kind of a problem...

[digzchickz]

hey guys i kinda gotta problem here... just want some opinions and stuff. i have a girlfriend that i am crazy about, but i still have problems with being 'curious'. i have never gotten the chance to experiment with guys even once, the opportunity just never came up, and i dont really have the confidence to bring it up. The thing is, I love my gf and I definitely want to get married someday and have kids, and I only have those kinds of feelings for girls, i dont want a 'relationship' with a guy, just more like a friend to do some stuff with... i know i dont ever want to do anal thats for sure. the really confusing thing is that i dont know if i really want to do stuff or if its just the unknown that excites me, and once i do something, maybe i will be over it... and also, if i did do something, would i be cheating? is this really weird?

[Rayquaza]

Not really considering you're not actually entering a relationship or having sex with a guy, but to be honest it's dependent of your girlfriend, and only she'll know how she reacts.

[justin 13]

Dude, If I were u I wud not do it. U dont need 2 do it. And of course yeah I think is cheating.

[Catholic Guy]

Why don't you just tell her you are bi curious and if she's okay with that you can go ahead and experiment with guys but otherwise you know the boundary

[HockeyLovesMe]

i dont think it would be cheating and done label yurself i think lots of guys think about other guys like that im not sure why prolly cuz we are way hornier haha but ya not sure if u will ever get a guy but its great that u got a gf :):)

[superstarB]

I think it is considered cheating, and it just sounds like just really curious but I wouldn't try and go out there and try to experiment with guys and just be with your girlfriend cause you might have that guilt of doing something sexual or affectionate, that's why I think its cheating; obviously your straight and all I'm just saying is don't do it , it might just hurt your relationship

[BakeBake]

No this wouldn't be considered cheating because you are not getting in a relationship with the other person. And this other person that you are going to fooling around with is not a girl.

[SniperKing]

No this wouldn't be considered cheating because you are not getting in a relationship with the other person. And this other person that you are going to fooling around with is not a girl.

my thoughts exactly

[chicohunter]

Its not really cheating since you're not even doing it to find someone else, you are just discovering something new. Plus, I don't think she'll be watching you go at it, so it's not too bad

[ntc05]

Why don't you just tell her you are bi curious and if she's okay with that you can go ahead and experiment with guys but otherwise you know the boundary