Holding Hands

[JayC77]

Ok, so I'm technically in a relationship, but then again technically not (let's not quibble about what to call it :P). Basically, there's this girl, who I go on dates with, we hug, we kiss, etc... except for holding hands. Now me personally, I kind of enjoy it, however I've never actually tried it with her, either because she almost always has something in her hands or has them in her pockets. Is that sort of her way of saying she's uncomfortable with it or is it just simply coincidental that her hands are always otherwise occupied :P?

[jayyy-lmao]

You should maybe ask her. I would always automatically do something with my hands at all times, and she's not used to just letting her hands be. So sometime, just ask her if you can hold her hand. It is quite cute to see people doing it.

[germangirl]

I personally would think she's uncomfortable with holding hands. But on the other hand you never did it, so how could she? I guess Jenny's right - you should ask her or just don't hold hands if you don't want to ask her directly ;)

[Croconaw]

Just ask her if you can do it. She wouldn't find it weird or anything.