How can I see him naked?

[confusedteen33]

Ok, so I am a straight, possibly bi 16 year old guy. I have a friend of whom spends the night quite often, and I've seen on some of the posts here that it's common that some guys have seen their guy friends nude, and even masturbate with each other. My question is, 1) I really want to see him naked, but I don't want it to be obvious because I don't want him thinking I'm gay, and 2)how could I possibly bring up masturbating together. Help!!!:confused:

[Caldwell]

Don't pressure him into doing it.

[Trenton_]

This is a tough one to answer because we aren't supposed to say "how" to do stuff, but I belive I can say this:

- it's completely normal for guys your age to talk about their penis and how it's annoying to deal with at times.
- it's normal to wonder how your genitals compare to other guys.
- it's normal for him to wonder how his compare to other guys.
- tt's normal for you to wonder about each other.

It's normal to suggest for the two of you to compare with each other.

Other than that, maybe you'd see him in the showers if you both play sports. For me, I've never had to ask because of showering after sports, so we've already seen a bunch of guys, so it's not a bid deal to be naked around other guys. Not that we ever just hang out naked. To me that would be weird to do stuff that we'd normall do with clothes on, but do naked. Like video games. To me, hanging out naked would be just weird, but if we were going to go swimming, we'd change clothese in my friends bedroom or mine, without covering up and usually one of us goofs around with making our balls swing or slap/clap or do the helicopter. So for us, it's pretty normal to be nude if there is a need to be nude. Like, if we're showering at each other house or at a gym or changing clothes, we don't at all try to cover up with a towel or a hand or leave shirt on when changing shorts. So we're open about that now because at home and in private, I'm just more comfortable, so I go slower and I might say hay look I'm doing the helicopter and I'll do that for a few second knowing he's going to totally look. Eventually he did the same and we had a laugh about it. So it's just being in the right setting being relaxed, comfortable and not in a hurry at all without other guys staring at you like in a locker room.

If you want to see him hard, lead by example and say hey look, when you're hard and talk about and he'll do the same eventually.

I think with friends, just being honest about your insecurities is part of the trust and confidence builder by leading by example.

Like it's common for guys to want a bigger penis or balls or pubes or whatever and for you or him to say, see, look, that's what I'm talking about. and they'll look and then just ask to see theirs.

It's not about tricking come guy, it's about being close enough that you both know that you're mostly just looking, so ti's not a big homo event, just guys curious about how the other guy looks during puberty.

We're not allowed to say specifics abt this topic, but make it an experience about sharing something your both concerned about and not making a bid deal about being naked.

[MaguireUk]

Easy start a sort of truth or dare game see his limit, what he would do just mess around staying like why dont you just take it all off but say it really jokey and see what he says but have fun with it :)

[justinglives]

Well, ill bet hez as curious as u r. Next time he sleeps over, get out.or bring up some.porn. Thats always a gr8 ice breaker. See where it goes from there. Take the lead juss a little..... Like "dude.....im so horny.right now...u?" See what he sez and go by that?
Cant believe that if he stays over u havent seen him het. What do u guys sleep in? And where do u change?
Mayb pm me?

[johnsmith1]

Just bring it up informally. Ask what he thinks about it in general.

[acan1997]

Ok, so I am a straight, possibly bi 16 year old guy. I have a friend of whom spends the night quite often, and I've seen on some of the posts here that it's common that some guys have seen their guy friends nude, and even masturbate with each other. My question is, 1) I really want to see him naked, but I don't want it to be obvious because I don't want him thinking I'm gay, and 2)how could I possibly bring up masturbating together. Help!!!:confused:

Truth or dare! Always worked for me

[HockeyLovesMe]

watch porn that does work to :)

[JonasBe]

Truth or dare is ideal :)

[Hermes96]

just get get him to change in your room whilst your in there or play truth or dare and or spin the bottle

[Harry Smith]

We don't give any form of sexual advice on this forum :locked2: