emotional and verbal abuse for 7 years! i cant take it!

[princess09]

My step mum is south African and has emotionally and verbally abused me for seven years in November, she's stopping me from seeing my dad, ever since they came back to this countryI have received a lot of abuse.. I don't talk to my dad but I miss him, she's so controlling, whenever to ring my dad to chat or to say about school stuff I have to go through her first, I hate her! She hates me to by all means I don't care. how can I talk to my dad without her being involved, I'm so scared to go round to his house keeping in mind they move from one house to another I don't know where they are, the last time I saw him was in February and she threatened to break my arm. Luckily I was with my sister that went bilistic at her. I really do miss him. How can I contact him, stop the abuse, or even just make myself feel happier. I don't remember the last time he gave me a hug which puts me down and it upsets me so much, my family are against ,me for hating him so I feel lonely and really low, I used to cut because of it, but I stopped. I can't sleep at night, I have nightmares because of it I just want it to stop! Any advice sorry if this is really long for you to read

[Hermes96]

if you know what time she works or is out of the huse try to contact your dad. make sure he knows how you feel. i can't imagine how hard this must be for you but try to stay strong

[princess09]

if you know what time she works or is out of the huse try to contact your dad. make sure he knows how you feel. i can't imagine how hard this must be for you but try to stay strong

Thakyou, I don't know any thing I haven't heard or seem either of them since February I don't even know where he is

[Hermes96]

ok pm me if it changers

[Miri]

Wether she likes it or not, you have the right to at least communicate with your dad.

Calling him might be a bit risky for you though. Find a way to get his email, and then it'll be much easier for you to talk to each other, as you don't have to wait until it's convenient for both of you.

If you are able to find him on Facebook, you an get his email there. If you don't have Facebook, you can have a friend look him up for you.

[PurpleNovel]

I've gone through verbal abuse for six years with my mom. it's painful and I'm so sorry it's happening to you. Please don't think you've done anything wrong. Trust me when I say IT'S NOT YOU.