Why does it seem it only happens to me?

[clueless_one]

I’m an indian guy and it seems that all white girls I ask out don’t like me back. They look like they like me more than friends but when I ask them out they reject me and I loose a friendship with them which I don’t want to happen again. I only like white girls and not indian girls, I don’t know why but I just do. I just don’t seem to understand why all other guys (usually ones who bully me) get girls and I don’t when I ask them out. I get bullied by guys saying that I smell, and their usually the ones who get the girls. I don’t understand all girls and guys I know enjoy indian food and other indian things but I get treated this way. I've been wanting to know why i'm getting bullied and why I can't get a girlfriend but can never find out.

[likemike]

Do you stink? Im not saying you deserve to get bullied or rejected but, if you have poor hygene nobody will want to date you.

[clueless_one]

Do you stink? Im not saying you deserve to get bullied or rejected but, if you have poor hygene nobody will want to date you.

No, I shower everyday and put deodorant on. So do I stink no. They are just racist idiots. Even then if I do stink why are there white girls who I feel like me more than friends but only like me as friends. I don't want to ask out a girl and the friendship ends. Also I don't like indian girls, I like white girls, as I said in my first post. I just don't understand why it happens, especially to me.

[likemike]

No, I shower everyday and put deodorant on. So do I stink no. They are just racist idiots. Even then if I do stink why are there white girls who I feel like me more than friends but only like me as friends. I don't want to ask out a girl and the friendship ends. Also I don't like indian girls, I like white girls, as I said in my first post. I just don't understand why it happens, especially to me.

It sounds like you are the racist idiot you likeing white girls over indian girls. Some girls are flirts and will you on. It happens, deal with it. If you see a girl you like and you want a relationship with her don't be her friend. That is how you get friendzoned.

[clueless_one]

It sounds like you are the racist idiot you likeing white girls over indian girls. Some girls are flirts and will you on. It happens, deal with it. If you see a girl you like and you want a relationship with her don't be her friend. That is how you get friendzoned.

then how the hell am I meant to get to know a girl before asking them out? Being their friend. How am I racist :cry:, liking white girls over indian girls, I get attracted to white girls. I'm not racist, I treat everyone equally and nicely. I never say anything racist and it hurts when someone thinks i'm racist :cry: because i'm not. People are racist to me and bully me. :cry: :cry:

[Pinkamena]

It sounds like you are the racist idiot you likeing white girls over indian girls

Sorry guys, you're not allowed to have personal preferences anymore

[likemike]

Sorry guys, you're not allowed to have personal preferences anymore

Its not a preference its an exclusion of an entire race of people

[Pinkamena]

Its not a preference its an exclusion of an entire race of people

If someone isn't attracted to something, it is a psychological preference. If we apply your logic elsewhere, we could say "You're not allowed to only like women. You HAVE to like ever single human being, romantically/sexually".

I'm certain there is something YOU don't like sexually, be it a race, or something simple like, eh... Feet.
Just because you like something, doesn't mean everyone does.
Now please take your flawed reasoning and apply it elsewhere and leave poor the_one_1 alone.


Also, advice to thread starter:
High/Middle school girls can be very shallow and immature. Just be patient, and don't make bad impressions.

[teen.jpg]

Go after the girls who like you for you, and not just their race. Love is blind.

[indoxyl]

It sounds like you are the racist idiot you likeing white girls over indian girls. Some girls are flirts and will you on. It happens, deal with it. If you see a girl you like and you want a relationship with her don't be her friend. That is how you get friendzoned.

