the age of 17? I don't know it needs to grow or else ill be embarrassed my whole life.

What are your opinions?


P.S. I don't care if this is wrong section just respond please.

Be confident not about the size its how you use it, and with a body like that I would not care you are perfect ;)

Zeke
June 9th, 2013, 05:13 PM
I started working out to fight my anxiety/stress and get some confidence for myself. Also to have a nice body so it makes up for the lack of penis size :D

MaguireUk
June 9th, 2013, 05:16 PM
I started working out to fight my anxiety/stress and get some confidence for myself. Also to have a nice body so it makes up for the lack of penis size :D

Well like I said how you use it not about the size ; ) dont worry sometimes big isnt better

Zeke
June 9th, 2013, 09:39 PM
anything bigger than 5 inches is surely better :\

SacredB
June 9th, 2013, 10:23 PM
your average so dont worry just make sure you know what to do with it lol

jockeyboy97
June 9th, 2013, 10:49 PM
I agree with what everybody says. Size does not matter. My dick is like 1-1/2" to 2inches when flaccid and is skinny. When I get hard it grows to 5-1/2" to 6 inches if I'm really horny. Talk about being self conscious, my dick looks tiny compared to all other guys especially when I see other younger guys with bigger, thicker dicks. I got over it because I've seen some guys taller than me with dicks about my size. I'm happy with my dick because when I pop a boner in front of my close friends they are like what the hell. I'm about the same size of them. So your ok especially with that kick ass chest and 6-pak you have. I wish my body was like that with a small dick. Hey as long as it works and your girl friend is happy your all right. Hey we could still grow.:yeah:

kthon50
June 9th, 2013, 10:53 PM
Dude dont worry about it any girl who is worth it will like you for you

Zeke
June 12th, 2013, 09:15 PM
Yeah I really do hope I grow, Looks to small and awkward for my body. But hey, at least i'm working on my overall body to make up for it.

Jasperf
June 12th, 2013, 11:17 PM
Im 17 years old, muscular, 5 foot 7, and only have a 5 inch penis, and it looks small, and not normal for my body. I feel like i've had this same size since i was 13. It makes me super un-confident. I have a 5 foot tall girlfriend who i'm in love with and shes only 15 and could care less about my size.

It still makes me lose confidence and self esteem. Mostly everyone in my school seems "huge" Why is mine only 5 inches long? maybe not even, probably 4.9. It sucks. and i hate it. I heard penis growth stops at the age of 17? I don't know it needs to grow or else ill be embarrassed my whole life.

What are your opinions?


P.S. I don't care if this is wrong section just respond please.

Okay man, well I go to boarding school and we are split into oases of 20 guys. All of us 20 guys shower together, Jo together and are totally comfortable being naked around each other. The two guys that get payed the most Infact, are both short and stocky build like you, and both have around 5 inch penises. Tbh you just need to be proud of what you have, and learn to use it well (:

Jasperf
June 12th, 2013, 11:23 PM
I'm a really gullible person as you can tell. I knew 7 inches at 14 seemed way out of proportion but looking at all those personal and 'honest' surveys you would think they would actually answer in honesty so I thought I would believe it.

Most people are over 5 inches and it just kills me.

Sure I have a girlfriend who could care less about penis size but if I looked at myself in the mirror with a hard-on it just seems way to small for my body. Just doesn't seem right.

I can grow a hair everywhere. Full beard ect. Except I just started growing my first happy trail with dark hair (I'm blonde btw) so maybe ill start growing down there?

You did say you grew at the age of 17 so that makes me feel better.

If it makes a difference I started puberty at the age of 14.

Hey man I forgot to mention in my other post that the average penis size for fully grown males if 5.5 inches!! Grab a ruler and see how big half an inch is, not much! (:

Beemo
June 13th, 2013, 02:03 AM
It's not about the size ! It's about the motion in the ocean !

Zeke
June 13th, 2013, 06:17 PM
I'm a virgin. I'm so inexpierenced that I don't even know how to use it :D but I'll get the chance too soon, and hopefully im a pro.

