Help with my crush

[roquetking]

So, this girl got into my algebra class like 3 months ago, but i never talked to her until like a month ago. I started talking to her and asked for her number and we have been talking on a daily basis on school and by text. Last week I starting sitting next to her in lunch and my friends came with me and we talk and everything normal. Also, last week we stayed almost everyday after school to do club activities and i spend a lot of time with her, I waited for her parents to come pick her up so that she didn't have to wait alone. On Thursday last week, my best female friend who is friends with her too, asked her if she liked me and she blushed and said: "why do you think I'm blushing?". Then later on Friday in lunch, my friends were like bothering me with her and pushed us against each other so like we could sit really close to each other, I barely talked to her. My best friend told me she had talked to her and she said she didn't want to be into a relationship because it's almost summer and it was hard for us to meet, but that wouldn't be a problem for me cos I would find a way to meet her often. Then at Friday night, I asked to go out with me and she said yes, we went out last weekend and she brought her sister because she wasn't able to go alone. Her sister is her same age and she spend all the night following us using her phone. We had fun. My best friend then asked her what she thought about me and her having a relationship and she said she didn't want a relationship right now, my best friend told her that I liked her a lot. Now, this week I've seen her very distant, we haven't talked a lot on school and our text conversations have been short. So I decided I have to tell her what I feel for her and asked her today If we could talk after school and she said she might be leaving early so I said it was okay, that if we didn't talk today well talk another day. At the end of the day, one of her friends told me not to tell her anything today cos she was mad because she had a problem in her class. So, since I didn't see her I decided to go home. But now I don't know what to do, should I write and give her a letter, or talk to her Monday afterschool, or what do you think would be best? Any ideas?
Thank you for reading this long thing and for helping

[germangirl]

Sounds like you two had a pretty good start and sounds like she likes you! If she doesn’t want a relationship you have to accept that. Maybe she likes you only in a friend way or she simply isn’t ready for a relationship right now, and you have to wait. Now since you both know you like each other, and that she knows you are interested in her, maybe that’s the reason why you’re barely talking anymore. Maybe she is afraid of talking to you alone because she fears that you’ll ask her what she thinks about you and her having a relationship, and she’s afraid of that situation because she has to disappoint you. You have two possibilities: On the one hand you could say/write her how you feel – but I guess she already knows how, and you could hope she lied to her friend, and wants a relationship or more dating. On the other hand you could accept the fact she doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now (even if she never said that in front of you directly), and tell her so. Just say something like “You know, I like you really much (and tell her how you feel), but I’ve heard you don’t want to be in a relationship with me, and I want you to know that I’m absolutely okay with that. I’m just telling you that because I hope we can still meet, spend time together and talk like we are used to do, because you are a good friend of mine.”. If I were you, I would definitely talk to her.

[HockeyLovesMe]

ya good advice germangirl i would prolly go with that to :) good luck :)

[roquetking]

Thanks for the advice. I will talk to her this week :)