Let me just tell you a thing. I know youre only fifteen and you have a lot to learn about how relationships work. But there is no such thing as the "friendzone" just because you are acting friendly with whoever you want to date doesnt mean they automatically have to go out with you. You've probably had what, one "relationship" maybe two? in all honesty i think you should leave the advice to someone with more experience. Not to be rude

[MoonMan]

It sounds like you are the racist idiot you likeing white girls over indian girls. Some girls are flirts and will you on. It happens, deal with it. If you see a girl you like and you want a relationship with her don't be her friend. That is how you get friendzoned.
Racist is the wrong term to use here. That's like saying if you're not sexually attracted to gay men then you're a homophobe. As long as he treats them equally and with respect, he's nowhere near racist. Preferential and narrow minded? Yes. Racist? Not so much. You can't help who you're physically attracted to.
Op, you should also take that as a word of advice. The way you're physically attracted to white girls over anyone else, is the same way those white girls may NOT be physically attracted to Indian boys. It works both ways and neither of you can necessarily help it. As soon as you stop being immature to the point where you think physical attraction is the only component to a relationship, the sooner you'll be able to connect with some one and give other girls a chance. Besides, there are other factors in appearance besides race. For instance, I'm not generally attracted to black girls but I've dated a black girl before whom I still believe is one of the most beautiful girls in my school. You like pale skin and high cheekbones? Maybe there's a light skinned Latino girl with those features. Stop limiting yourself and think outside the box for fuck's sake.

[likemike]

Racist is the wrong term to use here. That's like saying if you're not sexually attracted to gay men then you're a homophobe. As long as he treats them equally and with respect, he's nowhere near racist. Preferential and narrow minded? Yes. Racist? Not so much. You can't help who you're physically attracted to.
Op, you should also take that as a word of advice. The way you're physically attracted to white girls over anyone else, is the same way those white girls may NOT be physically attracted to Indian boys. It works both ways and neither of you can necessarily help it. As soon as you stop being immature to the point where you think physical attraction is the only component to a relationship, the sooner you'll be able to connect with some one and give other girls a chance. Besides, there are other factors in appearance besides race. For instance, I'm not generally attracted to black girls but I've dated a black girl before whom I still believe is one of the most beautiful girls in my school. You like pale skin and high cheekbones? Maybe there's a light skinned Latino girl with those features. Stop limiting yourself and think outside the box for fuck's sake.

Girls in other races vary so much. What do white girls have that they don't

[MoonMan]

Let me just tell you a thing. I know youre only fifteen and you have a lot to learn about how relationships work. But there is no such thing as the "friendzone" just because you are acting friendly with whoever you want to date doesnt mean they automatically have to go out with you. You've probably had what, one "relationship" maybe two? in all honesty i think you should leave the advice to someone with more experience. Not to be rude

This is a forum. The guy gave his opinion on the situation and what to do, the poster doesn't have to take his advice if he doesn't want to. Disagreeing with his opinion is fine (actually its encouraged since it was a dumbass post) but limiting others' ability to give insight and opinionated advice (and to reiterate, no one is obliged to take his advice) simply because of age (and assumed experience even though you don't know him) is a terrible idea. If that were the case then virtual teen shouldn't exist and the only people allowed to give advice and respond to posts would be middle aged citizens. The point here is to socialize with people around your age and, in turn, the same situations and niche as you. If he wanted to talk to someone older and with "more experience" he should've phoned up his grandfather because I doubt an 18 year old has seen all of life's predicaments either. Just saying.

[likemike]

This is a forum. The guy gave his opinion on the situation and what to do, the poster doesn't have to take his advice if he doesn't want to. Disagreeing with his opinion is fine (actually its encouraged since it was a dumbass post) but limiting others' ability to give insight and opinionated advice (and to reiterate, no one is obliged to take his advice) simply because of age (and assumed experience even though you don't know him) is a terrible idea. If that were the case then virtual teen shouldn't exist and the only people allowed to give advice and respond to posts would be middle aged citizens. The point here is to socialize with people around your age and, in turn, the same situations and niche as you. If he wanted to talk to someone older and with "more experience" he should've phoned up his grandfather because I doubt an 18 year old has seen all of life's predicaments either. Just saying.

Its clear my advice was f*cking awful i was just trying to help

[MoonMan]

Girls in other races vary so much. What do white girls have that they don't

Well that's a question you'll have to ask the_one_1. I completely agree with you that girls in every race vary, that was actually the point I was trying to make In the first place, but calling someone racist for their (what I'm assuming was general) physical preference is not the way to go. If he does, however, have an absolute preference to where the girls HAVE to be white in order for him to even consider them then we might have a problem. But even then if the guy treats everyone the same formally and socially, labeling him as a racist may still be trivial. I think what op meant by saying he liked white girls is that he likes what is considered generally Caucasian traits such as high cheekbones, light skin, blue eyes, blond hair, etc. Which is why I have no sympathy for him whatsoever because many non white girls out there have one or more of these traits as well. This guy seems like he doesn't look outside outside of his inner circle of white girl friends who have no interest in him romantically. He's in what I would call a "self-forced" state of being single right now.

