I get a feeling this girl doesn't like me.

[Cicero]

So when we first met, she actually text me first (she got my number from her sister), so I knew she liked me cause if she didnt she would have never text me. Then when we hungout she helped me with ice skating by holding my hand. Then we would play games like fun run together. But she's never been a good texter. Like, ill be having a conversation with her and then she'll just suddenly stop texting, then hours later she'll say sorry. Sometimes when I text her, she never texts me back, or she'll text back 5 hours later.

I asked my friend (who's best friends with her) what she thought of me, and he said she thinks I'm cool. But I don't know if I should trust him, because I asked him when I got to his house (and when they left) and he said she thinks I'm cool, and then I said "how would you know? I just got it." Then he said "I asked before you came over I said "Cicero is coming over, do you like him?" And then she said she thought I was cool", but I doubt he even asked.

So today I text her saying "Good luck on your tests" and then she said "thanks! You too Cicero (:" so I thought that was good, then later I said "I can't believe your sister text me this..." "Oh God I want you inside me" so then she said "she said that?" And I said "lol no. Phil [my friend] and I used her phone and said that to me :-P" and now she hasn't text back, and that was 7 hours ago :eek:

I know it may sound weird I said that, but let me add that Phil is known to be like that, so that's why I added his name. That's something Phil would definitely do and she knows it.

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Also, when I've seen her, she never gives much attention to me. Like if its the first time I see her, she'll just hang all over Phil (cause they're best friends, she has a bf already). She's more social to me over text. Like last time we hungout it was fun, but just blegh. Like she mostly wanted to do stuff with my friend. Her and I were playing black ops zombies, she then in a joking way I was like "wow good job you haven't died and its level 3!" And she said "yeah!". Then I said "wow good job, you survived without dying!" Then I gave her a high five to which she responded.

[MickeyMouse]

Seen this happen so many times and been through this myself many times too. Don't cling on to text messages, I personally almost never text back instantly and it takes me atleast an hour or so, mainly because I've got better things to do than be on my phone 24/7! and I'm sure it's the same situation with her.

Texting and speaking face to face can be a whole different experience, many of my female friends will be happy to talk to guys on the phone but then shy away when they see eachother face-to-face, especially when others are around (in this case, she may feel a bit awkward when it's you, and Phil, especially as her and Phil are best friends)

It sounds to me that she is a flirt, and don't mistake flirting with liking, just because she flirts does not mean she likes you (in more than a friend way). These things take a long time to develop into relationships, you should just keep doing what you're doing, eventually you'll come to the stage where you can talk to her one-on-one about how you feel about eachother.

For now, don't stress, be happy that you've got her as a friend.

[Cicero]

Seen this happen so many times and been through this myself many times too. Don't cling on to text messages, I personally almost never text back instantly and it takes me atleast an hour or so, mainly because I've got better things to do than be on my phone 24/7! and I'm sure it's the same situation with her.

Texting and speaking face to face can be a whole different experience, many of my female friends will be happy to talk to guys on the phone but then shy away when they see eachother face-to-face, especially when others are around (in this case, she may feel a bit awkward when it's you, and Phil, especially as her and Phil are best friends)

It sounds to me that she is a flirt, and don't mistake flirting with liking, just because she flirts does not mean she likes you (in more than a friend way). These things take a long time to develop into relationships, you should just keep doing what you're doing, eventually you'll come to the stage where you can talk to her one-on-one about how you feel about eachother.

For now, don't stress, be happy that you've got her as a friend.

No, I don't mean I wanna date her. I just worry she doesn't like me as a friend.
In front of Phil, you can tell that she is best friends with him (in fact, it looks like they like each other the same, Phil told me she likes her, but her sister said she doesn't feel the same way), they're always joking and hanging on each other. Whereas with me, I feel like I'm invisible whenever we hangout (I've never hung out with her without Phil and I don't think I really will).

