How to stop masterbating

[July]

Hi! I want to stop jerking off, but it is so hard. How do I stop?

[edlloyd]

Hi! I want to stop jerking off, but it is so hard. How do I stop?

Hi! I'm curious as to why you want to stop? Wanking is very natural, and you must admit, orgasms are the best thing, EVER? So do you have a reason for wanting to stop? :)

[bugen4]

It's natural and normal to masturbate, but at the same time it's also natural and normal to not want to masturbate.

Taking from your post, I assume you've already masturbated and so you probably already know how good it feels, which makes it that much harder to stop. It's like going on a diet; when you try to cut out sweets but it's so difficult because they're so good!

It's all about self control. First, try and keep yourself busy so that you're mind is not always focused on sex. Do some sports, play outside, pick up a hobby... do homework!

Second, when ever you do have free time, try your best to not be overcome by any sexual desires. It can be difficult, since as a teenager, hormones are just raging through out our body. That's where the self control lies. It's especially tough if you're on the computer all the time where online porn is easily available.

If you're really determined to stop masturbating, then you probably will on your own, but like I first said, there's absolutely nothing wrong with doing it.

[gotstyle]

Idk seems so impossible

[SniperKing]

When you get horny picture something reeeaalllyyy gross...

[July]

Thanks bugen4

[tovaris]

Don't
Why would you want to stop?

[sdude]

It's really a no-win to stop...or waste your time thinking about trying. It is healthy, natural and completely harmless to masturbate. It increases your sexual practice, provides a release instead of semen build up and release in your bed at night (wet dreams) and makes puberty worth getting through....It eases tension, provides necessary exercise of your prostate gland (limiting your likelihood of prostate cancer), and feels like nothing else you can do with your body to make it soo happy!! You would be much better off getting yourself over the "guilts" and enjoy your bodily function, cause it's nothing different than going for a pee or taking a crap...u just gotta...everyone does!

[Samual]

why would you want to stop masturbating? if its because youve heard some negative effects, they are WRONG! WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG! masturbating is a perfectly nomal and healthy thing to do. you only get negative effects if you are constantly doing it 4-5 times a day, every day.

[NeuroTiger]

I'm in some same situation like you...a real determination and a mastery of self control are indeed of utmost importance. Good luck my friend...if you keep yourself busy, as suggested by our friend above, it will surely makes u less tempted.

[sdude]

I'm in some same situation like you...a real determination and a mastery of self control are indeed of utmost importance. Good luck my friend...if you keep yourself busy, as suggested by our friend above, it will surely makes u less tempted.

SO, why are you trying to stop??? Do you enjoy waking up with your shorts or pajamas soaked in jizz???

[disckjokeyman]

u shouldnt touch there and never think about anything sexuality and u mustnt be alone or get completely naked

[Ballboy]

Guys, guys! This is nonsense. You have to get rid of u'r excess semen to keep the supply fresh & healthy. You shouldn't stop and probably can't. I tried a couple of times and then, after a coupla days, creamed my shorts while doing sit-ups or chin-ups. It's useless trying to stop. U might as well allow yourself to enjoy it.

[riverboy]

I agree with everything said above and wear oven mits all the time too

[Troy35216]

You have to get rid of u'r excess semen to keep the supply fresh & healthy.
ummm. no. there is no such thing as excess semen. semen is only made when it's needed. if you are talking about sperm, if sperm aren't released they are broken down and reabsorbed into the body.

[Lovelife090994]

ummm. no. there is no such thing as excess semen. semen is only made when it's needed. if you are talking about sperm, if sperm aren't released they are broken down and reabsorbed into the body.

So not masturbating won't cause pain or pressure from semen and sperm build up...

[bugen4]

You have to get rid of u'r excess semen to keep the supply fresh & healthy.
This statement is completely false. There is no such thing as excess semen. Sperm is continually made in the testicles and any sperm that is not used is simply re-absorbed into the body and your testicles make more "fresh and healthy" supply.

I tried a couple of times and then, after a coupla days, creamed my shorts while doing sit-ups or chin-ups. It's useless trying to stop.

If you don't masturbate, your sperm isn't going to just accumulate in your balls to the point that it will spill out or anything. It's hormones and mentality.
If one stops masturbating but your mind is so heavily focused on sex and how you're not getting any (be it though intercourse or masturbation), you will wet yourself.

So not masturbating won't cause pain or pressure from semen and sperm build up...

No, it will not. There is no such thing as "blue balls". And I said before, there is no sperm build up, it will all be re-absorbed into the body while your testicles make more.

I think I read somewhere in the rules about posting stories in these forums, but the story I have is related to this problem.
A few years ago, my high school had a JROTC summer camp thing that was for nothing but boys. The camp lasted about two months and we were kept busy through out those whole two months that I didn't even have time to think about sex, much less masturbate. It wasn't until we had about 2 weeks left before we were about to get out, we would finally be able to see our family and friends. My girlfriend was coming and I just could not wait to see her, all I kept thinking about was wanting to do her when she got here. Lo and behold, because I kept thinking about it so much, I ended up waking up one night with cum in my underwear.
Not having sex (or masturbating) gave me no problems those entire 2 months up until I started thinking about it so much for that last week.

Like I said, it's all a matter of mentality.

[Ballboy]

Suppose i admitted that u'r sperm & semen don't need to be drained or renewed... (not sure). Suppose there's no physical benefit?
Resistance is still futile. You're still goin to shoot anyway. You just ARE alright?
There's no good reason that i kno of to NOT masturbate.
It's the least harmful kind of sexual activity.
... And it feels good.
Why would u stop? Or try to?