[likemike]

Well that's a question you'll have to ask the_one_1. I completely agree with you that girls in every race vary, that was actually the point I was trying to make In the first place, but calling someone racist for their (what I'm assuming was general) physical preference is not the way to go. If he does, however, have an absolute preference to where the girls HAVE to be white in order for him to even consider them then we might have a problem. But even then if the guy treats everyone the same formally and socially, labeling him as a racist may still be trivial. I think what op meant by saying he liked white girls is that he likes what is considered generally Caucasian traits such as high cheekbones, light skin, blue eyes, blond hair, etc. Which is why I have no sympathy for him whatsoever because many non white girls out there have one or more of these traits as well. This guy seems like he doesn't look outside outside of his inner circle of white girl friends who have no interest in him romantically. He's in what I would call a "self-forced" state of being single right now.
So hes gonna keep asking them out til he runs out of girls?

[MoonMan]

Its clear my advice was f*cking awful i was just trying to help
Of course, and you're welcomed to. Who's to say my opinion of your advice isn't wrong? I never said my views were universal, nor do I believe they are. Don't become discouraged and simply label your advice as "awful" instead take the opinions of others into consideration and make some revisions where you deem necessary. Or don't. The greatest thing about advice is it's completely electable. No one is obliged to follow it anymore then you're obliged to listen to me. It is simply your opinion on how to handle the situation, nothing more.

[MoonMan]

So hes gonna keep asking them out til he runs out of girls?
Who knows what he's going to do. It's obvious he feels sorry for himself and thinks the problem is the girls and not his shitty preferences, so maybe this thread will help him understand there's loads of other girls out there to be met. If he decides against it, well then I guess the only probable prediction is one of his hands is going to be very tired from all the jacking off he's going to do because he can't "find" a girlfriend.

[clueless_one]

Of course, and you're welcomed to. Who's to say my opinion of your advice isn't wrong? I never said my views were universal, nor do I believe they are. Don't become discouraged and simply label your advice as "awful" instead take the opinions of others into consideration and make some revisions where you deem necessary. Or don't. The greatest thing about advice is it's completely electable. No one is obliged to follow it anymore then you're obliged to listen to me. It is simply your opinion on how to handle the situation, nothing more.

Who knows what he's going to do. It's obvious he feels sorry for himself and thinks the problem is the girls and not his shitty preferences, so maybe this thread will help him understand there's loads of other girls out there to be met. If he decides against it, well then I guess the only probable prediction is one of his hands is going to be very tired from all the jacking off he's going to do because he can't "find" a girlfriend.

I've had enough of this, where I'm from there are more white girls so I'm obviously going to be more attracted to white girls because there are more white girls. I didn't say not all Indian girls I'm not attracted to, if they are good looking then who knows... Also in my school I know two brown boys who are in a relationship with white girls, one of the boys are Indian.

So what I want to know is why are white girls not attracted to Indian guys yet there are people I know who are in a relationship with white girls and is indian.

[indoxyl]

because theres probably something beyond the fact that your Indian. like maybe theyre just not attracted to you, maybe they dont like your personality.there are hundreds ofreasons why besides the fact that youre indian.

[likemike]

So what I want to know is why are white girls not attracted to Indian guys yet there are people I know who are in a relationship with white girls and is indian.

Its not that you are indian thats stopping you. There is something about you that they dont like.

[MoonMan]

I've had enough of this, where I'm from there are more white girls so I'm obviously going to be more attracted to white girls because there are more white girls. I didn't say not all Indian girls I'm not attracted to, if they are good looking then who knows... Also in my school I know two brown boys who are in a relationship with white girls, one of the boys are Indian.