McMantis
June 13th, 2013, 06:24 PM
you might still be growing

Zeke
June 17th, 2013, 11:18 AM
I hope i can still grow

Jakefortin
June 17th, 2013, 11:26 AM
You've been watching way too much porn haha. I know they have big dicks, but seriously you're not alone. I'm 17 and just close to 6. It isn't that big but no girls have complained!

blackflag
June 17th, 2013, 01:58 PM
You have nothing to complain about other than not being 100% perfect in your eyes. One boy on VT is is very close to blind. Another is in a wheelchair. And you're feel bad simply because you an average size penis??? Yes, that's what I said, average, not small. Your girlfriend doesn't care, because it's boys not girls, who make a big deal over penis size. You are bothered by what boys think about your penis. Your only problem is vanity.

its subjective really if he lacks confidence because of that. you're just very condescending and want to guilt trip him because of his vanity, being in a wheel chair or almost blind are probably things he hasnt experienced so maybe vanity is a big deal to him because he hasn't experienced those things. not a reason to put people down.

Catholic Guy
June 17th, 2013, 04:58 PM
No one cares about your size, but 5 isn't small the male average is 6, have you seen these massive people at school because they could just be lying but some people actually have massive penises

Ethan15
June 17th, 2013, 05:04 PM
I am one of those 14 year olds you mentioned ( 7 inches), and I am jealous of your body. Why is 5 inches bad? Really, your picture looks amazing if that is you. I would presume a body like that would more then compensate for your lesser endowment, just do not brag to people.

Zeke
June 17th, 2013, 06:00 PM
Yes, that picture is really my body. I don't show it to anyone but for shits and giggles I made it my avatar on this website.

I don't know if 5 inches is bad, its just if it looked at it on my body, it looks awkwardly small. It looks like it should be bigger for my body I don't know, its confusing, but annoying. I just hope I grow another inch and then at 6 ill be happy, because 6 inches IS the average. Sucks being below average when everyone else is!

Trenton_
June 17th, 2013, 07:03 PM
Im 17 years old, muscular, 5 foot 7, and only have a 5 inch penis, and it looks small, and not normal for my body. I feel like i've had this same size since i was 13. It makes me super un-confident. I have a 5 foot tall girlfriend who i'm in love with and shes only 15 and could care less about my size.

It still makes me lose confidence and self esteem. Mostly everyone in my school seems "huge" Why is mine only 5 inches long? maybe not even, probably 4.9. It sucks. and i hate it. I heard penis growth stops at the age of 17? I don't know it needs to grow or else ill be embarrassed my whole life.

What are your opinions?


P.S. I don't care if this is wrong section just respond please.

why do you think a 5 inch penis is small?

Zeke
June 18th, 2013, 11:29 AM
It is below average

jaxian rhyder
June 19th, 2013, 02:52 PM
Thanks for the reply! I just don't understand how all these 14 year olds have 7 inchers. It makes me feel ashamed of myself.

If it makes u feel better mine is only around 3-4 errect

Zeke
June 19th, 2013, 05:08 PM
To drew6 because I can't reply to private messages:

I'm super glad that you took the time to write out that whole page! It really did give me tons of confidence and I'll try to look at myself more than just a small loser. Thanks again :)

and to whoever asked me how I got this body: I was super skinny to begin with. I just lifted and ate food and gained some weight and muscle! All there is to it! Except make sure you have a nutritious diet. It will give you so much better results! Good luck!

JRwulf64
June 19th, 2013, 05:51 PM
My bestfriend is 7 inches and we compare all the time so its really embarrassing but i just got over it. No two people are the same and a penis is just a penis who cares. Penis size is not the definition of masculinity, its just a thing that is there. You cant control how big you are anymore than a blind guy can control his sight...its just a fact of life and we all have to just grow up and accept it.

drew6
June 19th, 2013, 08:15 PM
....

