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Azza the Arsonist
June 4th, 2013, 02:24 AM
There is a girl who I like and she is also one of my friends. Both yesterday and today she unexpectedly hugged me from behind, squeezing me tightly. She only started hugging me a week ago and usually hugs me multiple times a day. So what does a tight hug from behind mean, if anything different to a normal front hug?

Hybridoxidation
June 4th, 2013, 02:25 AM
Does she hug other people like she hugs you? It's probably because you're close with her too. And I don't think there's any difference from a back hug to a front hug, she just wants to surprise you :P

Azza the Arsonist
June 4th, 2013, 02:37 AM
Does she hug other people like she hugs you? It's probably because you're close with her too. And I don't think there's any difference from a back hug to a front hug, she just wants to surprise you :P

I don't usually see her hug anyone except when she greets her female friends. I also wouldn't consider us close friends but thanks for replying!

Hybridoxidation
June 4th, 2013, 02:53 AM
I don't usually see her hug anyone except when she greets her female friends. I also wouldn't consider us close friends but thanks for replying!

Mmm. No problem, she either likes you a lot, idk if as a friend, or if as a crush, or she knows you like her and is teasing you.

Azza the Arsonist
June 4th, 2013, 04:53 AM
Mmm. No problem, she either likes you a lot, idk if as a friend, or if as a crush, or she knows you like her and is teasing you.
I have been considering telling her how I feel. She seems to have shown a few other signs too. She also started being like this before I felt like this.

Hybridoxidation
June 4th, 2013, 05:08 AM
I have been considering telling her how I feel. She seems to have shown a few other signs too. She also started being like this before I felt like this.

Well sure, if you wanna. Just now that if she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, it'll get awkward and then she'll probably drift away from you..

JonasBe
June 4th, 2013, 06:43 AM
It's a risk telling her your feelings but if there are signs...
It's better to try instead of not and maybe feel gutted about it afterwards.

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June 4th, 2013, 06:41 PM
She's probably just being a friend. Don't ruin it by moving too fast.

CookieBase
June 6th, 2013, 08:55 AM
In all likelihood if you hugs you like that a lot now then it's either because you're really close friends or she likes you and is flirting. Take it slow, don't make a move yet but she may like you!