So what I want to know is why are white girls not attracted to Indian guys yet there are people I know who are in a relationship with white girls and is indian.

At this point you seem hopeless. You clearly didn't read all of my posts regarding the race issue otherwise you would understand that race is not an issue. No one cares who you're attracted to, just like no one cares if they're not attracted to you. The fact that you know two Indian boys who've dated white girls, if anything, should encourage you to look around more. Maybe those certain girls you know simply aren't attracted to you? If you've honestly tried your best and they're still not interested then move on. There are other girls out there. Again, you put so much emphasis on good looks when there is so much more to look for. You blame the other sex instead of yourself which gives me the impression that you're immature and insecure, two traits that will dry any girl up in an instant. How can improve upon yourself if all you do is blame others? You came here for advice and insight and put your situatuon on display for everyone here to see, so no, you're not allowed to "have enough of this" at this point.

[clueless_one]

Its not that you are indian thats stopping you. There is something about you that they dont like.

At this point you seem hopeless. You clearly didn't read all of my posts regarding the race issue otherwise you would understand that race is not an issue. No one cares who you're attracted to, just like no one cares if they're not attracted to you. The fact that you know two Indian boys who've dated white girls, if anything, should encourage you to look around more. Maybe those certain girls you know simply aren't attracted to you? If you've honestly tried your best and they're still not interested then move on. There are other girls out there. Again, you put so much emphasis on good looks when there is so much more to look for. You blame the other sex instead of yourself which gives me the impression that you're immature and insecure, two traits that will dry any girl up in an instant. How can improve upon yourself if all you do is blame others? You came here for advice and insight and put your situatuon on display for everyone here to see, so no, you're not allowed to "have enough of this" at this point.

If the girls I like are not attracted to me, why do they always talk to me and show signs they like me. I'm not blaming anyone :angry: i'm not a problem. I act the way I am and know you are making me upset. I believe its because all the stupid white guys in my school make fun of me and make shit up about me being indian, the girls talk about me and the guys say things and then there is no hope for me. What am I meant to do? I've seen what happens in my school and I come here for help. Your no help. :cry:. Looks on a girl to me are important, its what makes them attractive to me also the way they treat me. If I go for some ugly weird looking girl everyone will look at me with a weird look and everyone will think I am a weird idiot going for someone ugly. I DON'T WANT THAT. I'm nice to everyone always wanting to help someone. Like if I see a car accident wether its a danger to me or not I want to help everyone. It can't be that i'm the problem.

It could be that i'm an only child and don't have help or support in anything. Everyone in my school has a brother or a sister, what do I have nothing, 0.

I'm already upset at the fact that girls say they like me as friends when I like them more and now you are making it worse. Well you have done it, finished it. Because of you I will be alone forever, alone as a only child being bullied in school and now in my future. Because of you, you have successfully made me STOP ASKING OUT ANY MORE GIRLS FOREVER. :(
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

[clueless_one]

I hate my life... *Jumps out of tower*

[likemike]

If the girls I like are not attracted to me, why do they always talk to me and show signs they like me. I'm not blaming anyone :angry: i'm not a problem. I act the way I am and know you are making me upset. I believe its because all the stupid white guys in my school make fun of me and make shit up about me being indian, the girls talk about me and the guys say things and then there is no hope for me. What am I meant to do? I've seen what happens in my school and I come here for help. Your no help. :cry:. Looks on a girl to me are important, its what makes them attractive to me also the way they treat me. If I go for some ugly weird looking girl everyone will look at me with a weird look and everyone will think I am a weird idiot going for someone ugly. I DON'T WANT THAT. I'm nice to everyone always wanting to help someone. Like if I see a car accident wether its a danger to me or not I want to help everyone. It can't be that i'm the problem.

It could be that i'm an only child and don't have help or support in anything. Everyone in my school has a brother or a sister, what do I have nothing, 0.

I'm already upset at the fact that girls say they like me as friends when I like them more and now you are making it worse. Well you have done it, finished it. Because of you I will be alone forever, alone as a only child being bullied in school and now in my future. Because of you, you have successfully made me STOP ASKING OUT ANY MORE GIRLS FOREVER. :(
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

There is no way every girl in your school doesnt want to date you because you are an only child.
How exactly do the girls act like they like you?
No one deserves to be bullied but, if they are bullying you why do you care what they think?

