Girls & Guys - Am I Big Enough??

[Scarborough]

Okay, so I'm 15, turning 16 in october. I just started talking to this girl I really like, and she's the kinda girl who likes to have sex. She says she has with 5 other people, and I've only had sex with 2 really close people, in a relationship. She wants one with me before we do anything, and I'm really starting to like her.

I'm worried becausse her and her friend always talk about guys with small penises, and laughing about it. My penis is around 5'7 - 5'9 inches erect, I'm not really sure if this is good for my age or not considering I've never compared with anyone.. The first girl was a virgin, and the second had slept with one person before and said he was smaller then me, so I wasn't worried about that.

Overall I just wanna know if you guys think I'm safe to do anything with her without being made fun of.. She's the same age as me turning 16 next month, and all the guys she has slept with were the same age.. Your honest feedback would be muchly appretiated..

[PinkFloyd]

You are FINE. If she tells you she was expecting something in the 7 inch and above region, she has been watching too much porn with people that take drugs to make their dicks bigger. Seriously though; You're right in the middle of average adult size.

[Hybridoxidation]

Ish fine. Mine is only 4 or 4 and a half when erect, but most girls don't mind penis size. It's the 9th thing on their mind when finding a relationship, although your girl seems to put it much higher. Your size is average though, so unless she wants something bigger, don't worry. Just make sure you reasearch and know how to pleasure her and stuff.

[Josh Schlacter]

Don't worry man
I'm 16 turning 17 this year and I'm 8 inches, but when i was your 15 turning 16 i was around 6.4 to 6.9. So i grew over an inch. You probably will grow to about 7" before you turn 17.

[Josh Schlacter]

Are you from Perth?

[HockeyLovesMe]

ya dnt worry about it :)

[GigglyAbby]

Don't sweat it since you're around the average adult penis size (around 5.25-6.5 inches). Depending on when you started puberty -- there's a chance that it may get bigger. Keep in mind -- if your prior sex partners didn't make an issue about it -- I doubt she will. IF she were to make an issue with it -- she's NOT worth your time.

[Scarborough]

Thanks guys.. I'm still kinda worried but I'm gonna try and if she doesn't like it then I guess she's not really worth my time.. And I'm from Scarborough Toronto Ontario

[chrisawesome]

Don't worry man
I'm 16 turning 17 this year and I'm 8 inches, but when i was your 15 turning 16 i was around 6.4 to 6.9. So i grew over an inch. You probably will grow to about 7" before you turn 17.

I am just like Josh. I am told that my dick is almost too big but most girls like it. For your age, 6 inches is about normal. Dont worry about how big your dick is. Most guys are about the same. Its about how you use it rather than how big it is. Six inches is fine.

[Silicate Wielder]

Don't worry, it's a size that most girls will enjoy. Besides, you still have time to grow.

[justin 13]

Dude u r ok.

[NotShortButFunsized]

I'm worried because her and her friend always talk about guys with small penises, and laughing about it. My penis is around 5'7 - 5'9 inches erect, I'm not really sure if this is good for my age or not considering I've never compared with anyone.. The first girl was a virgin, and the second had slept with one person before and said he was smaller then me, so I wasn't worried about that.

Overall I just wanna know if you guys think I'm safe to do anything with her without being made fun of.. She's the same age as me turning 16 next month, and all the guys she has slept with were the same age.. Your honest feedback would be muchly appretiated..


boys make a ton of pressure out of how long it is as if seven or eight inches is "barely acceptable" because they all watch porn, see how "manly" and "desirable" those actors with huge unnaturally long penises are, and for some reason assume thats the norm and what all of us want. everyone knows porn is so completely utterly unrealistic and fake that its ridiculous.

if you're concerned you won't satisfy that girl, think of it like this...for most, much of the pleasure from sex isn't so much being penetrated super deep because pleasure is felt more shallow closer to the entrance, so it feels better to be filled as opposed to a super long one that hits the cervix every stroke, because that feels like being hit in the gut sometimes.

So boy's emphasis on length alone as a measure of one's "manliness" (evidenced by the twelve gazillion posts and surveys on length in the boys' section) is frankly a little misplaced. instead, judge your value as a partner by good character,respect of girls, kindness, and things like that which actually matter in a relationship, because what kind of person you are matters a lot more to us than whether a ruler says your body is good enough.

to respond more directly to your concern, your length is perfectly normal, probably already longer than some of the other boys who try to show off, if its really that important to you that you should "compare"

besides, every respectable girl i've ever met (myself included) couldn't care less how "big" you are. if we love you, we will love all of you because its you, not because you're the spitting image of a pornstar. if those girls make fun of boys for being "not big enough" then you're honestly wasting your time on girls not worth your energy.

i know its a girl's perspective, and it doesn't say much as to how you compare to other boys, but hope it makes you feel a little better

[Jakefortin]

You're all set! I remember when I was just 5 inches, and girls did not complain. Trust me, they'll love it man but mine was thick and most of the time, the girth is better than the length. Cheers!

[MikeSpace]

She wants you so don't worry! :D

[Taryn98]

Your concern should not be with the size of your penis, but rather the size of your confidence.

[supadupahitz]

Your concern should not be with the size of your penis, but rather the size of your confidence.

This. Besides, if you're doing it right, she's gonna be so totally and completely in to you and turned on before she even sees it that she will be hooked. I'm actually glad mine isn't 8" or more, it would suck not being able to go all the way in because it didn't feel good for her, or being worried all the time about it being too much. If a girl complains about the size of your penis, then she's probably complaining about something else whether she knows it or not. Did you take your time and make sure she was really turned on before you just got right in there? Did you pay attention to how SHE felt, or were you just worried about how you felt? Did you look her in the eyes as you were entering, or did you just close your eyes and shove it in there and slam back and forth until you were done? From what I've been told, penis size is about 4% of the big picture when it comes to being in bed. If she's only got the 4% to go on, you're not doing it right.

[jacktheawesome]

U r good don't worry

[TheFSM]

Dude, it's okay. You are perfectly fine. Don't worry about anything

[Nolf]

Look, the thingy is that when she and her friend are making fun of guys with small penises, its guys that they don't like with small penises, or people from their past that they don't want to be involved with anymore. If you guys want to do this, then she's not going to judge you at all based on your mansize, regardless of what she was expecting. If you're still worrying, remember that sixe doesn't matter, its how well you use it

[superstarB]

You are just a little bigger than me and I'm 16 so you are fine

[CharlieHorse]

How do threads like this even last more than 3-5 responses?

[hmacdonald21]

Agreed completely

[luke.a]

Girls like confidence, if you have plently of that you shouldn't worry.

[punker_25]

youire fine, relax:D

[Lost in the Echo]

youire fine, relax:D

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