Crush

[mecd]

Hey guys. I'm new here. :D

I have a problem. I have a crush on a guy, since I was in my first year of high school until now. We were friends, really close friends then but when I told him, everything became awkward. And then, we didnt talk or any kind of communication unlike before we're like brothers. I wanna be his friend again, but I can't think a way to solve it. You know, losing a close friend is one of the worst things to happen in life. Any help? Thanksss :)

[Hybridoxidation]

Hey guys. I'm new here. :D

I have a problem. I have a crush on a guy, since I was in my first year of high school until now. We were friends, really close friends then but when I told him, everything became awkward. And then, we didnt talk or any kind of communication unlike before we're like brothers. I wanna be his friend again, but I can't think a way to solve it. You know, losing a close friend is one of the worst things to happen in life. Any help? Thanksss :)

Welcome to the party.

Okay wait, you're a girl right? Let's assume that.. The problem here is that you liked him. But you were really close to him. The spells out
FRIENDZONE
Yep. I was once very close with this girl too, liked her since grade 6. So he probably considers it awkward for you to suddenly come out. When a guy is thrust into an uncomfortable and unknown situation, he tends to space out, and in this case he stopped talking to you and such. So that's where you have to be the one to have the initiative to start the conversations and such. It'll probably be like you have to start from the beginning, but you'll have to do it if you at least still want him as a friend, rather than a boyfriend or something.

Hope I helped :I Good luck.

[mecd]

I'm a boy. XD Kinda Bi.

[Hybridoxidation]

I'm a boy. XD Kinda Bi.

Ohhh. Sorry bout that then.
Change's the whole thing. Is your friend bi? That might be it.

[mecd]

Ohhh. Sorry bout that then.
Change's the whole thing. Is your friend bi? That might be it.
No. He's straight.

[Hybridoxidation]

No. He's straight.

Yeeep. That's probably why then. I'd be pretty surprised if a guy friend of mine came out that he liked me.. And that would probably lead to me stop talking to him.

[User Does Not Exist]

Yeah, you might have to be the one to initiate the conversation again. Let him know you understand he's not interested and that you just want to be friends, nothing more.

[johnsmith1]

You just have to try and talk to him. You have to accept that he won't want more than a friendship, and that is all that you would be after. Don't give him any indication that you want any more than that, and that you're happy with the friendship that you've had. Prepare for the risk that you may have pushed him too far away already

[dontfiguremeout]

Puberty Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating. This is a better place for this thread.

[justin 13]

Dude Im dealing with the same situation I have a crush with a Boy who is like 10000 miles away from me.

[MoonMan]

Yeeep. That's probably why then. I'd be pretty surprised if a guy friend of mine came out that he liked me.. And that would probably lead to me stop talking to him.

Why would you stop talking to him? If you tell him no when he asks then that should be that, especially if he was your friend before. No need for isolation or awkwardness when the problem has already been addressed and solved with an honest answer.

[Hybridoxidation]

Why would you stop talking to him? If you tell him no when he asks then that should be that, especially if he was your friend before. No need for isolation or awkwardness when the problem has already been addressed and solved with an honest answer.

If it were me .-.
And idk, i'd be weirded out by that. And I don't like the feeling, if ever he tries to talk to me again it would be awkward, and not the same.

[MoonMan]

If it were me .-.
And idk, i'd be weirded out by that. And I don't like the feeling, if ever he tries to talk to me again it would be awkward, and not the same.

Of course it wouldn't be the same, but that doesn't mean you have to stop talking to the guy altogether. Think about it this way: imagine you asked a girl (whom you've known for a long time and really like) to go out with you and, not only did she say no, she never talked to you again. Wouldn't that make you feel like complete shit? As long as the guy isn't flirting with me all the time then I would have no problem talking to him even after he told me he liked me. Hopefully he'd eventually get over the rejection and we'd still be friends. If he finds he (for some reason) can't take no for an answer then that's when I would start to distance myself from him, for both of our sakes.

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Really, it's actually a smart idea to keep your distance from him. You need time to sort out your feelings, and to get over them. If the guy is straight, the guy is straight. You may want him, but you can't get him. Best to try and look for people who are actually available.