Should I?

[ThatOneGuy]

I bet you can guess what my post is about through the title

Well, heres my story:

I became friends with a girl, gorgeous, funny, smart, all around awesome. We live in the same general area, so we walk to an alley together then split up to our houses.

One day we were walking and i made a joke about us getting together, she laugh and hugged me, and then i found myself against a wall and her tongue was in my mouth.

I was immediately turned on and got an erection, she pressed her body against me and felt it. She just said "Wanna have sex?"

I told her "Ya, but im not going to."

She laughed and gave me a kiss goodbye. I went home and masturbated, thinking of her.

I really like this girl, and want to have sex with her, but dont know if i should. Any suggestions?:confused:

Im 15 years and 5 and a quarter inches.

Thanks

[RaisingSand]

In my opinion, sex with this girl would not be a good idea. You're both young, and not in a relationship and you should value your friendship with her (AND respect her) more than that, enough so that you know you shouldn't use her like that, whether or not she wants you to.
Sex for the first time should be with someone you are in a relationship with, love and trust. And it should happen when you are both emotionally and mentally mature enough, not just because you are young, curious and ruled by hormones.
So basically what I'm saying here, is no, you really should wait.

[ThatOneGuy]

Thats probably a good idea, i want to wait anyway. (XD She needs to respect ME jeez). I would probably regret doing anything with her. Thanks for the reassurance.

One thing though is that when we kiss the hormones rage, so are there any techniques that might keep the dogs in the cage? I masturbate in the mornings to try to help, and pinch my ear hard and try to think of other things at other times, but sometimes it doesn't work.

[RaisingSand]

There's nothing you can really do at your age to stop said hormones raging, but something you really could do would just be to try and cool it with said friend. At that age it is really natural to be curious etc. but making any rash decision may cause you do do something you could regret. Tell her you don't wish to do anything of sexual nature with her and just continue the friendship as normal, if you're able to.

[leostriker]

If you want it go ahead, who is stoping you but most of all, RESPECT her, DO NOT abuse her in whatever way.Let her make the first move. I am saying that if you feel nervous about it, calm down. You can do it with her, here is an advice, DO NOT get her pregnent and play with each other in other words be naked with her WITHOUT getting sexually "involved".

Final word i say go ahead, this would be good, you get to lose your viginity early. Have sex with her play with each other nude, But REMEMBER DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT!!

[The_Ben]

You do whatever you want to do, just make sure that both parties are sure of what they are about to do.

[byee]

Gee, I can't believe I missed this one.

Anyway, I think you're showing exceptionally good judgement here with your choice to not take her up on her offer (assuming she was serious). I think you have to be ready emotionally for sex (not just physically), there's a lot that gets stirred up when you have sex (and this is hard to describe until you've experienced it). And when you do it casually (like she's presenting it), not only can it be physically very disappointing, but emotionally, as well. Sometimes, the fantasy one creates during masturbation is actually more satisfying.

Part II of your question about controllling those raging hormones, I'm not sure what the concern is. You already got an A+ for demonstrating self control in the face of incredible temptation. It's normal for you to feel really excited and horny when confronted with blatant female sexuality! Taking care of those needs yourself, perhaps more frequently, might help keep the 'dog in the cage'.

Good onya, you have really good sense here!

[KornKobz93]

I think you should wait. Once you are fullly prepared it would be more enjoyable, and you will feel happier to know you waited and are emotionally prepared!

[Patchy]

Please do not bump threads older than a couple of months

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