Zeke
June 21st, 2013, 10:27 AM
You're very welcome. I'm sure it will work out fine and I hope you both have some laughs along the way because it's really all about having good time and not so much about perfection. I think learning together should be fun for you both. :)

My girlfriend doesn't care about the size at all. Its more of me just being insecure of myself since i naturally have low self esteem. Eventually I'll get over it! Your post gave me a lot of confidence!

jaxian rhyder
June 21st, 2013, 11:31 AM
Awe you'll be fine :)

Jevon
June 21st, 2013, 11:37 AM
You say it like everyone is going to be seeing your penis or somthing just don't worry if your girlfriend doesn't mind then you shouldn't mind to much either

jaxian rhyder
June 21st, 2013, 11:38 AM
I agree with jevon

philphil
June 21st, 2013, 11:44 AM
We all have some form of an insecurity. I may be 6 in but im 6 foot 3 200 pounds so sometimes I feel it looks small for my body....it really doesnt matter you will get over it, especially with a supportive girl

Zeke
June 21st, 2013, 03:25 PM
I just dread the moment were some clown decides it would be funny to pants me. Anything that causes exposure for my danger zone. I don't need anyone looking at but my, girlfriends, and or doctors.

I don't know why i'm so insecure over it I just am I guess. Can't really explain it.

pvanhouten
June 21st, 2013, 06:38 PM
I just dread the moment were some clown decides it would be funny to pants me. Anything that causes exposure for my danger zone. I don't need anyone looking at but my, girlfriends, and or doctors.

I don't know why i'm so insecure over it I just am I guess. Can't really explain it.

I can relate 100%... and being that you know your not the only one out there. Also I'm sure there are many other guys in our situation. You shouldn't worry about pantsing to much... It doesn't happen to often and the chances of it happening to you is probabaly very slim.

Everyone is different I think puberty ends around 21 on average I guess, so I keep hope that I might grow another inch, but keep in mind that we are already average adult which is pretty good. Plus you have a girlfriend that doesn't care... Your set.

When you said in your original post everyone else seems "huge"? Have you seen them in the locker room or have they just said it? Because you know that your average so most likely they are all talk.

warriorofthewater12
June 21st, 2013, 07:53 PM
Just roll with it its cool

Zeke
June 22nd, 2013, 09:14 PM
I can relate 100%... and being that you know your not the only one out there. Also I'm sure there are many other guys in our situation. You shouldn't worry about pantsing to much... It doesn't happen to often and the chances of it happening to you is probabaly very slim.

Everyone is different I think puberty ends around 21 on average I guess, so I keep hope that I might grow another inch, but keep in mind that we are already average adult which is pretty good. Plus you have a girlfriend that doesn't care... Your set.

When you said in your original post everyone else seems "huge"? Have you seen them in the locker room or have they just said it? Because you know that your average so most likely they are all talk.

Just seen people soft in their underwear. And they seem to have some massive bulges, and unfortunately I have a small one. Its really disappointing so i face the other way just changing my pants :\

pvanhouten
June 23rd, 2013, 10:52 PM
Just seen people soft in their underwear. And they seem to have some massive bulges, and unfortunately I have a small one. Its really disappointing so i face the other way just changing my pants :\

Yeah I do the same thing too... but some people showers and some people are growers... I'm a grower and proud.

Zeke
June 24th, 2013, 10:27 AM
Yeah I do the same thing too... but some people showers and some people are growers... I'm a grower and proud.

I'm definitely a grower as well. And if those people are growers as well when they are that big soft. Then wow, I must be a disappointment.

pvanhouten
June 24th, 2013, 01:30 PM
I'm definitely a grower as well. And if those people are growers as well when they are that big soft. Then wow, I must be a disappointment.

If they have big bulges I'm sure they don't get much bigger...

Zeke
June 24th, 2013, 01:36 PM
If they have big bulges I'm sure they don't get much bigger...

never know :s

pvanhouten
June 24th, 2013, 01:47 PM
never know :s

Well keep in mind not a lot of people will ever see your package and the people that do... won't mind; if they really like you...

pvanhouten
June 24th, 2013, 03:36 PM
Also some people Idk how have seen my grower penis, when unerected they talked about it for a bit but it blew over in a week.

