My friend has had sex.

[Goth_ben]

I realy need help in discouraging her!:eek::confused:

[Sapphire]

You can't stop her, just make sure she uses protection.

[Dolphus Raymond]

The best thing you can do is be honest to her and tell her that you're worried. It may risk your relationship to judge her, but if the risk is worth protecting her, by all means, do it. If she's being unsafe, there's no harm in telling her your concerns. She may react unreasonably but it's what friends are for.

[Gumleaf]

puberty for boys - relationships & dating

[Actor]

you need to let her know she could get pregnant and it is harder when you are younger to deal with it.

[notsure101]

you need to let her know she could get pregnant and it is harder when you are younger to deal with it.


tell me about it

[Lifesreject]

Dont g over the top with the adice just let her know you are concerned and want to make sure that she is safe.

[byee]

Well, what is it that you're concerned about? It's helpful to be very specific in voicing what your concerns are. And it might also be important to recognize that people make decisions, even bad ones, and that they're entitled to do so. Sharing your concerns about anything doesn't necessarily mean the other person will agree, be careful not to get into an argument over it.

[PrLatino93]

i would definitly tell her. i had a frend like that. wen i wuz in 7th i was frends wit this girl in 9th. me and a couple of our frends would go over her house and stuff. every1 used to hang out wit her brother but i hung out wit her. me n her were like best frends. then she started having sex. i told her you way to young if u do use protection. she didnt use protection and on top of that, she was screwing different guys. then finally 1 day she told me get a prenancy test 4 her. omg u dong even no how embarrassed i wus. she wasnt pregnant but i our frendship fell from there. i think i kept telling her, mayb she would have stop, but i tried and i cant help it that she screws every guy. if you care 4 ur frend tell her imediatly

[Bankai15]

Just tell her you are concerned, its not really your buisness what she does in her personal time, she just needs to be aware of the concequences.

[Maverick]

Just tell her you are concerned, its not really your buisness what she does in her personal time, she just needs to be aware of the concequences.
And who's to say she isn't aware of the consequences. Let's not jump to conclusions.

[A.J.]

you shouldnt discourage her at all. you may not like what shes doing but you have no right to put her down. its her buisness and her life so you cant control what she feels or does.

[Break the Cage]

its their choice if they want to have sex, by all means give advice but dont tell her what to do.