Haven't kissed

[The LOLer]

Not sure where this goes but yolo

So I'm 14 I haven't even had a first kiss is tat bad? Most people have their first when there 12. I feel mentally immature because of it, yet I've seen porn. Please help. I don't know if I will ever get to kiss a boy/girl(I think I'm bi). People at school are freaking making out in the front of the class.

[Elysium]

I'm older than you and I still haven't had my first kiss. No, it's not abnormal, and you shouldn't feel pressured to rush into something just because everyone else is doing it.

[Croconaw]

It doesn't make you immature. However, people shouldn't be making out in front of a class because that is innappropriate. I'm sure it will happen.

[LiamC]

I'm 16 and still haven't. It's fine, if you haven't had that opportunity you just haven't had the opportunity and that isn't your fault. Your time will come when it comes!

[Hermes96]

i'm 16 and i havent had my first kiss yet. but that might be because theres only one openly gay kid i know and he my best mate :|

[teen.jpg]

It's almost like I posted that :O

[Plane And Simple]

Well whatever gender you like, I can only say time will come. I still haven't had an "official" kiss yet (experimented with a female friend when I was 10) and I'm waiting. It'll happen, try not to rush things

[Kuurachan]

Lolz, don't worry about it. Believe it or not, 14 is still really young. You have your whole life ahead of you. Wouldn't it be glorious to find someone you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life with & that person be the only 1 you kiss? I plan on being an adult before having my first kiss & knowing that person is the only one for me. Kissing a bunch of people you'll probably just forget is a waste of your time, focus on YOUR life and getting better at things & then someday that special someone will come along at just the right time.

[boring_guy]

Most people have their first when there 12.

I don't know where you heard that, but it's not accurate.

[Sweet Smart Smexi]

I havent yet, waiting for Mr Perfect to come along

[raptor13]

19 and still haven't. Don't feel bad (although I've sort of resigned to living alone and being found half eaten by my cats. Don't go that route but don't worry)

[WickedWeekend]

Well, you certainly can have sex with a girl but you can't kiss her? Weird.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=177479

[Lost in the Echo]

It'll happen eventually. There's plenty of other people your age who haven't had their first kiss yet.
Also, you have to understand everyone is different. Everyone's life is different, and everyone goes through different things in life.

You don't need to rush this, bud. It will happen. It doesn't mean anything that people the same age as you are making out and shit like that, because you're not them, you're you. Just focus on yourself. :)

[Jevon]

It is fine i am almost 16 and still haven't had my first kiss

[torcon4421]

haha im 15 and havnt kissed yet, whatever, just go with the flow. and i watch porn too soo haha yea whatever! nbd!

[TheCakeTin]

I think it's good you haven't had your first kiss yet so now you can wait for the right person to come along and your more wise as to how you should pick your person!

[Pinkamena]

I've had sex before as well, but never kissed anyone.

I view sex as an act to fulfill needs, rather than 'making love' to someone. Unless it is someone very special to me, but nobody like that is real, soo... There ya' go.

[The LOLer]

Well, you certainly can have sex with a girl but you can't kiss her? Weird.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=177479

It's a long story. My friend actually had that problem but was to scared to ask.

[MaguireUk]

Theres no rush but just be confident around girls but be yourself at the same time, see who you like and get to know them take them out have fun will happen dont worry :)

[Faolan]

Your fine. I'm 15, almost 16, and I've never even dated. I'm in a bit of a tough situation, because I currently have crushes on three guys and one girl, so it would be hard for me to choose one and ditch the other three.
Dating in high school and middle school isn't that important. Some people do, some people don't.

[Extreme586]

I'm 17 and haven't kissed anybody yet, kind of embarrassing but I've been going through issues for some time now, finally starting to come out of it almost like a trance and my self confidence is coming back.

[Synyster Shadows]

no big deal. well, maybe that's just me cuz I'm ok with waiting...

[Deep Blue Sea]

Not sure where this goes but yolo

So I'm 14 I haven't even had a first kiss is tat bad? Most people have their first when there 12. I feel mentally immature because of it, yet I've seen porn. Please help. I don't know if I will ever get to kiss a boy/girl(I think I'm bi). People at school are freaking making out in the front of the class.

I'm 13 and started making out with a boy back in November. But the thing is, we love each other a lot. I just got lucky and fell in with the right person and we hit it off right away. But I don't think of our first kiss, which was beautiful and spectacular, as some kind of score achievement. Or think I'm better than you in any way or more mature or advanced. I'm just very damn lucky.

BTW, as far as the Bi aspect goes, we both like women and plan to both have a wife and kids when we grow up.

[BebeFleur.]

Don't rush. :) Its no big deal! You are just waiting for the right person, so it can be a special moment. I haven't either, and it seems quite a few here haven't either, so, trust me, you're not out of the norm. :)

[justin 13]

Dude, U will be kissed soon dont worry about it.

[MikeSpace]

Just be patient and stay positive! It will happen! :D

[Goonch97]

Never had one before, can't do it because of my country's strict laws against underage sexual activity

[coder]

Lol, dont worry, it will come. My first kiss was late at night when i was with my friend, (we were coming from a junk car rally and there was street fair too) two girls wanted to go to rally but they didn't have money for it, so we gave them money and they gave us both kiss, it lasted about 15 seconds. LOl, i didnt even see the girls face :D hahah :D:D

I was 14 then.

[The LOLer]

Never had one before, can't do it because of my country's strict laws against underage sexual activity

:confused: kissing is sexual?

[Twilly F. Sniper]

No... I have not yet either. But, that really isn't a problem to me.

[Goonch97]

:confused: kissing is sexual?

It's considered as a sexual harassment act if without the other person's consent

[ChicagoBlackhawksFan]

Dude your not alone. I'm 20 and don't have a gf yet and haven't got my first kiss yet. But your time will come!

[Lola115]

I had mine when I was 11, but it's perfectly fine! A first kiss can be a big thing in life, so you don't want to rush it!

[Silicate Wielder]

Not sure where this goes but yolo

So I'm 14 I haven't even had a first kiss is tat bad? Most people have their first when there 12. I feel mentally immature because of it, yet I've seen porn. Please help. I don't know if I will ever get to kiss a boy/girl(I think I'm bi). People at school are freaking making out in the front of the class.

It's normal. I plan to wait to have my first kiss, actually.

[confusedteen33]

I didn't have mine til I was almost 16

[indoxyl]

My last boyfriend didnt kiss anybody until he was 20. So theres that

[Miserabilia]

I had my first kiss when I was 12, but havent kissed since. your not missing much, whenh you are as young as 12 its not really enjoyable enyway. its much more romantic when you are 14+

[teenmanchester]

It's really fine not to have kissed at that age. Mine was last year when I was 17, got kissed by a girl once and then got snogged by her at a party a few months later. I regret them both mostly because it's a girl but it's done now and I can't change it.

[RazorEdge]

Whoever said to you most people have their first kiss when they were twelve lied to you.

[Fanta_Lover44]

Dude, don't worry. I still haven't had my first kiss yet, don't rush anything.