Is it alright to ask a girl out if you know a little about them?

[clueless_one]

I like this girl and am thinking of asking her out, but I only know her a little. I waited with other girls to ask them out to get to know them better but instead it seems they loose interest and when I ask them out, they will say no and I loose a friend. So I only know the girl I like a little bit, is it alright to ask her out and if she accepts get to know her or should I wait. I also don't want to loose her as a friend so I'm unsure when I should ask her out.

[HollisterGirl98]

I think you should ask to hangout with her first, as a friend. That way you guys can get to know each other and she feels comfortable around you. Than as the friendship grows, ask her out on a date
Hope this helps!

[clueless_one]

I think you should ask to hangout with her first, as a friend. That way you guys can get to know each other and she feels comfortable around you. Than as the friendship grows, ask her out on a date
Hope this helps!

The girl I like is in one of my classes in school and talks to her friend, her friend then talks to me. Also just recently, her friend asks me questions and I answer but can see the girl I like looking at me and listening also. It seems that she knows more about me than I know about her. But I know a little about her though. Not a lot. Do you think it is okay for me to ask the girl I like out if this is happening.

[Cygnus]

I speak from experience, the answer is a straight up don't do it. Talk to her, if you are friends with someone close to her you can have an undercover person, it will help a lot, always have her interest and escalate your friendship until the time is right.

[clueless_one]

What if she has been showing me signs of liking me during the time i've been with her but don't know her that much.


Signs she likes me

I've noticed my crushes friends look at me a lot. A few of her good friends say hi to me too. I've also over heard them talking about me calling me popular once.

One time one of her good friends entered the classroom and my crush told her something. Her friend then asked me if I have a girlfriend and I said no. My crush smiled at me and looked back at her friend.

I've told her friend that my crush is my favourite. She told her what I said and she smiled at me.

She wanted to know if she was invited to and event I’m organising. I said yes and she smiled.

I told her I like girls from a certain country. She said she is not from the country. I corrected myself saying I like girls who live in the country I’m living in. After I said this she smiled.

She looks at me a lot and maybe also glances at me when talking to her friend in class.

Her shoulders face me in class (Usually occurs in class, when she is talking to her friends behind her, she turns so her shoulders are facing me and her head is facing her friends. Also as she is facing the front, her shoulders are still facing me)

When I was sitting next to her once, her foot seemed to be facing me and her leg was placed in an angle facing me.

She asked me if I missed her, I told her I did and she smiled

One of her friends told her that I like her, she looked in my direction and smiled

My crush was with her friend and was applying cream on her hands which caught my attention to her hands.

Said hi to me and was smiling at me as she said it.

My crushes friend (who is Girl 2) told me to sit next to my crush and her, when I looked at my crush she smiled with a closed mouth. When I moved she was smiling widely.

She smiles a lot at me and it seems her face brightens up when she is with/talks to me.

She smiled and her face brightened up when she told me that I liked her Facebook profile picture

When I gave her an invitation to an event she smiled and her face brightened up

She was speaking to me about the event and was smiling

When sitting next to her and looking at the chalk board I needed to reach over to see the chalk board properly. Instead of standing up and reaching towards the opposite side of me, she stretched towards the way I was reaching over to a point she was about to fall on top of me.

I wasn't sitting near her but she walked around she almost fell on top of me.

Signs she doesn't like me

She seems to talk about other boys to her friends. Not sure if its only when i'm around her.

Confusing signs

I also saw her in the back of a car with two boys from my school at the front of the car. I’m not sure if I should be worried with the situation or if I shouldn’t worry about it. But I saw the car driving out of the road and I saw her turn her head towards me as I was walking on the footpath.

I started exams recently and I asked my crush if we enter the exam rooms. She said yes and on the way to the exam rooms I saw she was walking slowly. I caught up with her and asked her if she was ready. She said she wasn't and asked me if I was ready. I said I was ready bit but when I sit for the exam I forget. She replied alright. She then randomly said if she needed a pencil for the test, I told her she didn't but she could borrow mine. She then moved to the side looking for a pencil while I walked to the exam rooms. When I reached the exam rooms, I saw her again.

She's on Facebook a lot. Sometimes late at night on her mobile device.

I invited my crush to my party. She said that she was able to come but didn't show up. I sent a text message to her friend & instead of her friend texting my crush, my crushes friend gave me her number. I sent my crush a message and She said her parents didn't allow her out, yet she had been to other parties. There is a project due at school so could that be the reason. She said she was able to come to my party a lot and was talking about it a lot.

When sitting in my desk in class, the girl I like brushes past me. Sometimes its her arm, hip or sometimes when i'm looking in my bag she brushes past me and her skirt also brush onto my arms (walks close to me).

[Cygnus]

Said hi to me and was smiling at me as she said it.


That is the most absurd "good sign" ever.

Even if she does like you she might say no because she doesn't know you a lot, make sure she does first, as I said, have someone undercover.

[clueless_one]

That is the most absurd "good sign" ever.

Even if she does like you she might say no because she doesn't know you a lot, make sure she does first, as I said, have someone undercover.

I know her a bit but it seems that due to her friend asking me questions and my crush listening, it seems she knows more about me. I know about her dad and also about her also.

[Rayquaza]

I'd say something different to the above posters.

Go for it and take her out on a date!

Seriously, a date is a great way to know someone. Besides, you don't want to be friend-zoned, you want to show her you want to have an emotional relationship with her. It wouldn't hurt to know her slightly better but regardless, any time between knowing her a little and now would be a good time to ask her. Seriously, go for it.