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ukbiboy
May 30th, 2013, 07:50 PM
Hey,

So one of my best friends is openly bi, the other has a girlfriend and from what everyone knows is straight. It's awkward at the moment because we all secretly know each other is bi and it's obvious we know through joking around and stuff but none of us have actually told the others.

So my question is, I don't want to be the one who brings the topic up and says about being bi but how can I kind of make it more obvious so hopefully one of the others will? We are friends and nothing more and we know that but at the moment it's quite awkward. I guess we are all too shy to say anything, if anyone would say anything it would be the openly bi one.

What should I do?

Thanks

joshM1996
May 30th, 2013, 09:21 PM
honestly id say just tell him straight up, i always get super stressed and shit when i tell people because idk how to say it, but then i always just tell the straight up and its always seemed to work for me

Liven
May 30th, 2013, 09:33 PM
Hey,

So one of my best friends is openly bi, the other has a girlfriend and from what everyone knows is straight. It's awkward at the moment because we all secretly know each other is bi and it's obvious we know through joking around and stuff but none of us have actually told the others.

So my question is, I don't want to be the one who brings the topic up and says about being bi but how can I kind of make it more obvious so hopefully one of the others will? We are friends and nothing more and we know that but at the moment it's quite awkward. I guess we are all too shy to say anything, if anyone would say anything it would be the openly bi one.

What should I do?

Thanks

Be open about your sexuality. If you tell your friends and they laugh and make fun of you then they are not your friends.

If you hide your sexuality then it could start rumors.

Hope this helped motivate you!

HockeyLovesMe
June 1st, 2013, 10:47 AM
im not to sure its good to be open about it but then again im bi and only 1 of my friends knows and im not telling nobody else at my school for sure but ya i guess u have to do wat u think is best for u :)

dontfiguremeout
June 1st, 2013, 11:43 AM
Puberty Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality. This is a better place for your question.

Hermes96
June 1st, 2013, 12:23 PM
Don't wait for one of them to bring it up. try telling them first so then they will talk to you. they are probably in the sam are. e position as you

LiamC
June 1st, 2013, 02:02 PM
You just have to swallow your fear and bring it up. It's never easy, but if you feel hesitation like this don't rush into it. It's something you have to do when you're ready!

teen.jpg
June 1st, 2013, 06:36 PM
I don't understand what your question is ...

confusedteen33
June 4th, 2013, 04:03 PM
Bring it up at a sleep over with all of u there.

KimuraWannabe116
June 4th, 2013, 04:48 PM
This is not the easiest subject to bring up. You could bring it up if you are having a disscussion about a subject that is similar to that. That is the only way I can think of.

Pinkamena
June 4th, 2013, 04:48 PM
Only one of my friends cared when I said I was bi, but he got over it.
Incidentally, the same friend was the only one that cared when I told them I was a zoosexual.

MikeSpace
June 4th, 2013, 05:03 PM
Just be honest! If they're true friends, they will accept anything! :)