[MickeyMouse]

Right, I can think of two things here

1. That's just the type of person she is, maybe she feels more comfortable around Phil because they're best friends, and she may see it as innapropriate to hang around you when Phil is around.

2. Maybe she's not that interested in being friends with you, and you shouldn't worry about that, you can't get everyone to like you, it's just life.

Either way, if she's making you feel uncomfortable either talk to her, Phil or her sister about it, if you can't get a direct answer and you still feel uncomfortable, it may just be best to stop talking to her.

[Cicero]

Right, I can think of two things here

1. That's just the type of person she is, maybe she feels more comfortable around Phil because they're best friends, and she may see it as innapropriate to hang around you when Phil is around.

2. Maybe she's not that interested in being friends with you, and you shouldn't worry about that, you can't get everyone to like you, it's just life.

Either way, if she's making you feel uncomfortable either talk to her, Phil or her sister about it, if you can't get a direct answer and you still feel uncomfortable, it may just be best to stop talking to her.

Well, when I said "Good luck on your tests" and she responded saying "thanks! You too Cicero :)" couldn't that have been a sign that she does like me as a friend? Cause if she didnt like me wouldn't she have not responded, or just responded by saying "thanks"

Also, do you think that text I sent today jeopardized our relationship of maybe being friends? When I say text, I'm referring to the one where I said "can't believe your sister said this... Oh god I want you inside me" to which she responded "she said that" to which I responded "lol no, Phil and I took her phone and sent that to me". It was more of a joke that text, but I'm now worried it jeopardized the relationship we had (whatever that relationship is lol).

[MickeyMouse]

She may see you as a friend, but not a close friend where she feels comfortable being around for long periods of time. Her reply to that text was a kind gesture, don't read too much into it

As for the joke text, no, I highly doubt that has changed how she sees you. Heres what I believe you should do, stop texting her too much, don't be the one to always start the conversation, if she does like you as a friend then she'll drop a "hi, how are you" text now and then. I'm not saying completely ignore her just try to back off a little

[Cicero]

She may see you as a friend, but not a close friend where she feels comfortable being around for long periods of time. Her reply to that text was a kind gesture, don't read too much into it

As for the joke text, no, I highly doubt that has changed how she sees you. Heres what I believe you should do, stop texting her too much, don't be the one to always start the conversation, if she does like you as a friend then she'll drop a "hi, how are you" text now and then. I'm not saying completely ignore her just try to back off a little

Yeah, this was the first time I text her for 3-4 months. We don't text often and she never texts me, her sister on the other hand texts me almost everyday (her sister has a huge crush on me). I barely even hangout with her, so it's not like she'd think to text me much. I know we're not like legit friend, but I just want her to like me as a "friend" (like someone she likes, but doesn't have to hang out with much).

[MickeyMouse]

It sounds like you've already achieved that, as long as she hasn't said anything bad about you then she probably does like you (this is experience speaking, I can't actually prove that she likes you, and it's not really an appropriate thing to ask someone). Just don't try too hard, or she'll start to dislike you. You don't want to make a fool out of yourself by constantly texting someone when they're not replying. Act natural, be yourself and don't think too much into it, as I said before, even if she doesn't like you that much, who cares? It's not the end of the world. :-)

[Cicero]

It sounds like you've already achieved that, as long as she hasn't said anything bad about you then she probably does like you (this is experience speaking, I can't actually prove that she likes you, and it's not really an appropriate thing to ask someone). Just don't try too hard, or she'll start to dislike you. You don't want to make a fool out of yourself by constantly texting someone when they're not replying. Act natural, be yourself and don't think too much into it, as I said before, even if she doesn't like you that much, who cares? It's almost not the end of the world. :-)

lol I guess

Thanks:) Yeah even I forget about her, so I know if I forget she especially forgets cause she's pretty popular

[MickeyMouse]

No problem :-), who knows, a few months down the line you might even end up being best friends. I ended up being the boy no one knew to one of most popular people in the school, I'm not trying to be boastful, I'm just saying that give it time, don't rush, you never know what will happen