Everything is falling apart

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

My grandpa is slipping away from us. He's a 62 y/o man and he's dying. My mom says he has to get open heart surgery to fix leakage but that doesn't fix the fact that his part of his heart isn't working at all anymore. He swells up horribly. He is having issues breathing. His body isn't getting rid of the excess water in his system. I just cannot lose him, not now, not ever. Maybe I'm too attached to him but I've been super close with my moms side of the family forever and my grandpa has been a major father figure, like my uncle. Its just not fair.

One of my friends isn't letting people contact her and what she left behind says she either ran away or committed suicide, maybe both. I don't know, I can't see her, she won't answer any message.
Edit: SHE'S OKAY, SORTA!

I just cannot take anymore bad news, ANY! I don't know what to do anymore. I just want to scream as loud as I can until ever thing just ends. This is all too much and I don't know what to do.

[Hyper]

I'd scream if I were you.

Probably break a few things as well and cry in a corner.

And that would be okey. People we love passing away isn't and can't be easy. Even the possibility of it happening is gut wrenching. And the fact that we are helpless to change those things is a horrible thing but we always have to hope for the best and enjoy the moments we have with the people we love.

When my grandfather died I was heart broken as well and heavily depressed for months afterwards... But thinking back on it years after the last 2 months he lived with us was some of the best in my child hood and I'll always remember my grandfather.

Reality is that in our lifetimes we will have to see people die. Unless our own lives are cut short we will see our grandparents die, our parents die and others we love die. It doesn't make it any easier knowing it but it is what it is.

And after every death and mourning life goes on for us and we have to keep living for ourselves and the people we love.

If your grandfather is still lucid spend as much time with him as you can and do your best not to think about the worst possible outcome.

[Fanta_Lover44]

My grandpa is slipping away from us. He's a 62 y/o man and he's dying. My mom says he has to get open heart surgery to fix leakage but that doesn't fix the fact that his part of his heart isn't working at all anymore. He swells up horribly. He is having issues breathing. His body isn't getting rid of the excess water in his system. I just cannot lose him, not now, not ever. Maybe I'm too attached to him but I've been super close with my moms side of the family forever and my grandpa has been a major father figure, like my uncle. Its just not fair.

One of my friends isn't letting people contact her and what she left behind says she either ran away or committed suicide, maybe both. I don't know, I can't see her, she won't answer any message.

I just cannot take anymore bad news, ANY! I don't know what to do anymore. I just want to scream as loud as I can until ever thing just ends. This is all too much and I don't know what to do.

Oh no! Thats awfull :( I do feel for you, the feeling of losing someone close to you is something in witch we have to face here and there. Its not easy and some find it hard if i where you spend time with your grandad, make the last of your memories with him. It will make him happy as well. It's a shame that things dont work out. Unfortantly i have never lost anyone close to me but in the upcoming years i will lose my grandad as he has a bad issue, after his second stroke he started forgetting things. I would of loved to meet my grandad before he forgot who i was, i would love for a grandad, spend some time with him, it will be a shock when he goes but your a strong person!

[The LOLer]

My grandpa is slipping away from us. He's a 62 y/o man and he's dying. My mom says he has to get open heart surgery to fix leakage but that doesn't fix the fact that his part of his heart isn't working at all anymore. He swells up horribly. He is having issues breathing. His body isn't getting rid of the excess water in his system. I just cannot lose him, not now, not ever. Maybe I'm too attached to him but I've been super close with my moms side of the family forever and my grandpa has been a major father figure, like my uncle. Its just not fair.

One of my friends isn't letting people contact her and what she left behind says she either ran away or committed suicide, maybe both. I don't know, I can't see her, she won't answer any message.
Edit: SHE'S OKAY, SORTA!

I just cannot take anymore bad news, ANY! I don't know what to do anymore. I just want to scream as loud as I can until ever thing just ends. This is all too much and I don't know what to do.
Its not easy, having a loved one go. But would you want him to suffer? Everything has to go, you need to let him go. Its never easy but were here for ya,