Help with sexuality and curiosity

[confusedteen33]

Ok, so I have a girlfriend, and I love her with all my heart, possibly would want a family with her, but there is one thing holding me back. I'm physically, not emotionally, attracted to guys. Im attracted both physically and mentally to girls, but I really want to experiment with a guy. Thing is, I could never cheat on my gf. I've been with her for 7 months today, I love her, and we have done it, but I still want to try with a guy. I'm completely lost on what to do...
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[MickeyMouse]

The template answer to this would be to be honest with your girlfriend and tell her.

However, it's never that easy. Hormones play a huge part in physical attraction, and during the teen years these hormones are all over the place. The best advice I can give is to stick with your girlfriend, you yourself said you love her and that should be a good enough reason to stay by her. You may find that over time, you feel very sexually attracted to her. The other option ofcourse would be to take a break, experiment with a guy and see how you feel after that, although I wouldn't recommend this as there are risks attached (she may not take you back, she may be feel betrayed etc.)

[Hybridoxidation]

I don't think it's considered cheating if it's a guy xD But idk. Consult your girlfriend about it. It's normal to have feelings like that, I suppose. Just make sure you don't overstep your limit.

[teen.jpg]

I don't think it's considered cheating if it's a guy xD But idk. Consult your girlfriend about it. It's normal to have feelings like that, I suppose. Just make sure you don't overstep your limit.

How would it not be cheating o.0

Talk about it with her. If she's a good girlfriend, she should understand.

[Hybridoxidation]

How would it not be cheating o.0

Talk about it with her. If she's a good girlfriend, she should understand.

Well, depends on the girl tbh. Thought now that I think about it it does seem to be cheating ..

[Deep Blue Sea]

Himm... Umm.... I have a reverse relationship that's with a boy. And we are very much in love. However... If he got lucky with a girl, I'd be really happy for him and high five him and stuff. I'd be jealous as hell over him getting lucky with a girl, but I wouldn't feel like he cheated on me. But I'm a bisexual boy, so my reaction is likely to be a lot different than that of a st8 girl.

[justin 13]

Dude talk 2 ur GF.

[drew6]

Ok, so I have a girlfriend, and I love her with all my heart, possibly would want a family with her, but there is one thing holding me back. I'm physically, not emotionally, attracted to guys. Im attracted both physically and mentally to girls, but I really want to experiment with a guy. Thing is, I could never cheat on my gf. I've been with her for 7 months today, I love her, and we have done it, but I still want to try with a guy. I'm completely lost on what to do...
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The biggest question is: Is it cheating? I think you can answer that yourself by asking a few questions. 1. Would you consider it cheating if she had some form of sex that lead to an orgasm with another person? 2. What does she say about it? 3. Did you ask her? Yes? No? I'm guessing no, because you know or think she'd feel violated or betrayed.

So while you may or may not be able to convince yourself if it's cheating, the reality is that only her opinion matters AND if you can't talk about this with her, then that's pretty much your answer on if it's cheating. Personally, I'd bring up the subject, you might be surprised that she's already done same sex stuff or she hasn't, but is thinking about it too and you could decide together what's okay and what's not for both of you in your relationship.

To me the most important thing in a relationship is trust. If you're in a good relationship with her, you should be able to share exactly these kinds of thoughts with her and see what she thinks. It's just talk, a conversation, it's not like you did it and were caught or feel guilty, you just wanted to talk about it because you want to be open and that you do care about her and her opinion is the only one that matters.

Every girl I've dated, we've talked about what's cheating and what's not.

If you talk to your girl friend about whether she's had any same sex thoughts, I think you'll be surprised that she has and she may have acted on them. I know of way more girls doing same sex stuff than I do guys and it's not even close.