You put so much emphasis on good looks when there is so much more to look for. You blame the other sex instead of yourself which gives me the impression that you're immature and insecure, two traits that will dry any girl up in an instant. How can improve upon yourself if all you do is blame others?.

[clueless_one]

There is no way every girl in your school doesnt want to date you because you are an only child.
How exactly do the girls act like they like you?
No one deserves to be bullied but, if they are bullying you why do you care what they think?

The girl I currently like shows me the following signs. Just before the signs, i'm not immature or insecure, I act myself and thats being nice to everyone. If thats one of the problems then tell me and I will turn into a badass for the rest of my life (which I don't want to because i'm myself). If I have traits that dry up a girls attraction to me then why do girls (as a whole) still talk to me, act friendly and show signs that they like me more than friends.

Now to the signs

Signs she likes me

I've noticed my crushes friends look at me a lot. A few of her good friends say hi to me too. I've also over heard them talking about me calling me popular once.

One time one of her good friends entered the classroom and my crush told her something. Her friend then asked me if I have a girlfriend and I said no. My crush smiled at me and looked back at her friend.

I've told her friend that my crush is my favourite. She told her what I said and she smiled at me.

She wanted to know if she was invited to and event I’m organising. I said yes and she smiled.

I told her I like girls from a certain country. She said she is not from the country. I corrected myself saying I like girls who live in the country I’m living in. After I said this she smiled.

She looks at me a lot and maybe also glances at me when talking to her friend in class.

Her shoulders face me in class (Usually occurs in class, when she is talking to her friends behind her, she turns so her shoulders are facing me and her head is facing her friends. Also as she is facing the front, her shoulders are still facing me)

When I was sitting next to her once, her foot seemed to be facing me and her leg was placed in an angle facing me.

She asked me if I missed her, I told her I did and she smiled

One of her friends told her that I like her, she looked in my direction and smiled

My crush was with her friend and was applying cream on her hands which caught my attention to her hands.

Said hi to me and was smiling at me as she said it.

My crushes friend (who is Girl 2) told me to sit next to my crush and her, when I looked at my crush she smiled with a closed mouth. When I moved she was smiling widely.

She smiles a lot at me and it seems her face brightens up when she is with/talks to me.

She smiled and her face brightened up when she told me that I liked her Facebook profile picture

When I gave her an invitation to an event she smiled and her face brightened up

She was speaking to me about the event and was smiling

When sitting next to her and looking at the chalk board I needed to reach over to see the chalk board properly. Instead of standing up and reaching towards the opposite side of me, she stretched towards the way I was reaching over to a point she was about to fall on top of me.

I wasn't sitting near her but she walked around she almost fell on top of me.

She also asked if she could borrow something for the task that we were doing. I gave it to her to use and when she gave it back she reached her hand towards me and when I took it back she left her hand stretched towards me for a little while more .

Signs she doesn't like me

She seems to talk about other boys to her friends. Not sure if its only when i'm around her. Also talked about a date or something similar.

She asked another guy to the school ball.

Confusing signs

I also saw her in the back of a car with two boys from my school at the front of the car. I’m not sure if I should be worried with the situation or if I shouldn’t worry about it. But I saw the car driving out of the road and I saw her turn her head towards me as I was walking on the footpath.

I started exams recently and I asked my crush if we enter the exam rooms. She said yes and on the way to the exam rooms I saw she was walking slowly. I caught up with her and asked her if she was ready. She said she wasn't and asked me if I was ready. I said I was ready bit but when I sit for the exam I forget. She replied alright. She then randomly said if she needed a pencil for the test, I told her she didn't but she could borrow mine. She then moved to the side looking for a pencil while I walked to the exam rooms. When I reached the exam rooms, I saw her again.

She's on Facebook a lot. Sometimes late at night on her mobile device.

