Sex with older guy

[matshorter]

This is what happened last week: I take piano lessons from a guy who's 21. Last week he asked me to come to his place in the evening, so we could do a longer lesson and talk about things. I came to him and we did some piano stuff. Then, all of a sudden, he started talking about how he liked me and that I'm cute and -he's gay. Some how, I also found him attractive and as being gay myself, it was no problem for me. Then he asked me, if it was okay for me to have sex with him. I was quite excited because I never had sex with an older guy, so I agreed. It was the best sex I ever had.

Now here's my question: Am I a weirdo, or has anybody else have had such an experience, too, homo- or heterosexualwise?

[fastfreerunner]

Its pretty normal, but the guys 21?

[Swagging god]

I've had sex with an older girl, she was 19 and I was 17. Also I lost my virginity to an older girl, I was 12 and she was 16.

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How old are YOU?

[Swagging god]

I am currently 19

[Deep Blue Sea]

How old are you "matshorter"? How old you are makes all the difference in answering your question regarding you having sex with a 21 year old.

[curiousteen]

I've had sex with an older girl, she was 19 and I was 17. Also I lost my virginity to an older girl, I was 12 and she was 16.

umm wow ok.

dude your 19 he's 21 i dont see anything wrong with it. do u still talk to him?

[johnsmith1]

This is what happened last week: I take piano lessons from a guy who's 21. Last week he asked me to come to his place in the evening, so we could do a longer lesson and talk about things. I came to him and we did some piano stuff. Then, all of a sudden, he started talking about how he liked me and that I'm cute and -he's gay. Some how, I also found him attractive and as being gay myself, it was no problem for me. Then he asked me, if it was okay for me to have sex with him. I was quite excited because I never had sex with an older guy, so I agreed. It was the best sex I ever had.

Now here's my question: Am I a weirdo, or has anybody else have had such an experience, too, homo- or heterosexualwise?

I'm still sadly a virgin. Your profil has you at 16. In the UK16 and above is legal. What you''ve done is your choice. By the sound of it you wanted it and enjoyed it. As long as you're happy.

[JonasBe]

Sex with someone older is ok, as long as the age difference is not to big.
Also you both should be at age of consent. If you both are, nothing is wrong with it.

Even I could support it in some cases if one of the 2 isn't of age of consent yet, but thats only if the older one isn't like pedo or something.

But yeah, it's pretty normal being attracted to older guys, it's common. I'm mostly attracted to younger guys, it works in both ways.

[Patuxent78]

The age of consent in Germany (which is where matshorter is from) is 14 years old. So, he says he's 16 and lives in Germany. He's good, there's nothing illegal. It would be in sme states in USA but not all since a lot of states is 16 and a few are even younger.

[sdude]

This is what happened last week: I take piano lessons from a guy who's 21. Last week he asked me to come to his place in the evening, so we could do a longer lesson and talk about things. I came to him and we did some piano stuff. Then, all of a sudden, he started talking about how he liked me and that I'm cute and -he's gay. Some how, I also found him attractive and as being gay myself, it was no problem for me. Then he asked me, if it was okay for me to have sex with him. I was quite excited because I never had sex with an older guy, so I agreed. It was the best sex I ever had.

Now here's my question: Am I a weirdo, or has anybody else have had such an experience, too, homo- or heterosexualwise?

Well, I don't know what the age of consent is in Germany, but I think it was probably unlawful and probably borders on pedophilia. You don't say your age, but from your pic, I'm guessing 15-16?? Regardless, as a "teacher", I think he took advantage of you and that is wrong. If he does this to you, he may do this to younger students and it can do really bad things to young boys heads that can scar them for life. Do what you think is right, but if I were you, regardless of your "consenting", I'd turn his ass in!!! I'm bi by the way, so not thinking this is wrong because of homosexuality, just wrong period!

[Patuxent78]

Well, I don't know what the age of consent is in Germany, but I think it was probably unlawful and probably borders on pedophilia. You don't say your age, but from your pic, I'm guessing 15-16?? Regardless, as a "teacher", I think he took advantage of you and that is wrong. If he does this to you, he may do this to younger students and it can do really bad things to young boys heads that can scar them for life. Do what you think is right, but if I were you, regardless of your "consenting", I'd turn his ass in!!! I'm bi by the way, so not thinking this is wrong because of homosexuality, just wrong period!

Bro! I just said what the consenting age is in Germany! The post just above yours! It's 14 and he's 16. It's legal and there is nothing wrong with it. He said he wanted it and he got it. He simply asked if it was weird or if he's weird and he's not.

[Hermes96]

its not to bad as long as you of age coz this guy could get in to a load of shit for it.

[sdude]

Bro! I just said what the consenting age is in Germany! The post just above yours! It's 14 and he's 16. It's legal and there is nothing wrong with it. He said he wanted it and he got it. He simply asked if it was weird or if he's weird and he's not.

Yeah, my bad, I think yours got submitted at the same time as mine or I wouldn't have said that...but still, a "teacher" of any kind luring a younger student just isn't kosher in my book....

[Charlie48]

that seemed to escalate quickly! If you're ok with it then go for it.

[justin 13]

Dude I like olders 2, so I dont think is a wierdo thing like u said. 2 me an older is like 14 to 16.

[schrojo]

you just need to be careful to make sure your not being taken advantage of

[matshorter]

Thanks for all your comments. By the way, I was in deed 16 when it happened, now I'm 17. I guess it was a one-time-only situation and actually I can't imagine he would do it younger boys (under 14).

[SniperKing]

theres nothing wrong with it...

[llwoahll]

U guys aren't 2 far apart so it's ok

[jaxian rhyder]

Well that depends did u do it to do it or did u do it for a relationship

[ska8er]

depends on ur age. ur not weird. im attracted to older guys like 16-17.

[sqishy]

There's nothing really wrong about it; it's fine.
19 and 21 are pretty similar ages, which is always good.

[Pittsburgh]

I guess thats ok if you are good with it.

[ska8er]

depends on ur age. ur not weird. im attracted to older guys 16-17.

[Catholic Guy]

I'm curious and find older guys attractive so it's nothing bad, as long as you are both the legal age for consent where you were then there is nothing wrong, if it was so good can't you do it again anyway instead of leaving it as a one time thing?

[TommyTom]

My gf is older than me but iits only a year and a half ^^ But i think ist ok as Long as u are fine with it :)

[ugaboy]

I guess I find older guys attractive too. Hmmm... younger guys too.

[Harley Quinn]

This was bumped and was not appropriate in the first place. :locked: