Sexuality confusion

[JasonC]

Hi just wanted to know your opinions on this. Im 15 and about a year ago I started to consider myself as bi. I am mainly sexualy attracted to guys but I have no sexual experience. When I masturbate its always to gay porn because it makes me hornier I cannot remember the last time I j/o to straight porn. But I don't want anything more than a sexual relation with a guy and want a wife and kids when I'm older. What sexuality does this make me?

[Hybridoxidation]

That's your choice. Watching gay porno and being attracted sexually to guys doesn't make you fully bi. Having a wife and kids somewhat pushes it down. I've been having feelings like those too, but i still consider myself straight.

[Harley Quinn]

Watching gay porn does not do anything for your sexuality, it just mean you like to get off to gay guys. Are you gay? Most likely not. You want a wife and kids so there is half of your answer, and you only want sexual relations with guys, so you're straight or bicurious. I wouldn't 'label' you gay or full bi. Either way, just go with the flow and see where it takes you.

[likemike]

In my opinion it makes you gay

[JasonC]

Thanks for the responses but it's not just gay porn I watch it fantasize about gay sex and I want to have it. It's just all sexual

[Convoluted one]

i think there are guys that seuxally like guys but emotionally like girls i would call it bi, but you know what . im 16 and i am not going to call myself anything. i have had one sexual experience and it was with my male cousin and it was hot ans i loved it ( no going all the way) I think i am probably gay, but i am not going to label myself

[Jacketh]

Hi just wanted to know your opinions on this. Im 15 and about a year ago I started to consider myself as bi. I am mainly sexualy attracted to guys but I have no sexual experience. When I masturbate its always to gay porn because it makes me hornier I cannot remember the last time I j/o to straight porn. But I don't want anything more than a sexual relation with a guy and want a wife and kids when I'm older. What sexuality does this make me?

You sound a lot like me a few years ago actually. I ''wanted a wife and kids'' simply because I know the disappointment my family would face if I didn't have them. But, as I grew up, I knew that I was only attracted to guys and I wasn't having no sexual or loving desire towards woman what so ever, so how is it possible to have a sexual relationship with a woman? It wouldn't be a loving relationship if I wasn't having feelings.

Plus, I've realised now that its possible to become a Dad, even if you are gay.

My advice to you? Don't be a rush to label yourself. Just go with your heart and your feelings. Don't do what your brain and never let anyone get in the way of what your general feelings. If you're attracted to a woman, follow your feelings up. If you're attracted to a male, follow them feelings up. Its your life, you can be what you want and do what you want, you don't need a label.

I understand you don't have no ''loving'' feelings towards males, but there is a possibility you might as you grow up and develop bonds with males. I'm not saying that will happen, but it could. If you're willing to have sex with a female because you love her, then that is fine. Like you said, you've not had a sexual experience with a female so you don't know how you will feel. When you do, you might enjoy it. It could just be you get more of a thrill out of gay porn on the internet.

[Mob Boss]

Puberty For Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality
Seeing as this pertains to sexuality and orientation, I'm moving it here. :)

[steellord321]

This is a bit more info to go on than other threads. Honestly, you sound gay to me. "Wanting a wife and kids" means nothing if that's coming from society expectations. It's who you are attracted to, physical and emotional that matters. You fantasize and want to have gay sex... Take some time to really think about why you feel that way and if you have the same desires for girls (doesn't sound like it).

[Bazinga]

If you're sexually attracted to men then you're gay, wanting to have a wife and kids doesn't make you bi because you aren't wanting a sexual relationship with a woman (I think). If you were sexually attracted to woman as well then you would be bi. Your sexuality isn't always the same as your romantic orientation, so you can't define your sexuality (sexual orientation) by who you want to have romantic relationships with.

[chicohunter]

Just wait and see. More stuff will go on later and then you'll be ab;e decide for sure