I invited my crush to my party. She said that she was able to come but didn't show up. I sent a text message to her friend & instead of her friend texting my crush, my crushes friend gave me her number. I sent my crush a message and She said her parents didn't allow her out, yet she had been to other parties. There is a project due at school so could that be the reason. She said she was able to come to my party a lot and was talking about it a lot.

When sitting in my desk in class, the girl I like brushes past me. Sometimes its her arm, hip or sometimes when i'm looking in my bag she brushes past me and her skirt also brush onto my arms (walks close to me).

[likemike]

Does she have a boyfriend

[clueless_one]

Does she have a boyfriend

She doesn't have a boyfriend (from what I know and from her fb relationship status). But still not sure why she asked someone else to the school ball. She also seems to talk about certain other boys to her girl friends a lot, not sure if its only when i'm next to her

[MoonMan]

If the girls I like are not attracted to me, why do they always talk to me and show signs they like me. I'm not blaming anyone :angry: i'm not a problem. I act the way I am and know you are making me upset. I believe its because all the stupid white guys in my school make fun of me and make shit up about me being indian, the girls talk about me and the guys say things and then there is no hope for me. What am I meant to do? I've seen what happens in my school and I come here for help. Your no help. :cry:. Looks on a girl to me are important, its what makes them attractive to me also the way they treat me. If I go for some ugly weird looking girl everyone will look at me with a weird look and everyone will think I am a weird idiot going for someone ugly. I DON'T WANT THAT. I'm nice to everyone always wanting to help someone. Like if I see a car accident wether its a danger to me or not I want to help everyone. It can't be that i'm the problem.

It could be that i'm an only child and don't have help or support in anything. Everyone in my school has a brother or a sister, what do I have nothing, 0.

I'm already upset at the fact that girls say they like me as friends when I like them more and now you are making it worse. Well you have done it, finished it. Because of you I will be alone forever, alone as a only child being bullied in school and now in my future. Because of you, you have successfully made me STOP ASKING OUT ANY MORE GIRLS FOREVER. :(
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
Yes, because I'm sure some random guy's post on the Internet should have that much of an impact on you. Is this supposed to make me feel guilty? "It can't be that I'm the problem" this is where you go wrong once again. You are as superficial as the come, you claim you're a good person, yet you just openly stated you're afraid of dating an unnattractive girl due to social status. I never said to date an ugly girl in the first place, I simply said looks aren't everything, to which you automatically interpreted as going out with an ugly girl. You're shallow, insecure, immature, and slightly deluded when it comes to dating. However you also seem to be a kind person who just wants a girlfriend. So here is the bottom line, work on these negative traits that may be keeping you from getting the girls. Try a new formula, because your current one is not working at all, and stop blaming everyone else for your problems. Aside from this advice, the only one who can truly help you is yourself. Girls aren't going to throw a pity-party for you, and neither am I. You truly want something? You've got to work towards it. Stop limiting yourself and just try your best because, at the end of the day, what more can you do?

[Jacketh]

Some of the comments on here are dreadful. The first question asking does he stink? My god. No doubt the bullies are making that comment due to his background.

Sometimes your background and race can be an issue. I don't find myself attracted to Black people or Ginger people. That isn't racist or being stereotypical, I just don't find them attractive, therefore I can't see myself ever forming a relationship with either of them groups. Is it because I'm White and have Brown hair? Probably so.

Saying that, I see countless couples around where I live of whom are different to each other. Therefore, it is possible. Just stick at it, you can't help who you develop feelings for and I no doubt you'll have success in the future my friend. It can be tough in school, students trying to impress other students, being in big friendship groups, trying to be cool, etc. - When you get out there and start working, things will start working out for you, you'll meet new people, trust me. :)

[MoonMan]

The girl I currently like shows me the following signs. Just before the signs, i'm not immature or insecure, I act myself and thats being nice to everyone. If thats one of the problems then tell me and I will turn into a badass for the rest of my life (which I don't want to because i'm myself). If I have traits that dry up a girls attraction to me then why do girls (as a whole) still talk to me, act friendly and show signs that they like me more than friends.

Now to the signs

Signs she likes me

I've noticed my crushes friends look at me a lot. A few of her good friends say hi to me too. I've also over heard them talking about me calling me popular once.