[finnhd]

= I tried a couple of times and then, after a coupla days, creamed my shorts while doing sit-ups or chin-ups.

oh my god the imagery lol :rolleyes::rolleyes::P:P:P

[Troy35216]

So not masturbating won't cause pain or pressure from semen and sperm build up...
correct.

Suppose i admitted that u'r sperm & semen don't need to be drained or renewed... (not sure). Suppose there's no physical benefit?
Resistance is still futile. You're still goin to shoot anyway. You just ARE alright?
There's no good reason that i kno of to NOT masturbate.
It's the least harmful kind of sexual activity.
... And it feels good.
Why would u stop? Or try to?i jerk of 2-3 times a day. it doesn't matter if there's no good reason that YOU know of not to masturbate or that I know of not to masturbate. the OP might not even have a good reason not to masturbate. maybe he has a bad reason not to masturbate. but he didn't ask if there was a reason not to do it he asked how he could stop. Personally I don't think he can, at least not for more than a few days, but since he asked I'm not gonna try to talk him out of it.

if you busted a nut doing sit-ups i bet the guy who was holding your feet down thinks you REALLY like him! :D

[Ballboy]

oh my god the imagery lol :rolleyes::rolleyes::P:P:P

I kno! Lol!
Though both times I was actually glad of the "accident" (maybe not surprising!). It was a huge relief. :-)

[lambo420]

Krazy-Glue Your hands together

[Ballboy]

correct.

i jerk of 2-3 times a day. it doesn't matter if there's no good reason that YOU know of not to masturbate or that I know of not to masturbate. the OP might not even have a good reason not to masturbate. maybe he has a bad reason not to masturbate. but he didn't ask if there was a reason not to do it he asked how he could stop. Personally I don't think he can, at least not for more than a few days, but since he asked I'm not gonna try to talk him out of it.

if you busted a nut doing sit-ups i bet the guy who was holding your feet down thinks you REALLY like him! :D

Ok. Point taken. Sorry I can't help someone to stop, and maybe i should just keep my opinions to myself if i cant help.
... But the reason I can't help is that it can't be done -- so I'd be no friend if I tried to "help" him do what can't be done. The kindest thing is to point a person to the truth I think. The guys here who are giving "good" advice (as requested) on things that'll help someone to stop are only drawing out the agony and not doing the OP any favours. What's worse, I suspect that maybe they kno that! :-( and don't mind leaving the guy struggling.

Btw, happily my feet were under my own bed as I did my sit-ups! :-) . But imagine if it happened in gym! #red-face#

[Charlie48]

discipline, same with people who are teetotalers.

[Lovelife090994]

This statement is completely false. There is no such thing as excess semen. Sperm is continually made in the testicles and any sperm that is not used is simply re-absorbed into the body and your testicles make more "fresh and healthy" supply.



If you don't masturbate, your sperm isn't going to just accumulate in your balls to the point that it will spill out or anything. It's hormones and mentality.
If one stops masturbating but your mind is so heavily focused on sex and how you're not getting any (be it though intercourse or masturbation), you will wet yourself.



No, it will not. There is no such thing as "blue balls". And I said before, there is no sperm build up, it will all be re-absorbed into the body while your testicles make more.

I think I read somewhere in the rules about posting stories in these forums, but the story I have is related to this problem.
A few years ago, my high school had a JROTC summer camp thing that was for nothing but boys. The camp lasted about two months and we were kept busy through out those whole two months that I didn't even have time to think about sex, much less masturbate. It wasn't until we had about 2 weeks left before we were about to get out, we would finally be able to see our family and friends. My girlfriend was coming and I just could not wait to see her, all I kept thinking about was wanting to do her when she got here. Lo and behold, because I kept thinking about it so much, I ended up waking up one night with cum in my underwear.
Not having sex (or masturbating) gave me no problems those entire 2 months up until I started thinking about it so much for that last week.

Like I said, it's all a matter of mentality.


I have gone w/o masterbation for two weeks before, it was easy. I'm at half a week now.

[jacktheawesome]

I would die without it

[johnsmith1]

Ity's true (and there are many articles on the internet) for males that masturbating does help in reducing the risk of prostate cancer. The prostate being where semen is made. IDK maybe it's just a way of keeping that part active. It terms of sperm, yes not all is ejaculated, and the fact that some is absorbed back in the body will answer the question for any biys here who later in life decide to have a vacetomy and have that common question about where sperm goes at that point. Agreed that it's also fun! (In terms of femails, fun is the main reason, as they don't have a prostate gland). here heems a mix of boys here who seem to "blow their load" after a short space of days, if they don't masturbate, and those that seem to be OK. All I know, is if I stop for a few days, I have a permanent boner wanting attention, and a mind thinking of nothing else!

[Goonch97]

The urge to masturbate is cumulative, just stop doing it and it will just fade

[Ballboy]

The urge to masturbate is cumulative, just stop doing it and it will just fade

U kno this? How?

[Goonch97]

U kno this? How?

I asked around, most of them will stop doing it if they controlled the urge

[Pinkamena]

It's never been an issue for me. I can go ages without fapping and not think about it much, if I want, or am too busy.

My advice: Keep yourself preoccupied with other things.

[Ballboy]

I give up.
u guys try to stop doing it if u really want to. I just don't get it and I think it's a mistake.
:-(

[Hybridoxidation]

Why would you wanna stop fapping in the first place? Nothing wrong with it :I But then again I didn't bother to read the original post sooo xD Get preoccupied with things, don't watch porn, don't look at hot girls, etc xD

[Kasidit]

It is So NORMAL ! It's still NORMAL as long as you Jack off in the RIGHT TIME :)
So Jack off is the normal things that every boy and every men does it You know like..
Dad used to be a boy and when he grew up he has sons so he just know that his sons must jack off Because he knows ( every boys knows ) that we jack off