Zeke
June 24th, 2013, 06:12 PM
Just everyday i wish i was larger!

pvanhouten
June 24th, 2013, 06:15 PM
Just everyday i wish i was larger!

Yeah how do you think I felt when people were talking about my grower. It was embarrassing. It was extra small b/c the gym is really cold :/

Jasperf
June 24th, 2013, 06:45 PM
Im 17 years old, muscular, 5 foot 7, and only have a 5 inch penis, and it looks small, and not normal for my body. I feel like i've had this same size since i was 13. It makes me super un-confident. I have a 5 foot tall girlfriend who i'm in love with and shes only 15 and could care less about my size.

It still makes me lose confidence and self esteem. Mostly everyone in my school seems "huge" Why is mine only 5 inches long? maybe not even, probably 4.9. It sucks. and i hate it. I heard penis growth stops at the age of 17? I don't know it needs to grow or else ill be embarrassed my whole life.

What are your opinions?


P.S. I don't care if this is wrong section just respond please.

So after all this help, how are you feeling?

Zeke
June 24th, 2013, 08:04 PM
After this advice, well I feel better I guess. I mean yeah my girlfriend doesn't care about my size, coincidentally I just told her and she sad it was a good size.

I just dread the future when the relationship takes it to the next level, sex wise, and It will be a huge let down.

I'm really nervous. Shes pretty hormonal and I know it will be soon. I really don't want to be a let down. It will seriously kill me

pvanhouten
June 24th, 2013, 08:08 PM
You just got to know how to use it...

Zeke
June 24th, 2013, 08:11 PM
I know how to use it. Seen enough porn to know what to do with this tool ha!

We all know size matters. Not a lot to the good girls, but deep down inside they will be affected by it, even if its only a little.

I don't want to be a let down. I really don't. I'm more nervous than she is about sex because of it.

pvanhouten
June 24th, 2013, 08:17 PM
Do it in a dark area than...

Starscream
June 24th, 2013, 08:23 PM
Im 17 years old, muscular, 5 foot 7, and only have a 5 inch penis, and it looks small, and not normal for my body. I feel like i've had this same size since i was 13. It makes me super un-confident. I have a 5 foot tall girlfriend who i'm in love with and shes only 15 and could care less about my size.

It still makes me lose confidence and self esteem. Mostly everyone in my school seems "huge" Why is mine only 5 inches long? maybe not even, probably 4.9. It sucks. and i hate it. I heard penis growth stops at the age of 17? I don't know it needs to grow or else ill be embarrassed my whole life.

What are your opinions?


P.S. I don't care if this is wrong section just respond please.

Actually, the average dick size is 5.1 inches. Girls don't care about the size of the dick, they care about you. Girls are much more sentimental than guys, meaning they don't care so much about being sexually satisfied as guys do. Girls care more about being with the guy they love. A 5 inch dick is big enough to satisfy most women. Also, the size of the dick isn't the only thing that will help a girl achieve orgasm, they love when guys say little thing ps during sex, and each woman has her own g-spot. Whether its nipple stimulation or its being touched in general, ask what she likes during sex.

So overall, girls dont care about the size. They care about the guy more than the size, each woman is different and responds (sexually) to different things like touching, little phrases, or even moaning.

Edit

Also, you're still growing, who knows, you could even be 7 inches big.

pmpsj96
June 24th, 2013, 10:37 PM
Half of the 14 year olds are lying. I have a 6 inch penis and I've lied about it before and I've come to the conclusion, who gives a fuck. It's not the size it's how uou use it!

pvanhouten
June 24th, 2013, 11:09 PM
Well just remember there are plenty of other guys in your situation

Zeke
June 25th, 2013, 08:59 AM
I could go on and on to her about how disappointing my size is and she won't disagree once, sadly. I wish she would at least once. She will never disagree which makes me think that she probably is disappointed. All she says is I don't care but I can't help but to think that she does.