Talking to hot girls

[Will1997]

Hey, im looking for help from girls and guys. Im a 15 years old boy in high sçhool but im shy of talking to hot/ popular girls. I can talk to any other girls but im having a hard time with the hot ones. Like, i just get stressed and i dont know how to act cool. Any advice?

[zeebo]

Same thing with, too. I guess it's just the pressure or something....the best thing is just to get to know them personally through class or something, so that you know them as a friend, and it gets easier.

[LOLA13]

Be yourself and keep up to date on the coolest things! Flirt a little to! And compliment her!

[CharlieHorse]

The cuter the girl, the harder it is to talk to her. :D

[badthoughts]

Here's the odd thing about the hottest girls: sometimes they have guys coming at them from every direction, and sometimes they don't have any guys coming at them at all because all the guys think that they already have guys coming at them from every direction so they don't even bother talking to them. It's an odd predicament, and I don't think there's anything we can do about it, so it's really of no value. Moving on.

The thing to remember about hot girls is that they have heard and seen everything that guys can think of to try to get with them, so be original. Humor is pretty failsafe as are compliments. Avoid generic compliments, though; try to pick out a details, but don't get too crazy with doing that. Above all, remember that we're all human regardless of how hot we look, so we all feel the same emotions and go through similar stages in life, so you should always be able to connect with a hot girl in some way. Good luck.

[Hybridoxidation]

Here's the odd thing about the hottest girls: sometimes they have guys coming at them from every direction, and sometimes they don't have any guys coming at them at all because all the guys think that they already have guys coming at them from every direction so they don't even bother talking to them. It's an odd predicament, and I don't think there's anything we can do about it, so it's really of no value. Moving on.

The thing to remember about hot girls is that they have heard and seen everything that guys can think of to try to get with them, so be original. Humor is pretty failsafe as are compliments. Avoid generic compliments, though; try to pick out a details, but don't get too crazy with doing that. Above all, remember that we're all human regardless of how hot we look, so we all feel the same emotions and go through similar stages in life, so you should always be able to connect with a hot girl in some way. Good luck.

Guy coming to girlsception. Lmao. What he said^ But if the "hot" girl knows she's hot and she flaunts it around too much, it spells trouble. Know when to pick carefully. Also, if she's a total derptard, not worth it :3

[NotShortButFunsized]

don't overthink and overanalyze it, just be yourself and talk to her. even pretty girls are still girls, and she isn't any different, and if you can handle other girls you can handle one you like. you just have a higher opinion of her, so you're more afraid of making a weak impression, which is perfectly reasonable. will you say something silly? probably. laugh it off, she probably finds it flattering to make you feel that way.
know the differences between confident/cocky, assertive/oppressive, etc. its perfectly possible to send messages without saying a single word, so body language as well as verbal language plays a part in all of that
find something she's interested in (book, movie, sport) and show an interest in it, its a good topic to get her talking to you about something she likes without it being personal.
if you want to date this girl, show her you're worth dating. don't 'try' to be her boyfriend (as counterintuitive as it sounds), instead take some time to get to know her and be her friend first, we appreciate a guy who is willing to like us for who we are. this is important because i seriously doubt you're the only guy who likes her appearance, so she's probably quick to spot a boy out for her looks and it will probably be a refreshing treat to her if you approached her and showed your interest in her having nothing to do with her superficial appearance.
hope this helps :)

[johnsmith1]

Just be yourself. Deep breath then just go up and say hello, and take it from there

[midnight424]

the worst thing for you to do is not be yourself

[Taryn98]

Just treat them the way you treat everyone one else. Talk the same way you would with your friends. Like everyone else said, be yourself.

[MikeSpace]

Just try to be yourself.. If you're being fake, they will know right away that you're not sincere with them and then you have no chance!

[TinyDancer]

Confidence not to be confused with arrogance is a big turn on.

[TheFSM]

Just do what you do with other girls, or just be yourself! You'll always miss if you don't try!

[Mob Boss]

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[chezhans]

Same thing with me too :) Don't worry, all I can say is "get up and try...then get lucky"

[MoonMan]

It's because you're thinking with your dick, which is perfectly normal at this age btw. You are having a conversation with her, but in the back your mind you're thinking "damn she's hot." This leads you to stutter, mispronounce, and ultimately become timid and tense around them because your brain is lost in a sea of hormones and sex drives while you're trying to speak at the same time. In conclusion, try to stop thinking with your dick. Try to look past her appearance and see if there's anything that you can spark up. Look for signs of likes, hobbies, and interests when she talks. This will make for better conversation while giving her at least the impression that you're confident. Hot girls get compliments on their looks all the time and, while its nice to say them, it bores them to no end. However a guy who has the same interests, makes for good entertainment/company, and the ability to carry out a conversation is anything but boring.

[scott757]

All I'm going to say is that looks aren't all there is to a girl, I know some really nice looking girls who are just total bitches - you don't really want to be with them, just be careful with them. HOWEVER if you do think she is more than just a pretty face then yeah try to make conversation, do you talk to them at any other time? Is there a certain subject that you can discuss? Or, have you never spoken to them before? If this is the case, I know this sounds stupid, but something like facebook helps a lot, atleast there you can start talking to someone and begin to know them a little bit, once you get talking to them online it makes it easier to talk to them in person. Trust me, one of my best friends it took about three months before I actually spoke to them face-to-face but I would speak to her everyday on facebook, it just helps to break the ice a bit - and in my experience it works. Then again that's just me, I'm confident behind a computer screen.

[teen.jpg]

Talk to her like any other person? If you have troubles like that, it's because you aren't seeing anything other then their looks. Looks aren't important, it's whats on the inside that counts.

[BeautifulAngel]

Relax its just another girl, but my advice is try and get a one on one chat because a group of girls will know your trying to act cool and they will eat you up and spit you out. So the real advice, chill and speak normally like you would to a friend but leaving out profanity, and be polite

[Dimas KM]

Just act normal and don't shy.If the pressure burden u,take a deep breath

Confidence is important

[qert4321]

Just take a deep breath and go for it. Confidence is key

[Unique Physique]

OP, since you are specifically asking about hot girls, can I ask if you are good looking yourself?

I'm all for the politically correct "it's all about personality" and "be confident" advice which you're getting, to some extent it's true, but girls - just like guys - have to feel at least some physical attraction and chemistry too, otherwise it just won't work and you'll end up in the so called "friendzone" which guys complain about (on the internet anyway).

As a general rule hot girls go for hot guys. So to an extent, yes, leagues do also exist. If you look at roughly, say, 8/10 couples in town, you'll notice they're roughly the same in level of physical attractiveness.

[tim13531]

i am the same way...like with my friends 1 time they were all talkin and me and 2 other friends just started talkin abt somethin different...i think its the fact tht they r popular and therefore more "fragile"(if thts how u spell it) we dont want to "break them"

[jodiexcasey]

just brave it and talk to them. im a girl and i always think its cute when a boy makes a effort to talk to you. they will like it trust me hah :)

[Elysium]

just brave it and talk to them. im a girl and i always think its cute when a boy makes a effort to talk to you. they will like it trust me hah :)
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