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onlyboxers
June 3rd, 2013, 02:41 AM
I'am 16 yo and i see so many of my friends with relationships it kind of makes me jealous even i want a relationship....any help?
Mob Boss
June 3rd, 2013, 02:55 AM
As cliche as it sounds, be yourself. Don't rush anything or feel the urgency to date because your friends are. If you're not ready, you're not ready. If you are, however, be the best you. Gravitate towards those that share the same interests because not only is that common ground and gives you a common interest, but it's something you enjoy, naturally placing you in a comfort zone, so to speak. Don't expect a lot. I'm not going to paint with a broad brush, but you're young -- relationships that start in teens usually aren't who you're going to end up with. Have fun with it and it will be experience for later relationships. Or, who knows, you might even stay with whomever it is. Be confident (not cocky) and be yourself.
MaguireUk
June 3rd, 2013, 03:21 AM
Just be yourself, but be confident when talking to someone you like, never show of to much or just talk about yourself always try to listen to them and see where it goes start a friendship but dont fall into the friend zone and just get closer with them
Croconaw
June 3rd, 2013, 01:57 PM
If the only reason you want to be in a relationship is because your friends are, then you're not ready. I think that you need to talk to more people that share your interests.
CookieBase
June 6th, 2013, 09:02 AM
The most important thing to remember is to be true to yourself. All your friends are in relationships and its hard (been there, done that) but you shouldn't start a relationship because every1 else is in one. You have to move all your own speed and start a relationship with some1 you truly like. I like you should wait til you meet some1 you like but its ur choice after all. Hope i helped:)
Melodic
June 6th, 2013, 12:50 PM
One of my old friends was/is the same way. She usually got jealous when other girls got into relationships. My first two relationships she sorta tried to take hold of and tried to ruin them. One learned to deal with it, the other one broke up with me the next day. I got mad and that whole fight destroyed our friendship. Luckily, the guys I liked after that whole mess didn't have to deal with her. And I got a pretty good relationship out of it. But my point is, don't feel like you have to rush into a relationship because others are in one or just because you feel alone. Once you build yourself and choose your standards, then the right person will come along. In the meanwhile, join activities around school or even around town, and you'll meet someone with common interests.
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June 6th, 2013, 09:11 PM
I feel the same, but you can't rush into things. The right person will come along, but you have to be willing to wait for them.
Snookers
June 7th, 2013, 03:58 AM
Just put these around your hometown.
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