This Girl...

[PerpetualImperfexion]

So we'll start at the beginning. A couple of months ago this girl (or maybe it was girls in general) came up in conversation with some of my male friends. My response was "yeah she's pretty hot". I regret this for two reasons. First of all the term "hot" can be seen as duragotory by some girls. Second of all maybe one or two of them are capable of keeping there mouth shut, but when there's eight of them... Yeah right. Now in all honesty at first I was appreciating the way she looked, we didn't really talk that much so there's no way I could have had any real feelings for her. She of course found out about what I said within 30 minutes after it was said. As time went on, two things happened: I started genuinely liking her and we almost completely stopped talking directly to eachother. If there was little contact before there's even less now. I start highschool next year and unfortunately she is going to another school. I got a kik partially because its a good way to stay in touch with people who don't have phones. I also wanted to stay in contact with this girl though. I messaged her last night, she didn't reply (we had had one previous half as conversation before). Today one of her friends who was over at her house told me that the girl thought I was "being a creeper" and "she thinks you only got a kik to talk to her". So that's everything, any advice? Tomorrow is our last day of school :)

[HockeyLovesMe]

dude serious forget her she sounds kinda wierd a bit and u will probably have tons of girls that will like you next year for sure so dont worry about her.. :):)

[indoxyl]

My advice is to not listen to a thirteen year old because he gives awful advice. This is probably super late but my only advice to you is talk to her tomorrow and try to explain things. Tell her you're sorry and that you really want to try and keep in contact and become friends. Hopefully things go okay little dude!

[chezhans]

She sounds strange...and don't call any girl hot, why? Because she gets turned off (and yes it is highly disrespectful)

[indoxyl]

everybody in this thread gives awful advice! also its not turn off for some girls. it depends on who the girl is.

[MoonMan]

Sounds like you're trying to pussyfoot around this. It's your last day of school, the least you can do is try and explain things to her so she doesn't think you're a creeper. Who knows, maybe she'll grow a liking to you during the conversation and you guys will keep in touch after school ends. Be honest, be confident, be yourself. What else can you do? If she still thinks you're creepy then fuck her, move on. Don't know why you're stressing over her so much when you barely know her (half a conversation doesn't tell you much about a person) and, honestly, being in different schools could diminish the chances of you having a relationship with her anyways (assuming her new school is not near your current school).