One time one of her good friends entered the classroom and my crush told her something. Her friend then asked me if I have a girlfriend and I said no. My crush smiled at me and looked back at her friend.

I've told her friend that my crush is my favourite. She told her what I said and she smiled at me.

She wanted to know if she was invited to and event I’m organising. I said yes and she smiled.

I told her I like girls from a certain country. She said she is not from the country. I corrected myself saying I like girls who live in the country I’m living in. After I said this she smiled.

She looks at me a lot and maybe also glances at me when talking to her friend in class.

Her shoulders face me in class (Usually occurs in class, when she is talking to her friends behind her, she turns so her shoulders are facing me and her head is facing her friends. Also as she is facing the front, her shoulders are still facing me)

When I was sitting next to her once, her foot seemed to be facing me and her leg was placed in an angle facing me.

She asked me if I missed her, I told her I did and she smiled

One of her friends told her that I like her, she looked in my direction and smiled

My crush was with her friend and was applying cream on her hands which caught my attention to her hands.

Said hi to me and was smiling at me as she said it.

My crushes friend (who is Girl 2) told me to sit next to my crush and her, when I looked at my crush she smiled with a closed mouth. When I moved she was smiling widely.

She smiles a lot at me and it seems her face brightens up when she is with/talks to me.

She smiled and her face brightened up when she told me that I liked her Facebook profile picture

When I gave her an invitation to an event she smiled and her face brightened up

She was speaking to me about the event and was smiling

When sitting next to her and looking at the chalk board I needed to reach over to see the chalk board properly. Instead of standing up and reaching towards the opposite side of me, she stretched towards the way I was reaching over to a point she was about to fall on top of me.

I wasn't sitting near her but she walked around she almost fell on top of me.

She also asked if she could borrow something for the task that we were doing. I gave it to her to use and when she gave it back she reached her hand towards me and when I took it back she left her hand stretched towards me for a little while more .

Signs she doesn't like me

She seems to talk about other boys to her friends. Not sure if its only when i'm around her. Also talked about a date or something similar.

She asked another guy to the school ball.

Confusing signs

I also saw her in the back of a car with two boys from my school at the front of the car. I’m not sure if I should be worried with the situation or if I shouldn’t worry about it. But I saw the car driving out of the road and I saw her turn her head towards me as I was walking on the footpath.

I started exams recently and I asked my crush if we enter the exam rooms. She said yes and on the way to the exam rooms I saw she was walking slowly. I caught up with her and asked her if she was ready. She said she wasn't and asked me if I was ready. I said I was ready bit but when I sit for the exam I forget. She replied alright. She then randomly said if she needed a pencil for the test, I told her she didn't but she could borrow mine. She then moved to the side looking for a pencil while I walked to the exam rooms. When I reached the exam rooms, I saw her again.

She's on Facebook a lot. Sometimes late at night on her mobile device.

I invited my crush to my party. She said that she was able to come but didn't show up. I sent a text message to her friend & instead of her friend texting my crush, my crushes friend gave me her number. I sent my crush a message and She said her parents didn't allow her out, yet she had been to other parties. There is a project due at school so could that be the reason. She said she was able to come to my party a lot and was talking about it a lot.

When sitting in my desk in class, the girl I like brushes past me. Sometimes its her arm, hip or sometimes when i'm looking in my bag she brushes past me and her skirt also brush onto my arms (walks close to me).
Why are you asking for help when you're seemingly convinced this girl likes you? You have completely flip-flopped this entire thread with overwhelming evidence when it comes to this girl liking you. Who cares what others think about your race, or being an only child etc when you have a girlfriend? All it takes is this one girl (whom you like) to reciprocate those feelings, everyone else can go fuck themselves. Stop being a bitch and ask her out on a date before she slips away and thinks you're not interested. The worse thing that can happen is her saying no, then at least you'll know for sure that she doesn't like you more than a friend and you can move on to other girls. Seriously, stop pussyfooting around this otherwise you'll end up having regrets later on when she starts dating someone else. Trust me. Take control, be confident, be yourself. Not much else you can do.