secrets

[dvd333]

So when is a good time to tell your significant other your "dirty little secrerts" ? Such as fetishes, preferences, or your experiences...im asking because i want to tell my girl friends that i have a foot fetish. We're very close and i want to share everything with them as they have with me. Im just too scared to do it... any advice helps. Thanks! Pm me if you woul like to have a deeper convo about this.

[ukbiboy]

If you share everything then any time is a good time. It's when you feel your relationship is strong and telling them things like that won't risk your relationship.

[dvd333]

How do i get over the fear?

[ukbiboy]

How do i get over the fear?

I guess a way to do it is say about your secret in like a joking way so if she responds badly you have the backup of saying it's just a joke. If she responds well then..well...that's that sorted.

Like talk about weird things then bring up foot fetishes and if she responds like "ewww" then you haven't at any point said you like foot fetishes and if she responds well you can say you like them.

That's what would work for me but obviously everyone is different.

[dvd333]

Okay. I dont want to lie though...

[ukbiboy]

Okay. I dont want to lie though...

I see your fears but if you just bring up the subject without actually saying you like it you wouldn't be lying, you wouldn't have said you like it, if she responds badly you simply don't say you like it and wait for a better time.

[dvd333]

Oh. I see. That makes more sense

[HockeyLovesMe]

i think if u like your friends and they like you i dont think they would rly care that you have that because i think it is kind of normal so ya why not tell them :) hope it works out :)

[dvd333]

i think if u like your friends and they like you i dont think they would rly care that you have that because i think it is kind of normal so ya why not tell them :) hope it works out :)

Thanks! Me too!