Need Some Advice

[Melodic]

I'm usually the one who doesn't ask for advice.. because I'm really stubborn sometimes.. But there's this guy I like. I liked this guy for over a year. Me and him even started a relationship, but then around August.. I just got really insecure in myself and others, that I ended it. I still had feelings for him, but around that time I really didn't want to admit it. Then around October my friend told me that he was upset about the whole breakup. And I felt really sad about it because I was too. Then me and him started talking again around December, and the same feelings started coming back. Like I will always smile every time I hear his name from one of our mutual friends. I have happiness in me every time I talk to him. I have dreams about him a lot. Then my friend told me that he thinks he had feelings for me too in around February. Then the guy told him that he did. And now I feel all nervewrecking. Like I don't ever know what to say, and everytime I say something I feel like I said the wrong thing. I hesitate talking to him sometimes because I feel like I'm being annoying. My friend told me just to wait for him to say how he feels and that he will eventually. I don't even know what to do at this point. What should I do?

[Hybridoxidation]

I'm usually the one who doesn't ask for advice.. because I'm really stubborn sometimes.. But there's this guy I like. I liked this guy for over a year. Me and him even started a relationship, but then around August.. I just got really insecure in myself and others, that I ended it. I still had feelings for him, but around that time I really didn't want to admit it. Then around October my friend told me that he was upset about the whole breakup. And I felt really sad about it because I was too. Then me and him started talking again around December, and the same feelings started coming back. Like I will always smile every time I hear his name from one of our mutual friends. I have happiness in me every time I talk to him. I have dreams about him a lot. Then my friend told me that he thinks he had feelings for me too in around February. Then the guy told him that he did. And now I feel all nervewrecking. Like I don't ever know what to say, and everytime I say something I feel like I said the wrong thing. I hesitate talking to him sometimes because I feel like I'm being annoying. My friend told me just to wait for him to say how he feels and that he will eventually. I don't even know what to do at this point. What should I do?

The guy likes you, and you like him. Don't be insecure about yourself :I Otherwise if you do, then he isn't the right guy.

[Melodic]

The guy likes you, and you like him. Don't be insecure about yourself :I Otherwise if you do, then he isn't the right guy.


Well the insecurity is from a lot of other things that has happened to me over the year. Like parents divorcing, ex best friend turning fake, friends and family leaving, people taking advantage, bullying, close person to me trying to commit suicide. That kind of thing.

[Hybridoxidation]

Well the insecurity is from a lot of other things that has happened to me over the year. Like parents divorcing, ex best friend turning fake, friends and family leaving, people taking advantage, bullying, close person to me trying to commit suicide. That kind of thing.

Hmm, well can't blame you for that then I suppose ..

[kenoloor]

If he doesn't make you feel secure, if he doesn't make you feel accepted, if he doesn't make you comfortable, he's not worth it.

[Emerald Dream]

My friend told me just to wait for him to say how he feels and that he will eventually. I don't even know what to do at this point. What should I do?

From what I am reading, it seems to me like he's the one who is waiting for you. I would definitely let him know how you feel. I know you are nervous about it, and feeling insecure...but the two of you obviously have some sort of relationship already.